As we all know, with the rapid development of education, today's college students are no longer as popular as before, and even the competitive advantage of undergraduates is gradually weakening, and many employers will pay attention to whether the primary degree of college students is from a well-known university.
With the passage of time, the advantages of master's students will gradually diminish for some time to come, and pursuing a doctoral degree may gradually become a trend.
In today's society, it takes a lot of time and resources to train a doctoral student, so doctoral students enjoy a relatively high status in society, and doctoral graduates are usually over 30 years old.
Someone once said that "exams don't filter out everyone", but recently a chat log about the inappropriate words and actions of doctoral students has been revealed, and although it is glamorous on the surface, it actually exudes an uncomfortable atmosphere.
Recently, a woman broke the news that she once had a PhD boyfriend, initially because she met on a social networking app. The other party's outstanding performance made the girl not pay attention to it at first, and just regarded it as an ordinary friend.
Gradually, the girls are attracted to the outstanding qualities in each other. Since the other party expressed his willingness to develop a relationship with the girl in depth and talk about a relationship for the purpose of marriage, the girl also hopes to grow together with her boyfriend in the process. So, the two gradually fell in love.
And as we all know, PhD graduation usually means a longer age. Despite the age difference between the two of them of nearly ten years, the boy has always emphasized that he is looking for someone who can really fall in love and move towards marriage, which makes the girl gradually remove her guard.
In further understanding, the girl found out that the boy was admitted to the university to study for a doctorate with the first grade, and has been working at the institute since then. Not only does he have excellent academic qualifications and superb abilities, but he is also very considerate of girls, making her mistakenly think that she has found the partner of her dreams.
As time passed, the girl gradually discovered that the doctoral boy was not as outstanding as he appeared, on the contrary, his thoughts and actions were often a little unsightly.
The girl hopes to move forward after being together for a while, and even considers meeting the parents of both parties, but the boy always shirks in every possible way.
Until one day, the girl found that she could no longer see the boy's circle of friends, and she had doubts about it. The boy explained that he just "closed the circle of friends", but later the girl learned that the actual reason was that the boy shared a photo of another girl in the circle of friends, and he didn't want the girl to see it, so he chose to hide it.
Later, the girl finally couldn't stand it and offered to break up with her doctor's boyfriend. However, soon after, she was surprised to find out that her ex-doctor boyfriend was actually married and already had children. Through the calculation of the timeline, the girl realized that she was likely to become a "third party" without knowing it.
In other words, before starting a relationship with a girl, the doctoral boy already had his own girlfriend, and may even have a family. However, he deceived the girl, claiming that he had never been on a blind date or married.
After learning the truth, the girl was furious, so she exposed this "scumbag" on the Internet. With the development of the situation, netizens have exposed a lot of unknown information about the boy.
According to people familiar with the matter, the boy's unit has become known to everyone about this matter, and it has become a hot topic for many people after dinner, and the boy has paid a heavy price for it.
The purpose of receiving education is to improve oneself, and college students should adhere to the principles and keep in mind their original intentions in order to go further.
While many criticized the boy, there were also those who believed that the girl's motives were not pure, perhaps just attracted by the doctor's appearance, and that there might be other purposes.
Therefore, some advice should also be given to those who are not yet experienced. Whether you are looking for a job or in a relationship, you should pay attention to the "right match", provided that you have a clear understanding of yourself. If you want to meet excellent people, you must first become an excellent self and don't have some unrealistic illusions.
As a doctoral student, I could have a bright future, but I ruined my future because of my personal desires, which is really regrettable. Many people have also said that although the exam can screen out "scum", there is no way to screen out "scum".
Everyone pursues a high degree of education and hopes to be able to find their dream job and live the life they want. However, as I continued to move forward, I found that I was facing more and more temptations.
In order to succeed one day, I have experienced more than ten years of hard study, but no matter where I go, no matter what I do, I should always remember my original goal and stick to my principles.
Author's Note:
During the university period, you should establish the correct three views and life and career planning as soon as possible, and strive to move forward towards your goals. The learning stage may feel boring and boring, but stick to your principles, resist all kinds of temptations, don't leave a lasting regret because of a momentary misstep, and don't "pay" for it with your future.