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Is your child's room clean?
Probably not clean!
The father's helpless move touched the consensus of family education?
Sometimes, we really put in great effort for the future of our children, but this effort is often accompanied by various controversies and doubts. Recently, the practice of a father in Hubei has attracted widespread attention from the society. He chose to expose his 14-year-old daughter's room to the public because of the mess in her room, hoping to remind her to regain her self-esteem and shame through the mouths of her classmates. Is this kind of parental behavior a helpless act or an excesses?
The video exposure shocked everyone and reflected on the way of family education
The father said that his daughters are twins and dependent on each other, and he tried to provoke change in other children in this way, but is the motivation behind this pure? We have to wonder whether parents' parenting methods should be based on respect and understanding, rather than through public humiliation? If a person cannot even protect their own family, how will they face challenges and difficulties in the outside world?
Reflect on the new direction of modern family education
After the incident was exposed, the reaction from all walks of life was mixed. Some people think that the father's approach is too drastic and may cast a shadow on the child's psyche, while others support the father's approach and believe that parents have the right to intervene in the child's behavior. However, we need to reflect deeply on whether such an approach can really promote children's growth and self-awareness, or will it only leave an indelible scar on their psyche.
In fact, every parent wants to give their children the best environment for them to grow up, but in this pursuit of perfection, is it possible to ignore the real needs of their children? Does the child really need such a way to be publicly blamed to awaken the inner self-reflection? Or does the behavior caused by the anxiety and loss of control of the parents play a positive or negative role in the child's development?
There are too many children with the same style in the comment area
Is this habit developed in a day, your parents set an example, I don't believe that children dare to do this!
I didn't see you this, as soon as I entered my daughter's room, I couldn't help but scold a few words, and after seeing you, I felt that I wanted to praise my daughter
Wow, my baby is very particular about this, at least the garbage can't be littered, clean up the bed before going to school, my second child is more than four years old and helps my sister clean up the mess all day long, and helps throw garbage into the trash
The family has the same paragraph, and I want to do this when I am so angry that I want to die, but I think that the child still wants to have a face, and I have to maintain her image.
It's not as good as your girl in comparison
I'm the same as my son, things are messy, but not dirty, my wife can't get used to it, all kinds of tidying up, and then my son and I can't find things
It's all the same, if my house is not cleaned up, it is no different from your house now, especially on Monday, which is basically the day of my cleaning.
Now that children are like this, it's really a headache! He doesn't clean it up, and I'm not allowed to collect it for him!
Where should family education go from here?
In homeschooling, the role of parents is crucial. Parents are not only the guides of their children, but also the support of their spiritual world. However, how to give correct guidance on the premise of respecting children's self-dignity is a problem that every parent needs to think about. This incident is not only a father's education of his daughter, but also a collective review of family education in society.
Life is not easy, and we don't need to wake up our children with stimulation and humiliation. Believing that love and understanding will lead children to the right path more than any punishment. May every family become a spiritual habitat for children, so that they can thrive in the company of their parents and gain true self-confidence and self-esteem.
epilogue
Good habits need to be cultivated from an early age. Let us use love and patience, tolerance and understanding to care for every growing heart, so that they can thrive in the warm embrace and bloom their own light.
The above content only represents the author's point of view, and friends from all walks of life are welcome to leave messages to exchange and discuss, and think about the new direction of family education.