In the blind date market, is appearance really hard currency?
Today, let's talk about a hot topic - in the blind date market, is appearance a hard currency? Recently, a buddy posted a blind date on the Internet, which suddenly became a hot search topic, and everyone talked about it. So, how important is appearance in the blind date market? Let's talk about it.
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First of all, this buddy said that in the blind date market, appearance is sometimes even more useful than money. He said, as long as your image is good enough, you can exchange for almost any marital value, such as wealth and power. This sounds a bit exaggerated, but when you think about it, there seems to be some truth to it. Do you think, now that people's living standards have improved, who doesn't want to find a good-looking other half? After all, being good-looking is also a kind of capital!
However, this remark has also aroused heated discussions among many netizens. Some netizens said, it's true, I talked about it myself and looked pretty good.
But some netizens retorted that looking for a husband really doesn't need to look at the face, character and emotional stability are the most important. This also makes sense, after all, marriage is not a beauty pageant, although appearance is important, it is definitely not the only criterion.
So, let's take a look at the story from history. It is said that as soon as she appeared, even the fish forgot to swim in the water and sank to the bottom of the water to admire her beauty. Although this is a legend, it also shows that appearance also had a certain status in ancient times. However, we also have to understand that the reason why Xi Shi is famous in history is not only because of her beauty, but also because of her wisdom and morality.
Let's talk about modern society. Now, there are more ways to go on a blind date, including online blind dates, offline blind dates, and various blind date activities. In these occasions, appearance is often a factor that cannot be ignored.
Sometimes, as soon as two people meet, they haven't talked much, and they have already given each other a score in their hearts. This score is often determined based on appearance.
However, we also have to understand a truth, that is, although appearance is important, it is definitely not the only criterion.
As the married friend just said, the first element of marriage is character, and the second is emotional stability. That's to the point. You think, if two people are always quarreling and unhappy together, it's useless to look good!
So, I think that in the blind date market, although appearance is an important factor, it must not be the only criterion. We have to consider each other's personality, character, family background and other factors to make the right choice.
Having said all that, I've got to make a joke. This blind date market, just like when we go to the vegetable market, we have to pick and choose in order to choose the most suitable dish.
The appearance is like those beautiful vegetables in the vegetable market, which makes people like it when they look at it. But we also have to see if the vegetables are fresh and taste good before we can decide whether to buy them or not!
Although the appearance in the blind date market is important, it must not be a decisive factor. We have to look at this problem rationally and don't be blinded by appearance. After all, getting married is a lifelong event, and you have to think about it!