In recent years, domestic violence incidents have occurred repeatedly, and behind each domestic violence incident there are many social problems and human tragedies. On the evening of December 13, 2019, in Wenzhou City, Zhejiang Province, a domestic violence incident once again aroused widespread concern in the society. In this incident, a woman was beaten by her husband and father-in-law, and the exposure of the incident sparked heated public opinion. However, what is thought-provoking is that the focus of public opinion is mainly on the issue of dowry and cheating, and the attention to the issue of domestic violence does not seem to be enough, which also reflects a special cognitive and thinking path of society in the face of domestic violence.
1. Dowry causes domestic violence, and traditional concepts are still deeply rooted
In this domestic violence incident, the woman Sun Qian was beaten by her husband Jiang Ruiming and father-in-law Jiang Yuqin, and the cause of the incident was because Sun Qian asked Jiang Ruiming for her dowry. It turned out that Sun Qian's marriage has always had contradictions and problems, and the main reason for this is because Sun Qian was suspected of cheating by her husband and father-in-law and suffered continuous domestic violence. However, in the face of domestic violence, Sun Qian has always chosen to be patient, until she finally asked Jiang Ruiming for the dowry, which triggered the outbreak of domestic violence.
The issue of dowry played a driving role in this domestic violence incident and has also become one of the focuses of public opinion. Traditionally, the dowry is seen as an important factor in the stability of the family, and the wife's return of the dowry is often seen as a precursor to divorce, which can lead to extreme behavior on the part of the husband and father-in-law. In this incident, the existence of the dowry issue undoubtedly exacerbated the contradictions between husband and wife and family relations, and further amplified and exploded the problem of domestic violence.
2. Psychological shadows and social support for victims of domestic violence
Sun Qian has suffered domestic violence for a long time, both physically and mentally, and has suffered great damage, however, she has always chosen to endure until she can't bear it anymore, and then asks her husband for a dowry. This has also made people think deeply about the psychological shadow and social support system of victims of domestic violence.
In real life, there are many victims of domestic violence, like Sun Qian, who choose to be patient for various reasons and cannot get out of the violent relationship in time, which also brings a great threat to their personal safety and mental health. Therefore, we need to pay more attention to the psychological shadow of victims of domestic violence, provide them with more comprehensive psychological assistance and support, and help them rebuild their confidence in life and face and solve problems bravely.
At the same time, at the social level, it is also necessary to establish a more complete and effective support system, so that victims of domestic violence can receive timely help and protection, so that they no longer feel lonely and helpless, so that they can bravely get out of the shadow of domestic violence and move towards a new life journey.
3. Root causes of domestic violence and prevention mechanisms
The occurrence of this domestic violence incident has made people deeply reflect on the issue of domestic violence. Domestic violence is not an isolated incident that occurs at one time and one place, but there is a certain degree of universality and systemiality, and there are often many social problems and contradictions behind it.
In order to fundamentally solve the problem of domestic violence, it is not enough to condemn and pay attention to individual incidents, we need to dig deep into the root causes of domestic violence and explore the deep-seated causes of domestic violence. Only by starting from family relations, educational concepts, social culture, and other aspects to find out the root causes of domestic violence can we carry out targeted prevention and intervention work and effectively curb the occurrence and spread of domestic violence.
In addition, it is also necessary to establish a multi-participatory cooperation mechanism, including government departments, social organizations, the media and the general public, to participate in the resolution of domestic violence. Only through the joint efforts of the whole society can we build a more solid protection net for victims of domestic violence, so that they can receive adequate care and help, and can also prevent the occurrence of domestic violence at the source, so as to achieve long-term social harmony.
Epilogue:
The occurrence of domestic violence incidents has made us see the side of family relationships and social problems, and also made us have a deep reflection on traditional concepts and social realities. In the face of such incidents, we need to dare to face up to the existence of the problem, dare to deeply explore various social issues, whether it is the issue of dowry or domestic violence, we need to pay attention to and think together, and we also need to be able to draw some useful inspiration and reflection from it, so as to help the progress and improvement of society. I hope that every family can be full of warmth and love, and I also hope that everyone can bravely face problems and bravely lend a helping hand, so that love can become our common belief and a source of strength for us to solve problems.