Since ancient times, mainland marriage has paid attention to a "good match", "high marriage and low marriage", which used to be "the order of the parents, the words of the matchmaker", so they basically followed this marriage law, but now they are mostly free to love, so there are more and more young people who break the traditional marriage law. Combined with the stories of my friends, I found that there is a type of girl who is being eyed by a two-man family.
Once upon a time, the only daughter in the city was the first choice of the Phoenix man from the countryside, but under the influence of various film and television works and cases around her over the years, the only daughter in the city has become more and more sober, and most of them have given up the advantages of the Phoenix man's "self-motivated, caring, and obedient", and instead chose the only child in the city to join forces.
In this context, the Phoenix men, especially the family conditions are not very good, but there are two brothers in the family, this kind of boys must look for new goals, of course, the same Phoenix women from the countryside they can't look at, they look at the family in a small county but have a more stable job in a big city, it is best to be an only daughter, at least no brothers, parents have a certain family background, it is best to have a pension, ordinary appearance, introverted girls. Let's break down why this type of girl is their target, and what can they do?
- The family is in a small county, but there is a more stable job in a big city
A more stable job means that the system or state-owned enterprises are in the system, which means that this girl will not have too bad education, and has a certain ability to make money, and has a high probability of being able to be reasonable, and is a good life partner.
- Preferably an only child, at least without a brother
This is very easy to understand, the only daughter will inherit all the resources of her parents, if the girl works hard in the big city alone, the parents can give more support than the girl who has brothers at home, so the only daughter is the best choice. If you are not an only daughter, it is better not to have a brother, if there is a brother, the parents may give most of the resources to the son, if there is a sister, the parents will most likely not be too partial to one or the other.
- The parents have a family background and a pension
Parents have a family background and have a pension means that they can provide some help when their daughter is based in a big city, and their daughter will not ask for a bride price when she gets married. The parents themselves have money, and the pressure on the elderly couple in the future will not be so heavy.
- Ordinary appearance and introverted personality
Girls with ordinary looks and introverted personalities are likely to have not experienced the pursuit of being held by the stars when they were students, and they have no opportunity to practice a pair of eyes to see through men in the love experience again and again, so they are relatively simple and ideal, and even think that love cannot be tainted by money and material.
What are the characteristics of this type of girl? The hardware is slightly lacking, but the software is high-quality, and it is easy to chase.
Let's take a look at what the son in the average two-man family can offer. They also fully understand that their family is a disadvantage in the marriage market, so they will greatly magnify their charm to attract women and deliberately ignore their own family situation.
- At the top of the list, of course, is the extremely high emotional value
The provision of extremely high emotional value makes this type of purposeful boy clearly different from the average "straight man". They are very gentle and considerate, very good at creating romance, and take care of girls properly in their daily life, so that girls feel that he always takes himself to heart, which will make girls who are not rich in love experience very good, and feel that he has to be, even if he knows his family situation, he can feel that "I am not married to his family, I just want him to be good to me", and fell directly.
- The second is decent housekeeping skills
Since there are no sisters since childhood, the mother will definitely let her sons learn to do some housework, which is a great plus in the process of falling in love, the girl sees "wow, he can cook, so handsome" "Wow, his house is cleaned so clean, so good", can immediately imagine that he can be a good father of the family after getting married and having a baby, and fall again.
What about the boys who chased after the girls mentioned above through some carving tricks? What did they face?
Of course, the situation on the boy's side is very good, and there is a wife after a little bride price, and the wife can also bring a sum of money back as the start-up capital of the small family, and all he needs to pay is to ask for warmth, do housework and other behaviors that do not cost any money, in case something happens to his original family, which is not good, and there is a wife who can make money to carry it with him, it is simply useless!
What about the girls, once the marriage and love are implemented to the daily "firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea", the girls find that they need money for everything, and they are willing to buy the clothes and cosmetics they were willing to buy when they were single before, because they are reluctant to buy cosmetics after marriage, because they have to save money to pay off the mortgage, save money to raise children, and save money to deal with the problems that may arise in the in-laws! What is even more outrageous is that if the husband's brother does not give his strength, most of the pressure on the in-laws to support the elderly is pressed on their own small family! But what if the marriage is over? Let's mention divorce, my husband is really good to himself, go on, my in-law's family is really a big pit. At this point, the girl found that it seemed that the days after that could not be happy, and she also remembered the strong opposition of her parents when she got married and her insistence on getting married, and the path she chose, and she was embarrassed to complain to her mother's family again, so she could only kneel and take one step at a time.
Originally, the parents held the little baby who grew up and immediately felt the cruelty of reality after being stained with a bunch of things in the mother-in-law's family, if this man could live a good life with the girl sincerely and steadfastly, in case the boy had a little money in the future, he abandoned the girl to find "true love"? After all, the girl seems to be just the "most cost-effective" choice when the boy is not willing, and at this time, what is the fate of the girl? It's the appearance that is not beautiful, it's the bigger discount, it's the already cowardly character who can't get more in the divorce, and the money earned by yourself may be a lot of the pit in the in-laws' house, so there is no money in hand, and there may be a baby who needs to be taken care of by himself......
Girls who meet these characteristics, are you willing to jump into this pit for the sake of a "gentle township" that a man has specially created for you? Parents with daughters, are you willing to marry your daughters into a family with two brothers in average family conditions?