Jokes are a good lubricant in interpersonal interactions, and they rarely have a special meaning. In human communication, both verbal and physical, it is a very effective way of communication.
Human communication originated from the need to convey information, and language was mainly used to convey information. However, jokes have a unique purpose. It relieves tension, makes people feel happy and relaxed, and enhances emotional interaction with each other. Jokes are an integral part of human communication.
Whether it's a job message or a personal idea, it's no longer appropriate to use jokes. Because in the joke, it is not clear what it really means. This makes jokes an ineffective way to convey a message. In order to express ourselves better, we should choose a more formal and direct way.
Men are generally more likely to tell jokes than women. Men's social personality makes them tend to present themselves in groups, boasting and bragging about their abilities, using exaggerated language to attract the attention of both the same and the opposite sex. This behavior is a way of social interaction for men and a way of mental relaxation.
Some men joke a lot, but over time, it's hard to tell if he's telling the truth or the truth. Is what he is saying is a sincere expression of his feelings, or is it a perfunctory lie? This is troubling.
It also suggests that men who joke a lot can make people feel insecure. Insecure men may not be trustworthy.
Unreliable and unobtrusive men rarely joke, especially when it comes to feelings. If he has developed strong feelings for you, he will not easily tell such jokes. These words will be more sincere and moving.
We've known each other for so long, think about me, okay?
It is true that men and women express themselves differently. Women are more cautious in expressing their inner thoughts when they are tempted or emotional, after all, they don't want their emotions to be misunderstood or misunderstood. Women are more detail-oriented and tone-oriented when expressing themselves to ensure that what they say is understood and accepted. This is obviously a very clever way to put it.
Women usually don't take the initiative to express their inner feelings, and when they do, they will appear unusually serious, serious, and even a little shy, because they are very concerned about whether their sincerity will be ignored or hurt. This inner defense mechanism may cause some misunderstanding or incomprehension to others, but most women think seriously about how to express their thoughts and want to be understood and supported by others.
Women are usually open and honest about what they really think, while men may be a little reserved in this regard. In fact, it is more difficult for men to express their true feelings than women.
There is a tradition in Chinese culture: to be subtle and introverted. When the ancients expressed their hearts, they would always wrap them in three layers until it became a perfect gift, and then they would give it to others. This is the essence of ancient poetry. This ornate use of words and emotional communication is still appreciated and loved by people and has become an important part of the inheritance of Chinese literature.
One teacher asked the students how to confess to their crush during class, and although the students were a little shy, they answered enthusiastically. It's a story that reminds us of our own youthful years and inspires us to speak up.
Some people say "I love you" and some say "Would you like to eat together", but the teacher thinks that this is not the best way to express it. The best expression is "The moonlight is beautiful tonight".
What a subtle statement! Our ancestors were also good at expressing it. They never say "I love you" directly, but use more affectionate and warmer language: May the moon shine on you.
If it is more subtle to choose who to express love, we will never be challenged by others. This is especially evident when many men are also subtle in their confessions.
When a man says to you, "We've known each other for so long, don't you think about me?" it's not a joke, it's a serious consideration of feelings for you. Please tell us about it to show your sincerity.
He hides his truest feelings in jokes, fearing rejection and that you won't agree with him. He uses a joking way to test your reaction. But if there is no sincerity in it, who would make such a joke for no reason? Although this method is a little ridiculous, it is actually to seek recognition and express feelings.
Two: When no one wants it when we get old, let's live together
If a man says this, he is likely to be attracted to you, whether you have a close friendship or not.
Consider that men are often symbols of pleasure and pleasure, often focusing on the present and ignoring the future, and rarely thinking about the future life.
They care a lot about their youth and are proud of their youth. If a man says to you, "What are we going to do when we get old," then he has probably thought about your future many times in his mind.
When a man puts you into his plans for the future and the second half of his life, what he says must be serious, not casually. Even if he exposes his heart when he is joking, it is not a simple joke. In fact, behind the joke, he hid his true heart. This is because the feelings for you are already deeply rooted in his heart, and they can no longer hide their emotions. In short, when a man expresses his plans for the future with sincerity, it represents his commitment and value to you.
If we wait until we are old and unaccompanied, we will have to take care of each other. To say this now might be considered a joke. But maybe the woman will feel that such words are unreliable, irresponsible and do not take into account the future. In any case, we all need to cherish the moment, live each day well, and live up to the fate of the encounter.
Maybe men aren't good at expressing themselves, maybe they're unsure about how you feel and think. They may have hesitation and fear in their hearts. In any case, let's understand and respect each other.
Such words can only be said when a man is emotional. No one can say such a thing to an ordinary friend or stranger without a surge of emotion.
Three: I'm such a good person, you can't find it with a lantern
Being a wonderful person, I missed something that you couldn't find even with a lantern. When we're chatting with friends, who would say such an exclamation, consciously or unconsciously, but really, deep down, I'm always looking for those lost opportunities and regrets, because I know they may never come up again.
In fact, the sincerity behind this sentence is: "I am such a good person, why can't you see it? Look at me, I am by your side, far away in the sky, close in front of you." ”
The meaning of this sentence is to remind you to value me, and I am also a real friend by your side. I hope you don't ignore me.
When a man says something like this to you, you can be sure that his heart has moved.
In Victor Hugo's book Les Misérables, there is a passage: "True love occurs in girls and is characterized by boldness, while in boys it is timid." ”
Boys often feel timid when faced with their true love, so they will use all kinds of jokes to hide their hearts and avoid revealing their true feelings. This behavior is often to protect oneself, but sometimes it can mislead the other person's perception and increase the sense of alienation from each other. When faced with true love, we should be brave enough to express our hearts instead of running away or covering it up. Only in this way can you have the opportunity to rub shoulders with true love and enjoy true happiness.
When a man is able to express his emotions in this way, it means that he really has feelings for you.
The above are three humorous jokes that men will say when they are emotional, which makes it easier for us to get to know them more formally.
Every joke has a deep meaning behind it, and it is either sincere or hypocritical. In conclusion, jokes are more than simple jokes. Especially when it comes to the topic of feelings, no one treats their feelings as child's play. This is a truth that cannot be ignored.