Someone once said, "The root of a person's suffering is continuous internal friction." ”
Therefore, a person's greatest strength and strength, or the best wisdom and sobriety, is how to let go of oneself.
Once you let go, you are at ease, and only in a state of ease and relaxation can you tap out human instinct and wisdom.
Only by letting one's own instinct develop in the right direction, and only by allowing one's wisdom to be used and brought into play, can life get better and better.
So, if you want to live a more decent life, then try to let yourself learn to let go, or even let go boldly.
Mr. Nan Huaijin once said:
"Life is a staggered process between 'picking up' and 'putting down', being able to hold and put down is called weightlifting, and being able to afford to put down is called weightlifting. ”
You have to believe that the real power and decency is not to be able to pick it up, but to really be able to put it down.
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Most of the hardships and tiredness of life are self-inflicted.
It's like a person who likes to be entangled in all kinds of trivial things, all kinds of trivial things.
As a result, the things in life that have no nutrition, no value, and no meaning are like nets that wrap themselves tightly.
The more I couldn't move, the more I liked to break free, but in the end, the more I broke free, the tighter I felt, and I was exhausted.
Zeng Guofan said: "Saving trouble is the way to purify the heart. ”
In the face of the trivial things of life, bad people and bad things, we must learn to let go.
If it's something useless, why should we bother with it, and why should we let ourselves exhaust our mental strength and energy to deal with it?
A smart person must be able to live a sober life in real life while working hard to improve himself.
In the end, if you treat yourself well, there is a great possibility that the people you care about can also live a better life.
Let go of desires
Of course, it is impossible to completely let go of desires.
Because man himself is a mass of desires.
However, in the face of desire, some people are controlled by desire, and some people control desire.
What is really powerful is that you can control your desires, and what is truly decent is that you can let go of your desires generously.
When a person can control his desires, he will be able to live a more and more beautiful life.
After all, life is determined by a person's three views, cognition and thoughts.
The higher his cognition and the broader his thoughts, the more colorful his life will become, and the brighter and more lovely he will become.
Many people can't let go of their attachment to desires and the need for desires all their lives, and they always feel that that is the most successful way to live.
But in fact, a really powerful person must make himself light.
Because we can't take everything in this world with us.
After all, each of us will always come and go.
Therefore, live yourself well and control your desires, so that your life can be carried out and rise in your hands with ease.
Desire is a double-edged sword, and only by using it well can we bring more passion and a better experience to life.
If the final Fa can allow you to be dragged into the water, sucked in, and constantly squeezed, your life will definitely be more tormented and painful.
Let go of attachments
When you stop clinging to what you are attached to, you can be born again, reborn.
Venerable Hongyi said, "Whatever you want to control, you actually control." ”
The real strength is not to be able to take it, but to put it down.
Because many people have this mentality, thinking that they have worked hard to finally get and get what they want.
However, isn't it ridiculous that someone wants to let go of himself immediately, or even learn to give up?
In fact, people with Huigen must be able to make their lives easier and more comfortable.
If you always let yourself constantly struggle with certain things, only certain things, then in the end you will only fall into it and cannot extricate yourself.
In the end, I need to spend more effort and energy, constantly entangle, and constantly maintain, making my own people panic, walking on thin ice, and even nervous breakdown.
Isn't this way of living innocent? Isn't it stupid?
Therefore, let go of attachment, no longer attached, and know how to let go, so that you can really pick it up.
In this way, life will be more comfortable and calm, and life can be more casual and chic.