introduction
Backbone, these two words seem simple, but they contain endless deep meaning. Backbone is not only a posture of holding your head high, but also a symbol of spirit and a concrete embodiment of personality charm.
A sociologist pointed out that on the road of life, we will always encounter various difficulties and challenges. Those who have the backbone will not be afraid of difficulties and walk with their heads held high, because they know that only after experiencing the baptism of wind and rain can life shine brightly, not lose themselves, lose their own principles and bottom line, and write a magnificent chapter with their own spirit.
The sociologist went on to point out that men carry endless expectations and responsibilities. No matter where in society, the image of a man is always closely linked to tenacity, fortitude, and backbone. For men, the expectations given by backbone gender roles are an important cornerstone for growth, progress, and career success.
The sociologist went on to point out that no one's life will be smooth sailing, and the same goes for a man's life. Backbone will make men indomitable in the face of adversity, and always maintain firm belief and determination; backbone will make men never be defeated by setbacks, but make men learn from setbacks and continue to grow.
The sociologist concluded by pointing out that for men, backbone is not an empty talk, it needs to be embodied by men in practical actions. Any man with backbone, no matter what the circumstances, will not bend his waist for half a bucket of rice, will not go with the flow, and will not succumb to adversity.
A senior netizen said that although backbone is an important quality for a man to grow, progress, and achieve a career, backbone is not achieved overnight. It requires men to keep honing in life and men to maintain strong beliefs in the face of difficulties. As long as a man has been baptized by the years, a man can have a real backbone and become a dignified and moral person!
However, not all men will have backbone, there will always be some spineless men in this world, and their existence will make most men feel ashamed!
No, on April 21, there was such a scene on the streets of Zhengzhou, Henan Province-------
affair
A video circulated on the Internet shows a boy about 20 years old kneeling straight in front of a girl, and the boy's mouth keeps saying things like "I'm sorry", "I was wrong", "I apologize to you". And the girl spat out Fangfei and scolded the boy for a bloody head.
The video circulated on the Internet then shows that a big brother riding a bicycle appeared, and when the big brother saw this scene, the big brother said to the boy: "You have been kneeling like this, and ask your father and mother to come and see how uncomfortable they are! You are still a man! You have to have backbone." ”
It stands to reason that the eldest brother who rides the bike is only persuading the boy and is not blaming the girl. But who knows, the girl was actually furious! I heard the girl say to the eldest brother who was riding the bicycle, "Who told you to meddle in your business? You can try it again," and at the same time, she actually clenched her fists and rushed towards the eldest brother who was riding the bicycle, with the intention of beating the eldest brother. In this case, the eldest brother who rode the bicycle was annoyed, and he only heard the eldest brother who rode the bicycle shouting, "I'm just nosy! Perhaps frightened by the elder brother's roar, the girl let go of her fist, but her mouth still unrelentingly accused the eldest brother of being nosy.
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voices
Netizen Junzi Aicai: This boy who kneels on the ground is simply not a man! Even if he is at fault, he can't kneel down and apologize! Is he a soft bone? I am really ashamed of this boy.
Netizen, you come and go: This girl is too rampant, isn't it? She actually wants to beat up the eldest brother who crosses the road to persuade the boy? I don't know who gave her the guts? If I were the eldest brother of the boy who crossed the road to persuade the boy, this rampant girl would be miserable!
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
Lao Hu's point of view
If the boy really did something wrong, he should also apologize to the girl. It's just that the way to apologize is not like this, kneeling to apologize is insulting to the boy's personality, and once his parents know about it, his parents will definitely be heartbroken.
Lao Hu believes that according to the girl's performance, the boy who kneels on the ground to apologize may not be wrong, maybe the boy was forced to apologize. After all, the girl in this incident is by no means a fuel-efficient lamp, and it can be seen from her behavior of trying to beat the boy's eldest brother that for such a girl, Lao Hu can only say: Really speechless!