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What should I do if the leader excludes me and wants to drive me away?

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A full-level reader shared his own workplace troubles, which I found very interesting, and I will expand on it.

He said his immediate boss had persuaded him to leave the industry and go back to inherit the family business, after hearing that his father was the owner of an auto repair company.

What the leader means is that you either go back and take over, or use your father's industry resources to work on the tram, in short, don't stay any longer.

But he likes what he is doing now, and he wants to devote his life to it, and he did make more money in the past few years, more profitable than his father's industry.

But the leader kept persuading him, and he felt that he was being targeted.

For the purpose of protecting the privacy of readers, which city, what industry, I have played a mosaic, and I find it interesting that the last two words: target.

This is very common, almost all of us have felt targeted at school or in the workplace.

I wanted to laugh when I heard this reader's case alone, because I had roughly guessed what the boss was thinking.

The job you are in is under the influence of great changes, and the conversation between you and your boss is like the conversation between Yu Zecheng and the webmaster in "Latent".

In 49 years, the stationmaster had actually found a way out, maybe he used to be a good student of Chang Kaishen, but at this moment, he didn't believe anything but gold bars.

The stationmaster decided that the defeat was decided, and he was ready to go to the United States to open a company, and wanted Yu Zecheng to quit with him.

Yu Zecheng was not, in front of the stationmaster, he repeatedly expressed his determination to stick to the last moment.

Of course, Yu Zecheng is an undercover agent of our army, he deliberately expressed his position, and he really wants to stay, return to the organization, and welcome the victory.

But obviously you're not, you don't understand your boss at all.

Let me give you an analogy, when you paid a huge amount of tuition fees, and when you just started to study and enter your current industry, it was the highlight of the industry, about 45 years, Chang Kaishen felt that the advantage was in me.

At that stage, your leader also saw it this way, and he also felt that the advantage was in me, and it was very promising to learn from your industry.

At that time, it was equivalent to 50% of practitioners would make a small amount of money, and 5% of practitioners might make a lot of money.

During this period, both you and your leaders look down on your father, the small boss in the auto repair industry.

So he said firmly, join in, come and learn, and earn more money than your dad in the future.

However, in the past few years, your industry has changed dramatically, and it is equivalent to 45 years to 49 years.

The once high-spirited webmaster has long since lost his ideals, and your boss has seen the power of the huge impact on the industry, and he thinks that only one in 10,000 people can stay, and everyone else has to change careers, including himself.

So now, as his student and his subordinate, you happen to have a family business to inherit and a father to take refuge in.

Then he will naturally persuade you to go.

This is called the ugly words in the front, anyway, the persuasion has been persuaded, and the exclusion has been excluded, if you take advantage of the situation to go, you will see each other in the future, and you will not lose the master and apprentice, and the upper and lower levels.

If you persist in this, you will lose your job with him in the future, and you will not blame him at that time.

Do you understand this careful thinking?

For example, if Yu Zecheng is not our undercover agent, he is the stationmaster's real subordinate, and it is not good to complain about anything when he is defeated and retreated.

Because the leader has said everything that should be said, and everything that should be prompted has been prompted. The background of the industry is like this, the captain of the transportation brigade can't help it, he is a small stationmaster, what can he do?

That's what we, the reader, are interested in.

Being targeted is a very common time at work, for example, Zhang San is obviously not as capable as me, and now there is a streamlined quota in the unit, and the leader chose me instead of Zhang San.

Li Si obviously doesn't work as much overtime as me, but now there is a streamlined quota in the industry, and the leader chose me instead of Li Si.

Wang Wu was obviously not as serious and responsible as me, and Li Liu obviously wrote a bunch of bugs, but the leaders all targeted me in the end, streamlined me, but left them.

What are these called?

It's called a phenomenon, I've been targeted, it's unfair to me, I'm wronged, these are all called phenomena.

People often think that I am being targeted, but they rarely think about it, why am I being targeted?

Zhang San is the son of a certain bureau, if the leader streamlines Zhang San, Zhang San's father does not cooperate with us, and the leader himself has to be streamlined.

Li Si's father is a big customer, if the leader streamlines Li Si, Li Si's father takes the money away, and the leader himself has to be streamlined.

Wang Wu is good at sycophancy, everyone knows that he is the leader's henchman, if the leader streamlines him, no one will follow him in the future, no one will listen to him, and no one will be able to command.

Zhao Liu, wrote a bunch of bugs, the leader streamlined him, the company was immediately paralyzed, the boss was immediately furious, and the leader himself didn't want to mix.

What are these four called?

You are targeted is a phenomenon, and the reason why you are targeted is something else.

