Why is the friendship between classmates today not as good as that of the seventies and eighties? Is it really that one generation is not as good as the next?

Today's hot search topic: What is it like to delete all your high school and college classmates?

The cause of the incident was a post-95 blogger, and the first thing he did after graduating from college was to delete all the high school and college classmates in his WeChat, leaving no one.

He said that these people approached him for a purpose, and they would contact the blogger in order to profit from him, and the relationship was not deep, and none of them could be called friends, and he thought that deleting these classmates was the most correct choice.

What do netizens say about this incident?

"Hypocritical, I don't know what this behavior of showing off my loneliness is trying to prove. If you don't recognize your six relatives, you should stay away from such creatures, after all, when you work together, the chances of betraying you are too high. ”

"It's your business whether you delete it or not, what is it to show it, what a good thing, you get along with your classmates like this, do you have no points in your heart? ”

Some people say that don't associate with this kind of person who has deleted all of his friends, and if you can't be close to everyone, it means that you lack the ability to get close to others, and you also lack the ability to communicate sincerely, which is a kind of sadness.

Normal people will have a few close friends at each stage of life, and maintain a harmonious and flat state with most other people.

It is also said that if you don't have any contact, you can find your own reasons, and no matter how introverted you are, you will have one or two good friends, and if you don't have one, it means that you have a problem.

Just like netizens said, one is not good, that is his problem, two or three are not good, you have to consider whether you are careless in making friends, all of them are not good, you have to reflect on who is not good!

What is it like to be a classmate for many years, and you can't even get along with one or two close friends? No matter how introverted you are, you won't not have a close friend.

Now it's popular for people on the Internet to break off their relatives. And to cut off all your classmates in high school and college?

Colleagues are tired of socializing, and then cut off colleagues? Then, don't get married and have children, love to say that you don't get married and have children.

In the end, I am alone, and I am very sober.

Today's young people can only be said to be too hypocritical!

What does not advocate "useless socialization", wants to live a "lonely life", and then is isolated from the world without working at home, a "isolation" is for many years, and finally disconnected from society, and can not find a job, and then in turn complains about the economy and society.

In the editor's opinion, it is normal for classmates to not get along well with each other, after all, people must attract each other in order to continue to intersect.

But people who can't even get along with their classmates really have to reflect on themselves.

casually deleted his classmates for many years, and felt that there was no need to exist, this kind of behavior can only be said to be a pretentious moaning without illness.

You want to highlight your independent personality and "live more sober than others", right?

Whether it is useful or not, we will only know after living this life! It is too early to draw conclusions.

For example, a colleague in my former unit is more introverted and shy, so he is single all year round. Later, the circle of friends found that his primary school classmates were also developing in Qingdao, so they started to pursue it. The two of them are fellow villagers + classmates, they have a lot of common language, and they are very relieved to know the roots, so they soon became friends. Now the child has been born.

Judging from my superficial life experience: when something really happens, it may be someone who doesn't usually have much contact with you, or even someone who is unexpected. And they usually call them brothers, often eat, drink and have fun together, and count on them to help when it is critical, which is often unreliable......

Some netizens said that he would not delete the relationship chain of several faces, let alone delete his classmates

Indeed, as the blogger put it, most of the students will not be in contact after graduation, "it is useless to keep them", but again, there is no harm in keeping them.

Many people's social circles are actually very small, and WeChat friends are dissatisfied, and they don't care about leaving a few more friends who only have one side.

Besides, it's one thing to have no connection, it's another thing to have no feelings.

classmates have been friends for many years, and they can't get along with each other a little, so it can only be said that some people are cold-blooded animals.

As the years get older, everyone's circle of friends has posted less, but major events such as marriage and having a baby are generally still posted. Watching my former classmates get married and start a business, life is getting better and better, and I am still happy in my heart, and it's good to praise it silently.

"Where do you not meet in life", no one can say what will happen in the future. It may go around and around and end up in the same city or the same industry, and it may be that the connection will be restored.

The students have just graduated, and most of them are immersed in nostalgia for the past and memories of campus life.

Anyway, if I knew that I had just graduated and was deleted by a classmate who thought I had a good relationship, I would feel very cold, but I wouldn't scold back, I would be disheartened, what is there to scold?

There is only one situation that can make me understand this blogger's approach, my parents are very powerful characters, and I am worried that my classmates will come to me for help, which is not easy to deal with, and I will not be able to delete it, just like if the official is big, it is inconvenient to go to the class reunion.

If this is the case, it can be understood, if it is necessary to show "personality", then I can't understand it, I can only say that today's young people, who do not flaunt any "personality" or "maverick", seem to be too "ordinary".

I don't know what the audience thinks about this?

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