In reality, middle-aged women and young women pursue different natures. If you want to impress her, you can't use the same old thing.
You know, we've changed a lot compared to when we were younger. How can you expect a woman not to change?
It's not realistic.
Pursuing a middle-aged woman, you can't expect any routine, it's easy to be recognized.
Starting from these 3 ways, you can better understand women's hearts.
01 Freshness
Middle-aged people, both men and women, often have extremely monotonous and boring lives.
Round-trip to and from two o'clock every day, up to one school. The days after returning home are also the same, and I have long been tired of it to the point of collapse.
People don't have to collapse before a big predicament. People can feel broken down in their boring daily life at any time.
Therefore, if a person wants to pursue middle-aged women, then the first thing is freshness.
Let the other party feel that they are breathing a breath of fresh air.
Instead of continuing to repeat those lives. That's unattractive.
For example, when you interact with middle-aged women, you need to bring them something new.
Fresh perspectives, fresh routines, new things.
Instead of making them feel as boring and boring as their daily routines.
It was a double burden on their lives, not a joy.
The person who can bring freshness to a middle-aged woman is, first of all, a person who has a joy in life.
He should be able to bring joy to himself and life. In this way, you can bring pleasure to others. This is the most basic truth.
People who lack the joy of life can't do this.
02 Emotionally stable, mature and considerate
In reality, after middle-aged women have emotional experiences, they are often more inclined to look for a partner who is emotionally stable and mature in thinking.
Because such people, save costs and do not feel tired.
No one wants to spend a lot of energy to accommodate each other in addition to their busy daily routines.
That's no different from the burden of a job.
For example, some women's previous partners get angry at every turn, which makes people's hearts beat.
There are also women, his partner, who are always cold and violent, and run away without a figure. And then there was no one on the phone, which was tormenting.
These are all types of emotional instability and immature thinking.
If you want to pursue middle-aged women, you must first make yourself a person with more stable emotions and more mature thinking.
Everyone likes to get along with people like this. Isn't it?
03 Good life prospects
In reality, if you like a middle-aged woman and want to live with her, then please provide a good life prospect.
When people reach middle age, they are human beings, and they will become realistic.
You can't expect to talk to a middle-aged woman about pure feelings and not about real life.
Only a good life prospect is the best "love". Isn't it?
For example, the most realistic way to pursue a middle-aged woman is to put your own practical conditions on the table.
Let this woman see that you have a stable and good environment to live with.
For example, children, how to take care of them. For example, house income and so on.
Not just by one mouth, let alone by many routines.
In reality, if you only talk about love with a middle-aged woman, most of the other party doesn't believe it.
On the other hand, if someone talks to a middle-aged us, only talking about love, and nothing else, this is also unreasonable. Isn't it?