If the woman is not happy in a family, it is difficult for the family to be happy. Why?
Because the role of a woman in the family is too important. They are wives, mothers, daughters, daughters-in-law. They have to take care of the life of their families, educate their children, deal with family chores, and bear the pressure of society.
If they are unhappy, they will lose patience, lose tenderness, lose confidence, and lose their love and sense of responsibility for their family.
So, where does a woman's happiness come from?
In fact, the happiness of a woman is simple and difficult. Simply put, as long as they are respected by their husbands, understood by their children, and supported by their families, they will be happy. The difficulty is that these things are not easy to get, and women need to push themselves before the age of 40, and they must fight for and change with their own efforts.
The husband's attitude determines the wife's temper. This statement makes a lot of sense. A good husband should be a person who is gentle, considerate, caring, and loving to his wife. He should respect his wife's choice, support his wife's career, share his wife's housework, listen to his wife's voice, and give his wife enough space and freedom. The husband should make his wife feel his love and trust, and make her feel that she is the happiest person.
On the contrary, a bad husband can make the wife feel miserable and depressed. He will lose his temper with his wife, find fault with his wife's shortcomings, ignore his wife's feelings, do not care about his wife's needs, and even betray his wife's feelings, which will make his wife feel that he is the most unfortunate person.
I have a friend named Wang Li, who is 42 years old, her husband is working outside the home, and as the number of contacts increases, he knows more and more people, and the more opportunities he has to make money, and he has accumulated a certain amount of wealth in his hands, which is difficult for women to control at this time.
When she returned home, she never helped Wang Li do anything, and when she came back from work, she sat on the sofa, like serving her uncle, boiling tea and serving water, asking long and short questions, and not daring to slack off. and often loses his temper with Wang Li, saying that she is not good or bad. After coming and going, the wife is reluctant to deal with her husband, she feels that no matter how much she pays, she will not get her husband's understanding and love.
As a result, she lost her happiness, her smile, and her hope for life. She became very irritable, irritable, and negative. She also doesn't have a good face for her husband and often quarrels. Slowly the relationship between the husband and wife became estranged, and the husband had another woman outside, and told Wang Li that he didn't love her anymore and wanted to divorce her.
A dependent wife like Wang Li is prone to problems. Women must rely on themselves, and they cannot rely on others. Only the wealth created by oneself can be dignified and the relationship between husband and wife can be stable.
The temper of the wife determines the luck of the husband. This statement also makes sense. A good wife should be a gentle, kind, hardworking, and housekeeper. She should respect her husband's opinions, support his career, care about his health, and give him enough trust and encouragement. She was able to make her husband feel her love and warmth, and made him feel that he was the luckiest person.
On the contrary, a bad wife will annoy and distress her husband. She will lose her temper with her husband, complain about his incompetence, blame him for his mistakes, do not understand his pressure, and even cuckold him. She will make her husband feel that he is the most unlucky person.
I have a relative named Zhang Jun, and he is a very lucky man. He and his wife have been married for five years and have no children. However, his wife is a very gentle, kind, hardworking, and very good housekeeper, she is very good to Zhang Jun and listens to him for everything.
She will help Zhang Jun cook, wash clothes, clean, massage him, buy him gifts, and surprise him. She will also chat with Zhang Jun, watch movies with him, and travel with him, which makes him feel very happy.
Zhang Jun loved his wife very much and was very grateful to her. He felt that marrying a good wife was the greatest blessing in his life. He also worked hard to give his wife a better life. His career is also going well, he has been promoted and raised, bought a house and a car, and saved a sum of money.
Seeing Zhang Jun like this, I was very happy for him. I think his wife is a wonderful woman and a very happy woman.
This is the causal cycle of a family. So, cherish your wives and give them enough love and respect to make them happy!