Renting is the primary problem faced by many migrant workers in other places, and rent may also be the largest part of the living expenses. Now the general situation is that it is difficult to make money, so some people want to save a little on rent, I think this is very normal: the rented house is just a temporary foothold, if you have money, you can live more comfortable and spacious, and if you don't have money, you can live smaller!
▽But recently I saw a post that made me speechless: In order to save money, an eldest sister took her husband and two sons, and a family of four found a girl to share a house!
➤ The post was made by a girl. The girl is 25 years old, and the house she lives in now is a two-bedroom apartment, and she wants to rent out one room left. The message sent by the girl also stated that the boy should not disturb. Then an eldest sister came up and asked the girl if she would like to share a house with a family of four. The eldest sister and her husband are both about forty years old, the eldest son of the eldest sister is in high school, and we don't know how old the younger son is.
↓ The dialogue sent by the girl, the two words that were blacked out were "nerves"↓
➤ A family of four (usually three) sleeps in a bed? At least two adult men in the family are found to share a room with a 25-year-old girl who lives alone? What does this eldest sister think? There are too many thunder points and slots!
➤ Because I used to share a house with a family, I have a lot of say in this matter. Just after graduation, the internship salary is 3,005, and I can't afford to live in a single room in Shanghai, so I share a house with a family of four in a remote place (a young couple + a child under the age of three + a mother-in-law who came to help).
They had a master bedroom and a second bedroom, and I lived in the smallest bedroom. Originally, I thought it was good to have a lot of people, and the common areas such as the living room, bathroom, and kitchen were cleaned up very cleanly. But after only a month of living, I can't bear it!
▽ Every morning before six o'clock, the diligent mother-in-law got up to make breakfast and wash clothes, making a lot of noise and waking me up directly. The young couple often quarreled in the middle of the night over money and some trivial things, and the child often ran to my room to rummage through my things while I was not paying attention... The family is really noisy.
▽ At the beginning, I said that the water, electricity and gas bills were calculated according to the room, but obviously the four of them used more than I used alone, and I could bear it. What I can't stand is that their words and actions sometimes make me feel like I'm staying in their house. So when I went back to the rental room, I basically stayed in my room, and I didn't sit on the sofa in the living room a few times.
When my parents learned about this, they immediately transferred 10,000 yuan to me and asked me to rent a better single room, and they repeatedly told me not to share a room with my family anymore.
➤ If the girl posting agrees to share a house with a family of four, then she will encounter these problems that I encounter. And her situation is much more dangerous than mine! Just like a netizen said: In case there is any small friction between the girl and the family, it is four people (three of whom are men) against one person.
➤ Some people also said: What's wrong with people now, how can they think so badly of people? Maybe the conditions of the eldest sister's family are really bad, and the eldest sister just wants to save some money. There are a lot of such in big cities, where a family of three or four shares a partition house. Everyone is an ordinary person, who doesn't want to live better if they have money? The eldest sister just asks casually, does the girl scold the eldest sister when she comes up?
It is really sad to think about that forty-year-old eldest sister, whose sons are all adults, and who have to share a family of four and squeeze into the same bed with others! But every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and if you put yourself in an unpredictable and dangerous situation because of sympathy for the difficulties of others, then the proper "heart of the Virgin" is overflowing!
➤ Maybe the eldest sister doesn't have that kind of dirty bad intentions, but it's certain that she wants to take advantage of the girl in life. Otherwise, why didn't she go to share a house with the same family? Isn't she afraid that everyone will not be able to take advantage of the "equal strength"!
There is a lot of kindness in this world, but at the same time, there is also a lot of malice, a girl is out of the house, protecting herself is the most important thing!