What should I do if I am heartbroken by the death of my loved ones and my mother and daughter can't get out of love? Write to a friend

Life is short but impermanent,

The old mother drove the crane to heaven.

Life and death parting the family has,

Drumming and singing to learn Lao Zhuang.

An engineer friend whose mother died of a heart attack at the age of 88 after surgery. Now that her mother has been dead for half a year, she is still deeply in grief and unable to extricate herself.

She was dazed and dizzy every day. I don't want to buy vegetables, I don't want to cook rice, and I order some takeaway to deal with things, let alone clean up myself. His body deteriorated, he underwent an operation on his own, suspected malignancy, and fortunately the pathological examination was not. I also experienced the pain of losing my mother, that kind of pain is really unbearable, in order to mourn my mother, I stopped all musical activities, danced and did not dance, did not sing, and finally my health was not good, only to suddenly wake up, my mother did not want me to come out like this.

I was relieved to see her like this. Your mother is already a high life expectancy, so there is no suffering, this is a better ending, she sees you like this, she will be uneasy over there. She seemed to listen in, for a while. Seeing her again and going back, I said I couldn't pass it. This kind of thing is only temporary for others to persuade, I don't wake up, I can't persuade Pi, and I am speechless. Seeing her the other day was still languishing. This time I spoke bluntly, I said: The reason why you toss yourself like this, every day tea and dinner is because you have capital, because you are still young, the body can still accept your toss, if you are old, the body is not good, like you, a few days to lie down. At that time did not say anything, after a few days sent me WeChat, the phone said, I said right, this capital can not be lost, can not go on like this, they must be restrained, Suo Xing I told her again about Lao Zhuang's attitude towards the death of relatives, she listened to the direct call is too right.

Another month later, I called to tell me that she was much better, and now she has gained weight and her spirits have recovered, thank you for enlightening her, I said it was a show of hands, there is nothing to be thankful for. I was also relieved.

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