Some time ago, I saw another news about a child, saying that a child had self-harm because of psychological problems.
Fortunately, the child's parents discovered the child's misconduct in time and immediately sent the child to the hospital for emergency treatment, which avoided more serious consequences.
I don't know if you have noticed, although our life is much better than before, the society is much more stable, and the children's educational resources are more abundant, but the children's psychological problems have become more.
The existence of psychological problems will have a huge impact on children's growth and life.
What you think is "normal" is actually a psychological problem
Children's psychological problems are common and insidious
●The child is not "disobedient", but anxious
A mother said that her 5-year-old child suddenly became very "disobedient" during this time, and it was always noisy to go to kindergarten during the day, and when she went to bed at night, she couldn't turn off the lights without waiting for the child to fall asleep.
In addition, the child also behaved very strangely in kindergarten, he would always deliberately avoid other children, and he would always be silent in the face of other people's invitations, and he seemed to be very "shy".
Why do children have these situations? In fact, it is the child's psychological problems that produce "anxiety disorders".
●The child is not "not listening", but hyperactive
An 8-year-old girl who is always in a state of inattentiveness during class, always deserted, and always restless.
At first, parents felt that their children's behavior was "disobedient and difficult to learn", so they criticized and educated their children, but it had no effect, which made parents feel that their children were "repeatedly taught".
But in fact, when a child has such a situation, it is not because the child is "stubborn", but because the child has "ADHD".
●The child is not "introverted and shy," but depressed
A 12-year-old child is usually lazy and lazy, and the child's parents think that the child is a "shy", "introverted" and non-talkative child.
Unexpectedly, the child's "introverted" situation has become more and more serious with the passage of time, and it is very inactive to do anything, but the age of playfulness has no interest, and it looks like he is going to die all day long.
Even sometimes children will have inexplicable sadness, and then parents feel that there is something wrong with their children.
This child's condition is actually a typical case of "depression".
Although the psychological problems of these children have been treated and alleviated by professional medical means in the end, they still have a great impact on the growth of children.
After all, the whole stage of a child's growth has a certain growth task, and once many key moments are delayed, it will be difficult to make up for it later.
Therefore, we should try our best to avoid the emergence of this kind of problem, prevent it before it happens, reduce the probability of children having psychological problems, and strangle psychological problems in the cradle.
The book "Thinking Like a Psychologist" is divided into 3 volumes, covering different stages of the history of psychology, using 28 very "special" questions to arouse children's curiosity and show children 28 different paragraphs of psychological history.
In this way, children will be led into 28 different psychological fields to understand psychology, self and the world.
The author of this book, Dong Guangheng, is a professor of psychology at Yunnan Normal University, and has won many awards and has many psychological works, such as "The Psychology of Addiction at the First Reading" is a best-selling book that has been affirmed and welcomed by many readers.
The illustrations of this set of books are also written by the humanoid carp that has won the first prize in the art design competition and the work is collected by the Beijing Museum of Natural History.
In addition, this set of books was not only recommended by Hao Jingfang, the founder of Tongxing College, and Fang Xiaoyi, a professor of psychology at Beijing Normal University, but also selected for the 2023 Autumn Reading Bibliography, shortlisted for the 2024 Spring Volume of "Four Seasons Children's Reading" Humanities Books, and selected for the 2023 Psychology Annual Book List of the Chinese Society of Social Psychology.
In addition, it has also been well received by the majority of offline readers, as well as many online bloggers and readers, which can be said to be a set of original hard core science books.
Why do children love to watch it?
Because the questions in the book have an irresistible attraction for children
The questions in this set of books are all questions that are super attractive to children, questions that children are very curious about and want to know, and questions that are closely related to children's life and growth.
For example, the question "Why do we always like to ask why?" is fascinating in itself.
There are also "Do animals and plants have souls?", "Can you know a person's personality by touching your head?" and so on.
When children see these problems, they are always attracted and immediately immersed in them.
In terms of problem elaboration, this set of books adopts the "three-in-one" presentation of anecdotes, anecdotes and experiments, which makes psychological knowledge more interesting and enjoyable for children.
Why does the child see the results so well?
Because the content of the book is hardcore enough
After children read "Think Like a Psychologist", it often has a great effect, because this set of books is full of dry goods, content layout, module design, etc.
It can surprise children, not only mobilize children's enthusiasm, but also make it easier for children to cognize, understand and master.
For example, the catalog is a "map-style catalog", which can be said to be refreshing.
In the text, there are not only many questions that even adults want to know, but also stories and cases from children's real lives, so that children can have a better sense of substitution and deepen their understanding.
In addition, this set of books is also designed with small knowledge (theoretical concept knowledge supplementary module), catstar classroom (knowledge expansion module), I want to ask you (thinking guidance module), summary appendix, hidden easter eggs and other special modules.
Through the cooperation of these modules, children can have a better reading state and a stronger desire for knowledge, so as to grasp the knowledge content of the book more thoroughly and comprehensively.
Under the influence of this hardcore content and clever design, children will naturally be able to see the efficiency and get the ideal reading effect.
Write at the end
Children's psychological problems should not be underestimated, in your eyes "small problems", "small problems", if not paid attention to and channeled, then it is likely to develop into serious problems that threaten the growth of children and even their lives in the future.
Therefore, to maintain children's mental health, we must give children a set of "Think Like a Psychologist" from now on, so that children can open the door to psychology and become a warm and firm self.
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