#精品长文创作季#
College students are the future of the motherland, and they should study hard, fight hard for their studies and future, and work hard for the construction and development of our country.
However, during this period of time, the phenomenon of "nipple music" has appeared on many college campuses, and many college students are deeply involved in it and cannot extricate themselves, but parents are completely unknown to such a situation.
In any case, the negative impact of this phenomenon cannot be ignored, it will affect the phased learning state of college students, but if it is very serious, then it may even destroy the future and future of a college student.
So how exactly can we solve this problem and get those college students back on their feet?
1. "Nipple music" appeared on college campuses
First of all, let's talk about what is called "nipple music", the so-called nipple music is not a product, but a general name for the negative psychological phenomenon of contemporary college students.
The term comes from the Internet, borrowing from the carefree state of babies when they are feeding, as a metaphor for college students who are unable to extricate themselves from some entertainment and pastimes despite their studies.
Now that the phenomenon of nipple fun has quietly appeared in many universities, it can be seen that many college students are addicted to games, bad social or other entertainment projects, and they don't care about the important issues of their academic performance and credits. This is true for a lot of college students.
During the school period, these college students do not study hard, but are immersed in the joy of games or dramas, and even skip classes for this reason.
There are also some college students, although they don't play games and don't indulge in those TV series and movies, but they maintain bad social habits, especially at night, and are happy to go to some night clubs to drink and jump.
They seem to have forgotten the pain of reality, and have devoted their souls and bodies to the illusory world of their brains, thus gaining short-term happiness, and they have no regard for the objective facts that exist in the real world. This phenomenon is also very surprising.
You must know that these college students have experienced the brutal college entrance examination and have been admitted to the university of their choice in the fierce competition.
They should study hard and work hard for their ideals, but why do they lose those positive and enterprising spirits and indulge in the virtual world of their own imagination?
2. Why does this happen?
In fact, it is not surprising that this phenomenon occurs, which has a great deal to do with the commonplace problem of Chinese education.
From the perspective of Chinese education philosophy, many parents pay too much attention to grades and their children's future development, while completely ignoring their children's own interests, which makes their children receive great depression in the process of growing up.
And every time a child complains about his performance, parents claim that if they can't get a good grade, then they can't be admitted to a good university in the future, as long as they can pass the test of the college entrance examination and be admitted to a good university, then their future will be a bright and smooth road.
As for the educational philosophy conveyed by the school, it seems that once a child passes the college entrance examination and is admitted to the university of his choice, then he does not have to worry about his future. In such a situation, many children have a fixed concept in their hearts, that is, as long as they are admitted to university, they can completely indulge themselves and no longer need to work hard for their future.
Under the influence of such a concept, many college students will be content with the status quo, lose their original fighting spirit and ambition, and no longer do something conducive to their own development, but to enjoy the happiness brought by nipple music.
Of course, there is another important factor, which is that the competition for jobs in the workplace is too fierce nowadays.
Some college students are not actually addicted to nipple music when they first enter the school, but they are completely rotten during the junior or senior year when they are looking for a job.
The reason for this is that the competition for jobs in the workplace is too fierce nowadays. In March, many colleges and universities held spring double election meetings.
However, only a small number of college students can win the favor of careers and enterprises in the spring double election. This is not because there are too few companies that come to the school to recruit talents, or because the size of the companies is not the same, but the standards of those college students are simply because the recruitment standards they have set are too high.
In reality, companies often want to recruit fresh graduates who have already achieved some success in their respective fields of study and have work experience.
But these companies may not understand that there is a certain conflict between these two points, and college students have a fixed time allocation, and if they want to achieve something academically, they will inevitably lose internship and work experience.
However, if you want to work outside the home in your usual time, you will inevitably relax your academic research.
However, those companies that come to the school to recruit do not seem to care about these problems at all, which also leads to many college students being unable to get an employment contract on the double selection meeting to find the job of their choice.
Of course, there are some state-owned enterprises that come to many universities to recruit, but the target of these state-owned enterprises does not seem to be those fresh undergraduate graduates, but those graduate students.
Such a situation has made many college students see the gap between reality and ideals, so they simply lie flat, no longer have any expectations for their future, and break the jar.
This phenomenon has permeated college campuses, and it seems to have become a fixed atmosphere, and parents are still unaware of it, knowing that the negative impact of nipple music cannot be ignored.
If a college student indulges in nipple pleasure, then they will naturally waste their academic performance, which will be extremely negative in the short term, and then they will lose interest in their subsequent future and work, resulting in a vicious circle of psychology.
If it is not guided, the corresponding situation will become more serious, and there are many college students who will continue this psychological concept even after graduation.
In this way, they will give up hope for life, do not struggle, do not fight, and do not get married and have children.
This irresponsible attitude not only deprived these college students of their future, but also dashed the hopes of many parents.
The most important thing is that if these college students are all indulged in the joy of nipple music, then who will build our motherland, and who will support the subsequent development of our country?
Of course, for these college students themselves, their unbridled indulgence in this short-term pleasure will definitely have an impact on their physical state. This unhealthy culture should be curbed, but what can be done to solve it?
3. How to solve this problem
In view of the phenomenon of college students indulging in nipple music, in fact, the school should take the lead in responding, provide reasonable psychological guidance to these college students, inform these college students that they should work hard to learn professional courses, and in their free time, they should also take some courses that are helpful to themselves or participate in some part-time jobs in the society, which will help them develop in the future and accumulate work experience.
In addition, the school can also hold some vocational lectures from time to time, so that these college students can have a deeper understanding of their major or academic aspects.
While this may not change the current competitive employment status quo, it can give college students an advantage when looking for jobs in the future.
Of course, this does not mean that some extreme considerations and measures should be taken, and schools should also pay attention to the daily entertainment and pastime of college students.
To this end, the school can also set up some club activities, so that these college students can participate in a wide range of activities, avoid their excessive addiction to some bad entertainment pastimes, and put their daily pastimes on the cultivation of practical interests and specialty learning.
This allows these college students to better feel the joy of life and the joy of learning, so that they can avoid some bad entertainment and pastime.
Parents should also pay close attention to this, and must not leave their children alone after sending them to school. If conditions permit, you can actually take some time out to spend with your children, so that children can feel the warmth of family affection and rekindle their expectations for learning and life.
With the joint efforts of parents and schools, I believe that the phenomenon of nipple music sweeping the campus should be solved, of course, if we want to completely eradicate this phenomenon, we also need to introduce the corresponding concept into basic education, and completely change the Chinese education model.
No longer take the so-called test-oriented education as the mainstream, but pay attention to the cultivation of children's interests, pay attention to their own learning demands, and adopt a more modern education model
brief summary
The phenomenon of "nipple fun" has appeared on many college campuses, which has also made many college students deeply trapped and unable to extricate themselves, but parents are completely unknown.
You know, this is a very terrible phenomenon, and if it is serious, it can even destroy the future of a college student. Schools and parents should pay attention to this.
Subsequently, parents and schools should also strengthen communication and cooperation, and take corresponding measures to carry out corresponding psychological guidance and ideological education for college students, so that they can reshape their expectations and plans for study and life, clarify their main tasks at the moment, and do not blindly put on the rot and lie flat, so as to get a better future.