Are emotions valuable? Not at all, just internal friction.
No matter how good you are to others, you feel that you are sincere, but the way you show it makes the other person very disgusted.
You impose your ideas on the other person, but they are not what the other person wants. If you are good, it is not good, it is a kind of torture for the other party.
Learn to put yourself in the other person's shoes, and the methods you come up with in the end are useful because they are what the other person wants.
Don't blindly consider the problem only from your own point of view, this kind of thinking is just to create trouble for yourself, and the problem will not be solved at all.
People who can think from the other side's point of view are very good people, and his whole person will shine, because he is very rational from beginning to end. Rationality is always a charm.
Take care of yourself, not only physically, but more importantly, mentally, only the spiritual level is independent, and everything will be very rational. I will not resent the other person because of emotional instability.
Let yourself be a mentally independent person, it is better to have someone by your side to accompany you, and you can live well if you leave.
When you rely too much on one person, it will make you lose your rationality and personal charm, so you are a person who is full of charm and shines brightly if you are sweet on the surface and independent and principled in your heart.