Is fate predestined? Some women look like they are going to have a miserable life, but they don't believe in fate and will use their actions to overcome all difficulties.
And some women don't need to worry about financial pressure, they have the care and support of their parents, but they still live a mess.
Their cognition is flawed and they are not able to heal and grow themselves well. After seeing the problem clearly, if you don't want to wake up, then you have to keep paying the tuition for life.
A woman has these 3 habits, which is the beginning of bad luck, and it is best not to commit any of them, otherwise it is easy to die.
01: Narcissistic personality, selfish and conceited at heart
When a woman starts to be jealous of others, always self-centered, selfish and conceited, then all good luck disappears.
Most of them are very scheming, whether they get along with their lovers or friends, they are very good at manipulating people's hearts and kidnapping others' morals.
Especially when they meet kind and sincere people, they will cling to it more stubbornly, so that the people around them will have sympathy for them and begin to use their friends to pay for themselves.
However, when she needs to make adjustments and changes, no one is allowed to ask of her, otherwise they will start attacking the person who made the suggestion.
If you don't help, you have no conscience and no morals.
He Minhong in the TV series "Ode to Joy 5" is this kind of person, she only has herself in her world, obviously it is her own problem, but she always thinks that others are bullying her.
In the face of vicious people, He Minhong showed a pitiful appearance, and he didn't dare to come out.
But with the kind neighbors and roommates around her, she said all the vicious things she said.
When a woman starts doing this, it is the beginning of bad luck, whether it is love or friends, it cannot be obtained.
02: Catastrophic thinking, it's hard to stay optimistic
Baudrillard said, "Burnout is a disease of modern society." ”
Today's young people are not only physically tired, but also mentally exhausted.
Those women who are really good at life are most likely very bright in their hearts, even if their current lives are full of difficulties, they will still not be dragged down, and they will think about things in a better direction.
The final outcome is often not too bad.
And if a woman's mind is accustomed to a catastrophic state, then the rest of her life will definitely be painful.
It's just that you just accidentally did something wrong, but you can't help but deny yourself, and in the face of sudden changes, you start to feel fear and worry before you implement your plan.
The fear of wolves and tigers will keep you in a tense state for a long time, and your disastrous thinking will ruin all opportunities and good luck.
A woman with this habit, even if she is born with a good deck of cards, will still not be able to live a good life, and her heart will be extremely painful and anxious.
03: I need a man's love and recognition too much, and my life is destined to be miserable
It is normal to have a longing for love, and as women, we all want to be treated well by the person we like, and we can immerse ourselves in sweetness and happiness.
But the value of a woman's life can only rely on men's affirmation and love, and this mentality must definitely change.
When you need a man's approval too much to affirm yourself, it shows that the inner world is lacking, lacking love and strength.
Most women with this habit don't love themselves, they have low self-esteem in their hearts, even if they are already very good, rich, and beautiful, but they just can't believe that anyone will love them.
always looks flattering in the relationship, and has no aura and charm.
Whether it is in love or after marriage, even if a man cheats, or even has violent tendencies, they are still reluctant to leave a man with poor character.
In this life, I can only struggle in the abyss, I have unbearable grievances every day, and I can only hide and cry alone.
I like what Gorky said: "Be nice to people, but don't please them." ”
Pleasing others will not be cherished, a woman with this habit is the beginning of bad luck, don't believe it.
Life is short for decades, and the accidents you have to experience every day are rare enough, don't have these bad habits again, and you must avoid them as soon as you find them early.