Preface
Do you know that Yihe has a "Life Growth and Development Base" with its own characteristics?
This year, we have added two training programs with special Yihe characteristics, the first project is a 45-meter-long rope on the lotus pond, which we call "climbing the red line", which corresponds to the knowledge points of love and happiness about "are you excellent or successful?", so that the participants can see their own values and outlook on life clearly through actual experience, and deeply understand the profound meaning of "refining the heart in love".
The second project is the "Yihe Single-plank Bridge", through the state of walking the single-plank bridge, everyone can clearly see their own mentality, clearly see their own desires and fears, and through special training content, it is easier for participants to see their true selves, so as to face their own desires and fears, and let their lives bloom.
I am thinking at the moment that in the future, love and happiness will definitely form a characteristic culture, and everyone will proudly ask the students, "Have you climbed the red line of the Yihe? Have you walked across the single-plank bridge of the Yihe?"
Sometimes I think I really have some creativity, a small rope and a single-plank bridge can show the real life state of many people, and through the establishment of the environment, many people can be real in love, and get the power of love in reality.
Today, I will recommend to you the feeling of Wang Ying, a teacher from the Summer Palace, walking on the single-plank bridge, and you can also feel the magic of the "Yihe Life Growth and Development Base" and the charm of a small single-plank bridge. Every life can show their true appearance on the single-plank bridge, and what kind of life does Mr. Xiao Wang represent?
I can walk every step of my life happily and happily
——The feeling of walking on the "Yihe Single-plank Bridge".
Text: Teacher Wang Ying of Summer Palace
It was the first time I walked on a single-plank bridge in front of a large crowd, which was a great challenge for me.
When I saw Mr. Jiang Jiang standing up first, in order to hide the fear in my heart, I always had a smile on my face, and I saw myself at once, that is me, living in the eyes of others, ignoring my own feelings, my tears burst out of my eyes.
When Mr. Zheng Wei ordered me to walk the single-plank bridge, my heart was full of anticipation and anxiety.
I didn't know what to expect, because I was nervous when I heard that several family members had "hung up the lottery" before! I cautiously walked a slightly easier wooden bridge on the left, and when I walked to the end of the seemingly easy and fast way, Mr. Zheng said, I am a person who is anxious and cares about the result.
Let me come back and walk again, and let the four strong boys below shake the wooden bridge, I began to be afraid, because I couldn't control the situation, my body began to shake, I tried my best to keep my body balance, trying not to let myself fall, Teacher Zheng guided me: "How do you feel at this moment? Are you afraid at this time? What kind of person are you? Will you express your feelings truly?"
I cried loudly and shouted, "I'm afraid, I need help, can you help me?" I felt so helpless at that time! I had to listen to Mr. Zheng's words, I did what he said, I believed that he loved me, I cried and shouted, like an ignorant and helpless child. I only know how to cry and be obedient.
I have never expressed my feelings, suppressed myself, did not dare to show my will, for fear that others would say that I was not good, I did not recognize myself in my heart, had no sense of worth, and used playing the piano, singing, tea art, and cloth art to prove that I was good...... I cried and shouted: I am a person with low self-esteem, I am a person who needs a sense of worth, I am afraid, I need help, can you help me? My husband stretched out his arms and stood in the pit to protect me, and Mr. Zheng guided me to express to my husband truly: Husband, I am not strong, I want to rely on you, I need your love...... When I was swaying on the single-plank bridge, I was trying to keep my balance, I didn't want to let myself fall, I saw so many hands below to protect me, I was afraid that jumping down, if I didn't get it right, I would hurt them, so I tried to keep myself from falling, and finally jumped off because I lost my balance, my husband caught me steadily, at that moment, I felt so warm, so happy, there were so many hands following me, they loved me, I felt beautiful.
When I stood on the more difficult single-plank bridge on the right for the second time, my fear was much less, and my body was a little more relaxed, and when they started shaking the single-plank bridge again, I had overcome my fear, and Mr. Zheng told me to sing while walking, I dried my tears, smiled and sang loudly: In the place where the flowers are in full bloom, there is my charming hometown...... I feel so relaxed, it turns out that I can go to every step of my life so happily, I can, I really can!
Looking back on myself, I have been living in inferiority complex for so many years, living in the eyes of others, not daring to show my will, suppressing myself, so that my physical health has been greatly affected, all of this is caused by myself, I have lived myself as an island, with all kinds of external forms of learning art and the pursuit of material enjoyment to cover up my inner inferiority complex and emptiness, I am really tired of living! I don't want to pretend anymore, I want to live my own life, I want to express myself truly, and put my inner fears, desires, selfishness, Greed is all exposed, thank you Peifang for her true expression, let me see a more true self, thank you Teacher Zheng for the love I have given, I believe that the teachers and children of Yihe love me, no matter how bad I am, they will love me.
Because I am a life, I am worthy of love, I am worthy of being loved!
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