All living beings in the world have their own sufferings, and students in the world have their own paths. Reading is too "volume", I really can't roll it, immigrated to Australia, and finally smiled at the branches of life.
Here's my story.
I was born in a small eighteen-level county in the Central Province, and the educational resources are not too developed, but they are not very backward. My parents are both civil servants, and I am the only boy in the family. My father is still a small leader, so he lives a carefree life.
In my childhood, my aunt coaxed my second aunt to tease, and I was the "happy baby" in the family, however, with going to school and reading, there was a lot less laughter around me. Although, I was pampered at home, but at school, I was unknown. In fact, his father didn't read much, he attributed all this to "genetic mediocrity", his parents are ordinary people, and his children are most likely mediocre. However, in my current opinion, it is just a failure to do a good job of early development and guidance, and I am also a victim of early education failure.
Without further ado.
After going to school, my grades were not salty or light, at best I was a middle school student, so I went all the way to junior high school and high school. Just read the first year of high school, I obviously feel that the pace of learning is faster, classmates are from the township to take the entrance examination, usually, a township can only take one or two, the competition is more exciting, like my level of students, not at all in front, even if to maintain a middle school student, it is very difficult, in the future, no accident, is three books, two books, so far, my life's reading dream is also on the verge of collapse.
No one thought that fate would take a turn for the better!
A distant relative of my grandmother suddenly recognized the door and turned around to find him. My grandmother is a native of Shijiazhuang, Hebei Province, at that time, married to us, so many years have passed, and I haven't seen any relatives in her mother's family, but who knows, this relative actually came to the door, it is said that it is a grandma and aunt's family and other nephews, just like that, distant relatives have become close relatives, closer and closer, and more unexpectedly, her son moved to Australia.
With this relationship, my relative's son also became involved with my family, praised the many benefits in Australia, and encouraged my parents to send me abroad as well.
At that time, my father was worried about my future, scratching his heart and lungs, and with this information gap, my father happily prepared to send me abroad.
Under the "high staff" of my relatives, I was in my second year of high school and embarked directly on a trip abroad.
First, I participated in the IELTS fully closed training in Beijing, and the IELTS score was 6. Then, the parents borrowed 2 million from all over the world, entered the designated account, and finally made the trip. When I arrived in Sydney, I enrolled in a local language school and went on to university.
When I arrived in Sydney, I learned that there are many students like me, who have gathered here from all over the world, forming a fixed group, and even "Chinatown". Shopping and shopping in Chinatown, everyone speaks Chinese, and there is no problem that the language cannot be integrated.
I got to know a lot of classmates from the mainland, their language is rubbish, they speak Chinese all the time, and they are concentrated in the Chinese community. Of course, there are also very good students who have passed the language barrier, speak very "slippery" English, and integrated into the local society.
At that time, the local radio station even interviewed our kind of students, asking about the original intention of going abroad, the idea of going abroad, and the future, and so on, and since then, I have learned that some of us are more rubbish. I had a formal domestic education, a year and a half in high school, and many of them had never even studied high school in China, and under the gorgeous robes, there were disgusting lice.
When I was in college, I met a girl from Sichuan, she was not tall, but she was very smart, and later became my girlfriend, and the relationship has been maintained.
After graduating from university, and with the guidance of distant relatives in my family, I stayed in Sydney, and with the financial support of both parents, we bought a house in Sydney, and we became a family and successfully integrated into the city.
In the beginning, I worked as a real estate agent, and in the following years, I opened my own real estate company one after another, and the business was booming.
With the passage of time, my son also came to the world, living in an English-speaking environment, he was born fluent in English, and at the same time, he was afraid of forgetting his roots, and we taught him a lot of Chinese and spoke Chinese in our spare time.
Counting my distant relative, he is the "second generation", and I am a proper "second generation", surviving well in Sydney, in Australia, and abroad. In the following years, I opened real estate companies in different cities, and even in Shenzhen, flying around for a year, becoming a veritable "trapeze". ”
I was out and about all day, leaving my son in the care of my wife, and the little guy was a tiger, just hoping that he wouldn't study as hard as I did.
Over the years, I have deeply realized that it is not that I am not good enough, but that there are too many excellent children around me, and I don't seem to be outstanding at all. To borrow the words of Lao Jiang: "It's not that we are not powerful, but that the opponent is too strong." "After so many years in Australia, didn't I open a company and make a lot of money at the same time? Everyone comes to the world, has its own unique mission and value, as long as you find your own interests and advantages, in the environment that suits you, you can also live your own life, achieve your own life, and live a brilliant life!
In the blink of an eye, I have moved to Australia for more than 20 years, and I am very comfortable and comfortable here, and my parents have also come from China after retirement to help take care of their son.
Sometimes I think, what is it that makes you in this life? It is an opportunity, an opportunity, it is boldness, when the opportunity arises, when you can't see whether it is an opportunity or a trap, you dare to be the first to boldly rush forward, dare to boldly try, which in itself requires great courage and great risk. It was the opportunity, the boldness, the courage of my parents to take risks and try new ways of life that made my life what I am today!
Thanks to life, thanks to myself who has the courage to challenge, I escaped the domestic "volume," so that I have a different life!
Thanksgiving for the years! Thanksgiving for life!