It wasn't until I saw that the child in the car gave me the middle finger when I took the initiative to give way to the car, that I realized that kindness does not necessarily have a reward.
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On April 23, 2024, a Mr. Li from Liaoning Province posted a special "missing person notice" on the Internet, which attracted the attention of many netizens. Unlike other missing person notices, the person Mr. Li was looking for turned out to be a young boy who had only met once.
According to Mr. Lee, he had been driving normally on a road that day, when he noticed a van coming off the road in the distance, with its turn signal, as if trying to turn. However, due to the continuous traffic on this road, the van never made a successful turn.
The van just stopped where it was, with its turn signal on for a long time, but looking at the vehicles on the road, none of them had the intention of stopping and letting the van pass.
Seeing this, Mr. Li stopped the car and motioned for the van to turn in front of him. The owner of the van also immediately understood and came to the front of Mr. Li's car to make a turn.
Just as the van was halfway through, Mr. Li found that there was a little boy in the passenger seat of the van, who looked to be the age of elementary school. And this little boy is giving him the middle finger!
What does this action mean by the middle finger, I think everyone in front of the screen knows it very well, right? This action is not only very indecent, but also insulting! When Mr. Li saw the little boy's movement, he instantly became angry.
In this regard, Mr. Li felt angry and surprised, angry that he kindly gave way to you, and even made such an action at himself without even saying thank you. Surprisingly, it was a young child who made this move!?
But the van had already gone away, and Mr. Li could only return home with a stomach full of anger. Subsequently, Mr. Li posted this "missing person revelation" on the Internet, wanting to find this impolite little boy on the whole network.
The majority of netizens learned what happened, and they couldn't sit still, and the comment area instantly fried the pot:
"Sure enough, there is nothing that I can't imagine. ”
"Hand over the child. ”
"Go and complain about this car, the child sits in the passenger seat, and let the traffic police investigate. ”
"This gesture is now popular among school students all over the country, right?"
"There is a joke that if you encounter it, don't care, after entering the society, someone will break his fingers. ”
"My nephew also beat back this gesture, and it seems that he has forgotten this gesture recently. ”
Netizens were also very angry when they saw this child's actions. Not only is this child unthankful, but he is also very impolite.
Some netizens said that many children will do this kind of action like the middle finger, but they really don't understand who learned this action from, and whether these children understand the meaning of this action is bad.
Some netizens also believe that if you encounter this kind of child, everyone should not care, just let this child grow up freely, play with him to "kill", and when the child grows up and really enters the society, there will naturally be other people in the society to teach him a lesson!
Some netizens also feel that Mr. Li's "looking for someone" is not right in itself, the other party is just an ignorant child, why should Mr. Li be an adult and worry about children, and he also posted it on the Internet to make everyone know, it is Mr. Li who is too serious.
I am the first to stand up and disagree with such a view. First of all, Mr. Li gave way to the van, not as a duty but as a sentiment, and the owner of the van should have said "thank you" to Mr. Li. But I didn't forget a word of thanks, and even "repaid virtue with grievances" and gave Mr. Li the middle finger, anyone would be angry if such a thing was put on him, right?
Besides, as the netizen above said, if some of the child's problems have been developed since childhood and have not been corrected in the process of growing up, then when they go to society in the future, they will either be taught a lesson by the society or a lesson to the society. Either way, it's not what we want to see.
Since there is an opportunity to correct the child's bad habits, we will use this opportunity to correct the children's problems.
With the gradual fermentation of public opinion, the child's father really saw the "missing person notice" issued by Mr. Li. also saw the opinions of so many netizens about his son. The father was also ashamed, and left a message in Mr. Li's comment area, telling everyone that he and the child's mother had divorced, and he usually neglected to discipline the child, and he didn't know when and where the child learned this action, and then caused the child to do such a thing, which was a problem with his own education.
Although this child is indeed a "bear", I have to say that the child's father is still very sensible, not only did not shirk his responsibilities and protect the child, but also took all the responsibility on himself. And the apology is also very sincere, very sincere.
Regarding the not very polite remarks made by some netizens in the comment area, the father was not angry, but replied to these netizens one by one to apologize.
Mr. Li said that he wanted the child to apologize to him, and also to make the child realize that this gesture was a very insulting gesture, and he wanted to ensure that he would never make this gesture again in the future.
The child's father also agreed to such a request, promising that the child would apologize to Mr. Li after returning from school, and he would record the video and put it on his account first.
When netizens saw their father's attitude, the anger in their hearts instantly dissipated a lot, and the wind in the comment area instantly reversed the direction of the wind, and they all praised the father again and again.
"It was originally quite annoying, but when I saw the child's father apologize in such a sincere manner, I was not angry. ”
"This dad is still sensible, thumbs up. ”
From the video released by Mr. Li at that time, we can see that this child is only a teenager, and boys at this age are generally naughty, but if it is said that it is deliberately insulting, I really don't think so. Maybe when this boy compares this gesture, he doesn't know what it means, he just thinks it's funny, or he sees other classmates in school compare this gesture, and he learns it himself.
Some netizens also hold the same opinion as me, especially those who have children of the same age at home, and they have a deep understanding of such things.
Although the child did something wrong, it is not difficult to see from the attitude of this father that the father is actually very reasonable, and presumably with such a father education, the child's problems will definitely be corrected in the future!
From Mr. Li's video at the time, we can also see that the child's father's van was printed with the words "XX Hotel", and then it was indeed confirmed that the child's father opened a restaurant. In the end, because of his father's sincere apology and response, the hotel became famous on the Internet, which also brought a lot of traffic to the hotel.
So what do you think about this matter? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.
Source: Henan Radio and Television Station Rural Observation "The man gave way to turn the car, but was made an uncivilized gesture by the child in the car"