Brilliant Life***

The path of life is all about flowers and thorns

Occasionally, I saw someone recommend the Italian movie "Brilliant Life", which also had a high score on Douban, and there were actually three upper and lower films, six hours

I chose a weekend to watch it, from the depression of the first and second parts to the warm ending of the third part, this movie brought me a lot of life thoughts

It tells the life story of ordinary people, just like many people around you, the language can not be understood, the nationality can be different, but the road of life is also bumpy, it is said that human sorrow and joy are not the same, but I believe that after you have finished watching, it is impossible not to feel the emotions in it

Matteo and Nicola are two brothers, both family and personality, and the two of them have embarked on very different paths in life. I think they are two people, and they can also be seen as two sides of a person, and how you deal with these two sides determines the direction of your life

Matteo is introverted, not good at communication, everything is buried in the heart, there have been misunderstandings with his family since childhood, the relationship with his family is estranged, a bit of an avoidant personality, but he is honest and kind

He was unable to rescue the girl from the mental hospital, his friend was disabled again while on a mission, and his personality prevented him from getting rid of negative emotions. He fell in love with a girl, but couldn't handle intimacy, and he chose to escape

Matteo suppressed the emotions he wanted to express little by little, and the words became less and less, and eventually became silent, but all the suppressed emotions would one day explode, and either you would turn yourself into a walking dead or choose to be liberated

At the moment of emotional collapse, Matteo jumped from the balcony, without the slightest hesitation, seeing his disappearing figure, I actually felt his intense pain and dazedness at this time, and choosing death was not an easy task. It was only a moment, but the tears that had gone back and forth thousands of times had already left him scarred and fragmented, and such an end was inevitable

The younger brother Nikolai accepted all the misfortunes and pains brought about by life, but he was not only cynical, but did his best to care for everyone around him, he did not suppress pain, nor did he reject love, he was a particularly warm person

He is open, sincere and wise, and when others get along with him, they will feel that there is always a love in his life. The ex-girlfriend turned into a terrorist, he raised his daughter alone, and then lost his dear brother, and he accepted it all

Finally he sent the old mother to a small island, where Mateo's former girlfriend and his widow, the old mother saw the child who resembled Mateo, and gave the child full of love, in which the old mother reconciled with Matteo and died peacefully

Nikolai is an ordinary person, but you find him so attractive, unconsciously go close to him, involuntarily love him, he finally reaped the happiness he deserved

In fact, there are more tragic stories in our culture, beautiful and beautiful, sad and tragic, but there is a kind of human mutilation and masochism in that twisty and gentle sadness, which I do not appreciate, and some things must be endured

Life is not perfect, life is not absolutely right and wrong, do not punish yourself with a random judgment, in fact, it is not your fault, open your heart, life has cracks, that is where the sun shines in

We often have the shadow of Madio and Nikolai on our bodies at the same time, don't go to extremes, don't embarrass yourself, use a lifetime of practice to seek the joy of life, life is not long, and it is also good that others can cross themselves