How "precocious" are Japanese children? After reading this set of photos, mothers are not calm

When I went to a friend's house, I happened to meet her relatives returning from Japan. I was amazed by the way my relative's daughter was dressed.

The girl didn't look big either, as she looked like she was in her teens in a babydoll shirt with a pleated skirt, white over-the-knee socks and small leather shoes.

But the heavy makeup on his face didn't show that he was a child at all.

Afterwards I asked my friend how old the girl was. My friend told me that he had just turned 15.

My friend didn't think it was strange for a long time, saying that in Japan, the dress is generally more mature, and the girl has put on makeup early.

It is true that the culture is different in different regions. I've seen a variety show before, and there are some Japanese girls in it, and they do look a little more mature than our children.

One: How "precocious" are Japanese children?

When it comes to 11-12-year-old girls, what comes to our minds is definitely wearing a ponytail, a school uniform, or a T-shirt and sweatpants, and a pair of small white shoes.

They are still childish, jumping and jumping, and they should talk about cartoons, games, or school gossip.

But how precocious are Japanese girls? After reading this set of photos, the mothers are not calm.

In a variety show, a group of little girls were invited to talk about their thoughts on life and the future.

These children, from their fleshy faces and childish voices, we can see that they are still a group of children.

But their dress is really surprising.

They were not wearing children's clothes, but fashionable clothes in their twenties. The hairstyle is also trying to adjust in the direction of adults. The makeup on the face is even thicker, and the lipstick and blush are thick.

When I look at them, I feel that children are not like children, adults are not like adults, and they are more like children under the "skin" of adults.

Do you think that's all they have to do with their precociousness?

No, there's something even more surprising to come.

There was a little girl who was asked what kind of partner she wanted to find in the future.

You know what?

The little girl said: "It's good to be gentle and considerate, but it's still more important to be rich." ”

I was stunned when I heard it, this little girl knows what it means to be gentle and considerate? The key is that it is not important to be gentle and considerate, but it is more important to have money.

Are they thinking too far ahead?

It reminds me of the neighbor's youngest daughter, who is about the same age. Usually in addition to studying, she is playing, and if she is asked what she wants to do in the future, she may not even think about what to eat tomorrow morning.

Personally, I think that children's world should be simple and innocent, and the most important thing for them at this stage should be to study and exercise their independence ability to prepare for entering the society in the future.

And appearance, money, and partner, let's wait until I grow up to think about it.

Two: the harm of precocious puberty

If a child matures too early, it is actually quite worrying.

I have a friend's niece who started thinking about adult issues at a young age, such as the family's financial situation and the relationship between her parents, which is not something she should worry about at her age.

●Lost Doushin

If children mature too early, they will lose that innocent happiness in the first place.

You think, it's too much of a burden for children to have fun with toys and friends, but they are worried about the future.

Like that little niece, she sometimes asks her mother some deep questions, such as "Mom, do we have any money?" or "Do you and Dad not love each other anymore?"

These questions sound worrying, and the child's thinking questions are too mature.

● Problems socializing

Children who mature prematurely often have problems socially.

They may find it boring to play with children of the same age because their interests and concerns are different. This can make them feel lonely and sometimes even misunderstood and ostracized by their peers.

They may prefer to socialize with older children or adults, thus feeling isolated among their peers, which is detrimental to the development of social skills.

●Difficulty managing emotions

Children with precocious mental precociousness tend to have a deeper understanding of their feelings, but they may not have fully developed the ability to deal with these complex emotions.

This can lead to anxiety, depression, or mood swings as they need to deal with stress and expectations beyond their age.

So, as parents, we have to be careful to let our children have a happy childhood as much as possible, and not let them face the adult world too early.

Like that little niece, her mother later took her to outdoor activities more, allowing her to play more with children of the same age, and slowly, she began to enjoy her childhood more.

Japanese children are too precocious, what do you think?

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