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Monogamy for a lifetime (11)

author:An aunt walking in the fireworks

You Min listened to You Jun's complaints, pouted, and silently wiped her tears.

"Okay, don't cry," You Jing hurriedly played a round, "Don't run out at night in the future, your parents are older, you live at home, take care of them more." ”

"I think it's better to get married quickly, and we don't need you to take care of it. You Dali said.

"Look at how you mix, you're in your thirties, you can't get married, and you have to worry about your parents. You Jun said.

You Min didn't expect to come to the hospital but became a punching bag, and he had a heart to get angry, and because of You Dali's injury, he couldn't have a seizure, so he just stood sullenly in front of You Dali's bed.

"Sister, I'm going to work, you and You Min don't have to be here like this, you can tell me when the expert diagnosis comes out." You Jun picked up the car keys and said.

"Okay, you go to work. Be careful on the road. You Jing said.

You Jun left, and You Jing and You Min stood at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed.

"How's Mom?" asked You Jing.

"She cried when I came home last night and still cried this morning. You Min said with a sad face.

"Alas," You Dali sighed heavily and said to You Jing, "go back and persuade your mother, tell her that I'm okay, just let You Min stay here." ”

After listening to You Dali's words, You Jing hesitated for a while, she didn't want to go back to face Li Yulan, she knew that as long as Li Yulan fell into an emotion, ten cows would not be able to pull it back, and it would not be over if she didn't cry for three days and five nights.

"Go ahead, You Min can't persuade your mother. You Dali continued.

"I can't persuade you," You Jing said in embarrassment.

"I persuaded my mother this morning, but the more I persuaded her, the more sad she became, and in the end I blamed me for not finding a partner. You Min said.

"Did you quarrel with her?" You Jing asked.

"How dare I? Didn't I just come to the hospital?"

When You Min said this, You Dali urged You Jing to leave.

In desperation, You Jing had no choice but to get out of the hospital and ride back to her mother's house.

Pushing open the door of the house, Li Yulan was sitting in the courtyard with her waist bent, You Jing suddenly found that unconsciously her mother was also old, and she couldn't help but feel sour, coughed, and walked over.

"妈,"

Li Yulan turned around, her eyes were red and swollen, and she had obviously just cried.

"How's your dad?" asked Li Yulan.

"The expert hasn't shown me yet," You Jing paused for a moment and persuaded, "Mom, you don't have to worry. ”

"Alas, anyway, at this age, it's no good to fall this time...... Your dad is really looking for trouble, you say, what is the height of what he climbs? At this age, he doesn't pay attention, isn't this finding guilt for himself and causing trouble to others?" Li Yulan said and wiped away her tears again. "Your grandmother fell when she was sixty years old and broke her thigh, and since then it has been worse than a year, and she has been lying in bed for three years and then gone......"

"Mom, my grandmother's medical conditions at that time were poor, and they can't be compared with now. Don't think about the worst......" You Jing advised.

"Is this what I thought? Anyway, at this age, it's not a good thing to fall...... This is my life, when I was young, your father didn't hurt people at all, he only cared about himself, and he didn't work a few years ago, when I had pneumonia, do you remember? He, watching people play chess in the family home, won't go to the hospital to accompany me, now that he is old, he finally knows that he is good to me, and he doesn't quarrel with me, and he also knows that it is not easy to feel sorry for me, but who knows, he fell, and I don't know how many years he can accompany me......

"Mom, don't worry, no, I just broke my foot and neck, and I didn't hurt anywhere else. ”

Li Yulan didn't listen to You Jing, and said to herself, "This is God's will, you can't complain about anything else, if you want to complain, you can complain about my life, I don't have a happy life." Your dad is so good now, he doesn't make me angry, he will chat with me, and he can help me work, I don't have a life to enjoy. ”

You Jing listened helplessly to Li Yulan's babbling, she felt that Li Yulan was really old, but she had just experienced such an event, and she was almost about to collapse.

"Mom, if you don't worry, I'll take you to the hospital to see my dad, save yourself from thinking nonsense at home and scaring yourself. You Jing had an idea and said.

A glimmer of light flashed in Li Yulan's eyes, she hesitated for a moment, and said, "It's okay, you can take me there." ”

As soon as he said go, You Jing took Li Yulan and soon came to the hospital again.

The expert has just finished the consultation, and the treatment plan is to recommend conservative treatment, You Dali was lying on the bed and his heart was up and down, You Min asked him if he wanted to drink water, and he didn't hear it.

Li Yulan and You Jing walked into the ward, and You Dali was still immersed in his thoughts, until Li Yulan stood in front of him with tears in her eyes.

You Dali raised his head suddenly, "You, why are you here?"

"You said you, okay, aren't you looking for your own guilt? At this age, you can still do it, you can make me miserable. ”

"Alas, it's okay, it's okay, it'll be fine in a few days. You Dali hurriedly said.

"Dad, is the expert here?"

"The expert has just been here. You Min took over and said, "Conservative treatment is recommended." ”

"Hurt muscles and bones for 100 days, at this age, can you get better without surgery?" Li Yulan asked worriedly.

