In life, what we are most afraid of meeting is not people with a direct personality and moody shapes, but people who seem to be gentle and friendly, but are actually smiling tigers.
When you build a deep relationship with them and tell them all, that's when disaster begins.
As long as it is about profit, he will seize all your levers and make you lose real opportunities, and you don't even know how you lost in the end.
Most of the people with these 3 characteristics are very vicious, remember not to make deep friends.
01: Hardly disclose your personal information
We will meet new friends at work and in life, and as long as we have been with each other for a while, you will tell each other about your thoughts and personal situation.
You think you've made such a good friend, and as a friend, he should be honest with you.
However, even though you've been together for a long time, they're still silent and never reveal their personal information.
People who have too strong a sense of privacy actually don't have the ability to trust.
They live in their own world, they don't open their hearts easily, and they never treat you as a friend.
Most of these people are vicious in their hearts, they are used to standing in the high position of human nature, and they are more capable of controlling the overall situation if they do not let others know anything about themselves.
When you meet this kind of friend, I advise you to be careful, even if you have known each other for a while, never talk too much about your personal privacy.
Because you don't know if the person on the other side is a human or a ghost, you can't really guess it.
Talk less about your own business, so that you can be less dangerous and more protective.
02: Good at pretending to be weak to win sympathy
There is a kind of woman in life who has a very gentle voice, and when you first met, she will be very friendly and polite to you.
But as soon as she sees that you are a very loving, kind person, she will desperately pester you and use your compassion to get her own benefit.
A woman who is good at pretending to be weak, you must be careful and remember to put away your thin love.
Luo Yingzi in the TV series "Fearless" has a very hearty and kind personality.
The little nanny at home knows her very well, so she pretends to be weak everywhere, Luo Yingzi herself owes money, and she has to continue to raise the little nanny.
Her colleague Qiu Hua, when she saw the little nanny for the first time, she knew that the other party was not a good stubble, all the weakness and fear were just pretended, and she was ruthless in her heart.
Qiu Hua didn't want Luo Yingzi to suffer, so she kindly reminded her a few times, but she still didn't believe it, so she could only help the little nanny wipe her ass all the time.
A woman who is good at pretending to be weak, remember not to have deep friendships, let alone reveal what resources and abilities you have, and stay as far away as you can
03: Habitual nest is horizontal, and the surface is inconsistent
There is a kind of man who behaves very humble and gentlemanly when he is outside, but when he comes home, he becomes a different person.
People who are used to being in the nest, no matter how long you have known each other, don't associate with each other anymore.
Most of them are different from what they seem, and they may praise you to your face, but as long as you live better than yourself and earn more money, he will start to be jealous and even stab you in the back.
On the surface, I call you a brother, but in fact, I can't wait for you to fall on your heels immediately.
Men who are always in the nest often have little ability, but they don't accept reality and don't work hard.
Always thinking about taking shortcuts, one day you can get ahead and make the people around you worship you.