introduction
People, you need to know yourself!
A sociologist pointed out that the human mind is a complex world, filled with a wide variety of emotions and ideas. No matter who you are, you need to face up to your heart, you need to be afraid of being ridiculed or criticized by others, and only when people dare to face their inner world can people truly understand their own needs and values.
The sociologist went on to point out that people's behavior is a true reflection of the inner world, and that no matter who they are, they need to reflect on their own behavior, and through reflection on their own behavior, people can better understand their own personality traits and behavioral habits. In order to make yourself known thoroughly.
In addition, the sociologist continued, people need to listen to the feedback of others. Because other people's opinions and evaluations are often a mirror of how people know themselves, it is very important to listen to the feedback of others. While people can't rely solely on the evaluations of others to define themselves, feedback from others can help people discover their blind spots and shortcomings.
The sociologist concluded by pointing out that it takes time and patience to know the self. After all, knowing oneself cannot be achieved overnight, and requires constant exploration and reflection in daily life. When people are in a good mood, it is the time when people need to reflect on their actions the most.
However, in real life, there will always be some people who can't know themselves, and they will make some exaggerated remarks at any time, so as to be criticized by others!
No, in the past few days, Guizhou woman Xiaohe (pseudonym) has frequently posted remarks about her appearance and family life on a certain self-media platform!
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
affair
In the era when everyone is self-media, people have the right to speak out on the self-media platform. However, people's voices should be rational and not biased.
However, in the past few days, Xiao He, a woman from Guizhou, has frequently posted remarks about her appearance and family life on a certain self-media platform! Her evaluation of her appearance is obviously inconsistent with the actual situation!
The woman Xiaohe said that she used to be the "class flower" in the class, and in terms of appearance, she didn't look at her husband at all, but under her husband's constant pursuit, she still "married" her husband. Nowadays, her husband is holding her in his mouth for fear of melting, holding it in the palm of his hand for fear of dropping", no matter how she "disgusts" her husband, her husband will love her passionately. For the gold necklace alone, her husband bought her seven or eight, and as for the other gold jewelry, it was too many to count!
The remarks of the woman Xiao He immediately caused an uproar on the Internet, and for a while, the comment area of the woman Xiao He was attacked by netizens.
So, what do netizens say?
Next, let's show the comments of some netizens.
Netizen voices
Netizen's spring story: Haha! It is indeed a "scorpion flower", and it is really rare to see a "scorpion flower" like this! This kind of "scorpion flower" is very safe at home, and the husband can go out to work with confidence.
Netizen Euphrates: There are seven or eight necklaces alone? Xiao He's husband seems to be a big boss! The big boss really can't control it when he encounters the "scorpion flower".
Netizens walked through the spring: It's a loan, I also want to buy her a mirror, so that she can take a good look at herself!
In short, there are a lot of comments from netizens. Still, the comments look poignant.
Lao Hu's point of view
People's looks are given by their parents. No one can laugh at other people's looks.
However, no matter what a person looks like, this person cannot boast, after all, boasting is a sign of immaturity and is easy to be criticized by others!
Lao Hu believes that the fault of the woman Xiaohe is not in her appearance, but in her boasting. Because her boasting is exaggerated and exaggerated, she will inevitably be ridiculed by others!