"It's because of the age that doctors don't dare to do surgery. You Min said.

Listening to You Min's words, Li Yulan glared at her and said, "You just let your dad worry about it, when your dad was good, you didn't find a partner and didn't get married, now it's okay, your dad is like this, you say, what should I do?"

"Mom, how can you blame me for everything?" You Min said aggrievedly.

"You're in your thirties, and you can't get married, so you can let me and your dad save worry!" Li Yulan said sharply.

You Min was so angry that he turned around and walked outside.

"I raised four children, why is it the last one, people are worried about getting angry, they don't know a little thing, and they will be angry with her sooner or later!" Li Yulan didn't give up, muttering in the back.

You Jing couldn't listen anymore, and said, "I'll go out and have a look." ”

Then he followed.

You Min, who came out of the ward, stood at the door of the bathroom and wiped her tears.

You Jing sighed and walked over.

"Mom, that's it, don't you think, the older she gets now, the more powerful she is?" You Jing said softly.

"I sometimes wonder if I'm her own," Yu Min said, rubbing the bridge of her nose with the back of her hand.

"Don't think about it, I can prove that you are born to your mother, when your mother gave birth to you, family planning was already very tight, and our mother was the director of women's affairs in the village at that time, which is equivalent to going through a back door for herself and secretly giving birth to you. At first, I didn't dare to raise you in my own home, so I sent you to my second aunt's house. ”

"I know, I still remember that my second aunt asked me to call you her mother at that time, and she followed you to the county seat until she was in elementary school. I'm actually superfluous, dispensable in this family. You Min said dejectedly.

"I also have this kind of thought from you, when I was a child, I even imagined that I came from an alien planet, and my parents should be aliens and accidentally left me on Earth. When I was a child, I was very envious of my brother and You Jun, because my parents were really good to them, they could play crazy everywhere, and I had endless housework when I was very young, at that time, I hated to let me do housework, I hated not to disappear in this family. ”

"And now?" asked Yumin.

"Now," You Jing hesitated for a moment, and said, "Accept the reality, there are no more unrealistic ideas, and besides, after all, it is a family, besides, in that era, in that living environment, my parents were not gods, we were born in such an environment, what can we do? Speaking of which, we are still better than our parents' generation, they couldn't eat when they were young." ”

After listening to You Jing's words, You Min was silent for a while and said, "Are you annoying your parents? ”

"There's no way around it. I was in a hurry to get married, largely because I left home and wanted to live on my own. ”

"I'm the opposite of you, I," Yumin looked at the other end of the hallway, as if touching a sore spot in his heart.

You Jing stepped forward and gently stroked her back, and whispered, "I know, it's just that you still have to think clearly, you can't punish your parents with the rest of your life as a bet because of your parents' intervention." In fact, the ultimate victim is yourself. ”

You Min was told the central matter, his nose was sour, and he said, "I'm not punishing my parents, I just can't get over the hurdle in my heart." ”

Perhaps, it's because your parents have been ignoring your feelings so that they can see how you feel. ”

"They don't care about what I feel in my heart at all, they just think about themselves!" You Min suddenly lost control of her emotions, but she desperately suppressed it with her remaining reason, she roared in a low voice, "What they care about is their face, what they care about is to find them a satisfactory son-in-law! They don't care about me at all!"

You Jing sighed softly and said, "The parents of that era, they originally thought that their children were born and raised by them, so they had to obey them completely, otherwise they would be unfilial." Actually, I'm glad that it was a wise choice to find Ma Yue at that time. Like me, according to my parents' thinking, how can I find someone who really loves each other? Like you said, they just want to find a satisfactory son-in-law according to their own ideas. Anyway, my marriage can't be decided by me, so I'll just find someone who is willing to spend money on me. ”

"Sister, I can't accept your marriage. You don't talk about getting together and leaving more, like brother-in-law, and you don't have much culture, the two of you are not on the same level at all, how do you usually communicate?" You Min grabbed You Jing's hand and said.

"Didn't we come here for half a lifetime?" You Jing said with a wry smile, "Two people get married and have children, what else is there to communicate?

As soon as You Jing's voice fell, the mobile phone rang, she picked up the phone and looked at it, and said with a smile, "Look, it really said that Cao Cao Cao arrived, and your brother-in-law called." ”

You Jing picked up the phone after speaking, and Ma Yue's hoarse voice came from inside.

"Where have you been?"

"You're back?" asked You Jing.

"Well, just got home. There was no one at home. ”

"I'm in the hospital. You take a break, come over in the evening. ”

"Well, I'll sleep first, I slept for four hours yesterday in order to get back, and I was sleepy. ”

"Sleep. ”

You Jing hung up the phone after speaking, and said to You Min, "Look, having a husband is better than nothing, your brother-in-law will come over at night." ”

You Min pursed his lips, rolled his eyes, and said, "I know, you are two people, I don't know, I thought you weren't even friends." Dry, is this two people talking?"

Monogamy for a lifetime (11)

To be continued.