Life is a chess game, and those who are far-sighted win.
Mr. San'in Jin once said: "Those who have not been harmonious, and whose homes are not auspicious." ”
A family, the hearts of the people are not aligned, and the wealth is difficult to pass on, but there are only three generations.
If the family picks up the burden of life together, no matter how hard it is, they can walk together on a journey of mountains and waters.
The greatest wealth of a family is that the family performs its own duties and pays for each other.
Father's Chess Game: The Direction of Home
The ancients said: "Life is chess, and those who are far-sighted win." ”
If a father has great foresight, he can point the direction of the family and determine the prosperity of the family.
For the layout of the home, every step taken requires foresight.
If the family is not chaotic, it will be prosperous.
Lu You has been influenced by the chess style since he was a child, loves to play chess, and has written many exquisite chess poems.
In his opinion, Go is not a simple game, and to solve the chess game, you need to ponder, see far, and think deeply.
In the chessboard, read the way of life.
And his chess game has also made him a pattern, especially in educating children, quite far-sighted.
Lu You never asked his son to take the shortcut of the imperial examination, whether he could squeeze into the officialdom or not, he would always follow his own wishes.
In the era of feudal autocracy in the Song Dynasty, the so-called leaders came out and would invite disasters and cause trouble.
So, in "Fang Weng's Family Motto", he warned the child to be generous and respectful, and not to show his edge too much in everything.
Lu You also attaches great importance to the children's literary accomplishment, and often advises them on the principles of poetry and life.
As long as you learn and seek knowledge, even if you live in poverty, you can enjoy yourself.
An educator once said: "In the development of the family, the pattern of the father will have a very important impact." ”
Father's wisdom and insight can measure the height of a family.
If a man has a wide vision, his wife will be able to deal with things without being alarmed and chaotic, and the children will have the courage to move forward.
Even if you encounter difficulties and changes, you can still not flinch, not fear, optimistic and upward.
A family must have a backbone, especially as a father, but also the leader of the future.
A forward-looking father who can keep good character, open his vision, and shape the pattern.
And the future generations can also naturally imitate and learn subtly, know how to judge the situation, and stand at the top of the crowd.
Mother's Dinner: A Taste of Home
《闲情偶寄》中言：“母吃家常如蜜味，恐怕儿嫌腥不餐。 ”
If every home has a special taste, it is undoubtedly the aroma of mother's food.
Just as, a mother's love is between a vegetable and a meal, a spoonful and a soup.
Three meals a day is filled with the feelings of the family and the blessing of the family.
Of the famous Tang and Song Dynasty eight families, the father and son of the Su family accounted for three.
And behind these three great writers, there is a woman who pays silently, that is Su Xun's wife, Mrs. Cheng.
Mrs. Cheng, born in a famous family, is knowledgeable, gentle and virtuous, and is a good cook.
Her son Su Shi was especially delicious in his life, and every time he returned from school, he went around the kitchen.
Mrs. Cheng took the girl to the kitchen with her own hands and made a large table of delicacies.
At this time, the aroma in the Su family's courtyard has filled half of the Lower West Street.
People passing by were all attracted and sighed with emotion: "Do you smell it?" The meat of the Su family, the dishes of the Su family, are too fragrant." ”
Although the Su family was never rich, under the management of Mrs. Cheng, they still had a good life.
Someone said, "The truly romantic place in the world is the kitchen where the smoke rises." ”
In this era of abundance, everyone is trying to follow the material, eat exquisite meals, and do exquisite things.
However, the gold bowl and silver bowl are not as good as their own small rice bowls.
Mother is here, so that firewood, rice, oil and salt have temperature, and return home has meaning.
No matter what time of day, no matter how far away, there is always a hot table waiting for you.
And behind the fireworks, there is the harmony of a family.
In a home full of warmth, eating homely food, chatting about daily life, and slowly moving forward in the years, is not the simplest happiness in the world.
Children's Bookstore: The Future of Home
As the old saying goes: "Loyalty has been passed down to the family for a long time, and poetry and books have been passed down from generation to generation." “
Children are the expectation of a family and the future of a family.
There is a way that the blue is better than the blue, and the prosperity of the family depends on the success and mediocrity of the children.
There may be thousands of paths to success, but reading must be the smoothest one.
The great writer Ouyang Xiu was also a poor child, and when he was four years old, his father died.
Since then, the burden of life has fallen on his mother, but his mother doesn't want Ouyang Xiu to waste his life, so she teaches him to read and write.
The family was poor and could not afford pen and ink, so the mother and son took straw instead of paper and pen and practiced writing on the ground.
Ouyang Xiu loves to read again, so he has no choice but to borrow it everywhere.
Every time he borrowed a new book, he was like a treasure, plowing it day and night, and when he came across a good article, he copied it overnight.
So night and day, forgetting to sleep and eat, just to read.
And he lived up to his mother's expectations, from a humble Confucian to a generation of writers, and finally became famous.
If a bird wants to fly high, it must first flap its wings, and if a person is motivated, he must first study.
Reading is a chance to counterattack in life.
People who love to read can break through the limited thinking, see through thousands of miles, and enlarge their horizons.
And the insights in the book will also lead us to escape the arrangement of fate and find the truth of life.
Writer Lin Qingxuan once said: "A family that can smell the fragrance of books and hear peace can awaken the seed in people's hearts, otherwise, this seed will rot alone in the hustle and bustle." ”
A person who does not read is ignorant, and a home that does not read is even more miserable.
Reading to prosper a family, every book, every wisp of book, hides the best appearance of a family.
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Bing Xin once said: "I don't know what home is, but the boredom and sorrow melt and disappear in it." ”
Home is not a silent courtyard, but a warm home.
A harmonious family needs the joint efforts of the family and the management of the family.
The father removes all the thorns ahead for the family, the mother dissipates all the fatigue for the family, and the child will also achieve his own brilliant life.
In the vast sea of people, it is a great honor to be a family member, just as we have asked for in life, it is only for the family to be healthy and the family to be blessed.
For the rest of my life, I wish you and me, surrounded by children, parents in good health, happy faces in front of your knees, and warmth under the lamp, love and home are enough. [WeChat public account: Lao Tzu Tao Te Ching]
Author: Xiaoyaozi Source: Lao Tzu Tao Te Ching (ID: LZDDJ-1)