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Preface
Tong Liya, who has always been out of the circle for her beauty, has been criticized for her deformed married life, she was a humble and gentle popular actress before marriage, and she was a difficult wife who swallowed her anger after marriage.
Such a big contrast made many netizens question her choice: "Is it really necessary to maintain such a marriage?"
Finally, after the divorce, she was like a phoenix reborn in Nirvana, shining and dazzling in the public's field of vision.
Good and evil will be rewarded in the end, and Tong Liya, who is 40 years old and "divorced without separation", has embarked on another path!
The girl Huaichun finally succeeded
In 1983, she was born in a musical family in Xinjiang, her father is the vice president of the Music Association, and her mother is a professor at the Dance Academy.
It stands to reason that such a wealthy family should bring her a carefree childhood life, but because her parents are usually busy with work, neglect to take care of Tong Liya, and the huge family environment, she is such an inconspicuous little girl, always on the margins, resulting in Tong Liya having low self-esteem since she was a child, and such a character also laid hidden dangers for her failed marriage in the future.
However, it is precisely because she was born in a musical family, which also makes her have a natural interest in art, Tong Liya began to learn dance at the age of five, day after day of training made her dance skills very exquisite, only 16 years old became a dancer of the Xinjiang Song and Dance Troupe, and then won awards in various dance competitions, at this time her life has surpassed the vast majority of ordinary people.
But Tong Liya was not satisfied with the status quo, but wanted to pursue her dream further away, so she resolutely embarked on a journey to the north to pursue her dream.
It can be seen that although Tong Liya is soft and quiet on the outside, she is very firm and brave on the inside.
In 2004, Tong Liya was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama with excellent results, although she had to overcome the thick barriers from dance to performance, from Xinjiang dialect to Mandarin, but the strong Tong Liya did not retreat, but broadened her horizons and absorbed more knowledge and performance skills through continuous efforts and learning.
Since then, she has successfully transformed from a dancer to a film and television actor, with Tong Liya's excellent appearance and outstanding foundation in practicing dance since she was a child, Tong Liya soon successfully gained a foothold in the film and television industry.
Tong Liya is also about to usher in the man she loves and hates - Chen Sicheng.
There is a huge gap before and after marriage
Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng's love work is "Beijing Love Story" filmed in 2012, when Yaya was still a girl who was just beginning to fall in love, full of beautiful expectations and hopes for the future, so she was also full of love and tolerance for Chen Sicheng.
Perhaps because Tong Liya herself is a girl who is willing to accept and tolerate others, she turned a blind eye to Chen Sicheng's indifferent attitude.
When the two officially announced their marriage, Tong Liya's face was full of joy, but Chen Sicheng's indifferent expression was intriguing.
Many people pinch a cold sweat for Tong Liya's married life.
In the face of Chen Sicheng's endless scolding after marriage, Tong Liya repeatedly chose to forgive, and Tong Liya just thought that it was good for him to go home for Chen Sicheng's repeated cheating behaviors!
As everyone knows, endless forbearance will only be exchanged for increased humiliation, Tong Liya couldn't bear the double betrayal of her husband and best friend, and finally decided to divorce Chen Sicheng.
The failed marriage did not crush Tong Liya, she is extremely responsible, she has not lost confidence in life because of these messy things, she is still a hard-working actor and a mother who works hard to take care of her children.
After the divorce, she went against the conservative style of the past, the whole person was beautiful and bewitching, and she exuded the charm and confidence of a mature woman in her gestures, she actively participated in various programs, such as "Dancing Miracle", "Crossover Singer", etc., fully demonstrated her ability, and even her ex-husband Chen Sicheng couldn't help but send blessings on Weibo.
After the vicissitudes of life, she finally transformed from the beautiful little girl who was shy and inferior at the beginning to a confident woman who is now confident. As for her ex-husband's courtesy, Yaya also showed the wisdom and open-mindedness of a mature woman.
Divorce does not separate families
After the divorce, Tong Liya realized that only by her own efforts can she gain the respect of others. So, after the divorce, she began to be active on major platforms, and in just a few years, she not only served as the president of the Actors Association, but also starred in the Spring Festival Gala many times.
However, if they are not forced to be helpless, who wants to divorce easily?
After all, the negative impact of divorce is not only for Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng, but also for the children of both of them.
As a responsible mother, Tong Liya naturally does not want her child to have a complete family since she was a child, so she not only allowed Chen Sicheng to come to see the child often, but also acquiesced to Chen Sicheng's behavior of caring about her on Weibo, acknowledging the intimacy between the two.
Not only that, Tong Liya will also take a stake in Chen Sicheng's film in 2023 and become Chen Sicheng's major shareholder.
If you are an ordinary person, you should avoid this failed relationship, but Yaya generously accepted the fact that the two were divorced, and also came up with a compromise solution of "divorce without separation", which not only fulfilled the dignity of both parties, but also ensured the interests of the two, why not?
Since then, many media have reported that Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng took their children shopping for things, just like a happy family of three, and anyone who sees it will say a word of open-mindedness!
Although the two are no longer husband and wife, due to business cooperation, the two have come and gone more frequently, and Chen Sicheng has also changed his past appearance and treated Yaya with enthusiasm.
I have to say that the self-confident woman is the most beautiful, the former maid had low self-esteem due to family reasons, and was tortured due to marital problems, but now she finally jumped out of the cage and lived out of herself, no wonder Chen Sicheng will change her attitude towards this reborn woman!
epilogue
From loneliness and inferiority in childhood, to tenacious and free in youth, and then to the strong transformation in youth, along the way, Tong Liya's life has not been smooth sailing, and in the face of every life choice, she can stick to her own ideas.
If you choose the right one, you will continue to move forward, it doesn't matter if you choose the wrong one, she can be responsible for every step she takes, this is the real Tong Liya, a representative of traditional Chinese women who fell down and got up, a brave girl who can bloom in the muddy land!