Zhang San, Li Si, Wang Wu, Zhao Liu, are not as good as you, this is your standard for measuring the problem, you think the game is better than seeing who has better knife skills, but you didn't expect it, in fact, the game is comparing who has a long beard.

Do you think you are competing with Zhang San, Li Si, Wang Wu, and Zhao Liu? No, you are competing with the referee, and you are competing with the referee who is the leader.

Zhang San, Li Si, Wang Wu, Zhao Liu, whoever hangs up, the leader has to hang, if the leader doesn't want to hang himself, then he has to keep the four of them and let you hang.

In "Latent", there are two generals in the stationmaster, Yu Zecheng and Li Ya.

Li Yacheng targeted Yu Zecheng every day, he always thought that he was fighting with Yu Zecheng, and the stationmaster was the referee, but in fact, he didn't understand, he was fighting with the stationmaster, he was fighting with the referee.

Because Yu Zecheng is actually the retreat of the stationmaster, Li Ya's achievement of Yu Zecheng is tantamount to ignoring human nature, ignoring interests, and ignoring the retreat of the stationmaster.

I've never seen a player who can beat the referee when he's grown up.

Things in the world aren't that complicated, but to put it bluntly, do you know what the game is playing?

Do the things you emphasize work in reality?

Most of us are accustomed to the set of things taught in school, and we will take whatever we say we can test.

It's impossible to give you a set of philosophy papers in math class.

Who cares about you in reality?

You buy a kilogram of gold bricks, and when you buy it back, all kinds of problems, the store collapses, you go to other stores and don't recognize it, and people have to lower a lot of money before recycling. Fortunately, the store did not fail, but it also had to lower some of the money before collecting.

Do you know this?

So you can only find a store that is big enough, and basically it won't fall, so when you buy it, do you have to pay a certain premium for it?

As the saying goes, you must buy expensive. For example, if you go to the Shanghai Gold Exchange and buy it, it costs 550, and you go to the store and buy it for 600.

In fact, it is very reasonable, and they provide you with a repurchase business.

So if Sun Qi buys 20 kilograms, will he go to the store to buy it? No, he will go directly to the Shanghai Gold Exchange to buy it, and it will be 550.

Isn't he afraid of the problem of buyback?

What should I do if I can't buy back? It's very simple, pay some more money, directly open a gold store, 20 kilograms of raw materials for distribution, and hire a master to make jewelry.

See, people not only buy lower than you, but they can also earn the difference in price, earn craft fees, and start a small business.

What do you do with a kilogram?

You can't open a store for hundreds of thousands of dollars and invest a full-time manpower for a position of hundreds of thousands, after all, you have to go to work.

Sun Qi doesn't care, he can spend another 2 million to rescue tens of millions of positions, toss around, and finally cash out, maybe he can earn a few million more.

This is Sun Qi with a conscience.

If you have no conscience, Sun Qi will go to open a decoration company, go back and owe a bunch of suppliers for goods, owe a few years, come, talk one by one.

If he is willing, he will use 10 million worth of gold bars to pay off the debt of 20 million, if he is not willing, he does not have the ability of Lao Luo to sing the truth and pass it on, he will be a lai.

When the time comes, you won't be able to recover a dime, don't believe you to ask the debt collection company, once the debt is overdue, the price of the resale is often 2 discount, or even 1 discount.

Now there's a 50% chance to get it, or gold bars, do you want it?

The creditors pinched their noses and admitted that Sun Qi directly turned the value of 10 million into 20 million.

Win hemp.

Are these jokes that I'm talking about? Are these jokes about Zhang San, Li Si, Wang Wu, Zhao Liu, Sun Qi, these are jokes? No, these are things that happen every day in life.

What is life playing? Life is playing with that.

Zhang San has a father with a background, Li Si has a rich father, Wang Wu is good at sycophants, Zhao Liu pinched his pigtails, and Sun Qi was golden.

The eight immortals crossed the sea, each showing their magical powers.

Excuse me, what supernatural powers do I have?

I don't have any resources, I'm still spinning, I'm stupid, I'm not willing to learn, I'm not willing to face the truth, so what am I playing?

I washed and slept.

In this life, you have a lot, so you are like Zhang San, Li Si, Wang Wu, Zhao Liu, Sun Qi, using your advantages to fight the disadvantages of others.

Conversely, if you don't have anything, I'm sorry, there's one thing you have to have.

You have to have wisdom, you have to master the four tricks mentioned before, under the four moves, people's hearts have nothing to hide, and interests have nothing to hide.

See people through and things through.

Pay attention to the official account, the compass in the world, to be able to read the text "Change your fate, count on winning the sky and half a son, it is better to be a woman in four moves"

What should I do if the leader excludes me and wants to drive me away?