Let's take a look at snippet one:
Tong Tong hurried home and the first thing he did was turn on the TV, but unfortunately "SpongeBob SquarePants" had already finished playing, and the ending song was playing. Originally, he was left by the teacher to do his homework at school today, Tong Tong felt very uncomfortable, and he missed the finale of his favorite "SpongeBob SquarePants", and he cried sadly. He complained to his mother: "I have worked hard, but there are too many things to do every day, doing homework, watching TV, reviewing, helping my mother with housework and exercising, and there is really not enough time." ”
Let's look at snippet two:
One mother described her son as follows: "My son complains every day, is flustered, and loses everything. Either I forgot to take my homework book home, or I forgot to bring my textbook. Once in an exam, he even forgot to bring a stationery box. His dad and I reminded him many times to plan ahead, but he just couldn't get rid of the bad habit.
I believe that every parent has encountered such a situation, especially boys. Before each final exam, their lives become a mess, waking up early to endorse books and going to bed late to revise. If you persuade him to pay attention to his body, he will also say aggrievedly: "I haven't finished reviewing yet, if only I started earlier." ”
These questions are a real headache for parents. But it's not that hard to solve, and the best way is for the boy to make a study plan. That is, to have a clear schedule for what you want to do, and to complete it in preparation and step by step.
For example, there is a mother who does this: her son Xiao Ming is always looked down upon by his classmates because of his bad grades, plus he is more naughty, and the teacher doesn't like him. Xiao Ming even wanted to drop out of school at one point. The mother was very surprised when she heard this, she knew that she couldn't blame the child, because she usually didn't pay attention to his studies. So she didn't blame Xiao Ming, but said, "You can't do anything if you drop out of school now, so you might as well try to learn according to the method I taught you." Xiao Ming agreed.
His mother helped him analyze the situation, made a study plan together, and told him: "You are not required to be the first in the exam at the beginning, just follow the plan and make a little progress every time." With this plan, Xiao Ming slowly began to enjoy learning.
So you see, it's really important for boys to have a study plan. This will not only help them develop good study habits, but also develop their character and allow them to learn to study more organized and planned.
Of course, good habits are not developed all at once, and mothers should be patient and slowly cultivate good habits in their boys in their daily lives.
Advice for young parents
Method 1: Teach boys to organize their study time
Some boys procrastinate in their homework because they don't know what to do at what time. If parents want boys to learn to have a plan, they must first teach them to manage their time.
For example, Mao Mao, he used to write his homework until late, and then he had to watch cartoons, play with toys, and didn't go to bed until late. One day, he actually played until twelve o'clock while studying, and the next day he dozed off in class and was criticized by the teacher. After returning home, Maomao told her mother very aggrieved. His mother took this opportunity to tell him to have a sense of time and helped him make a study plan. Since then, Mao Mao has been studying according to the plan, and the schedule is getting better and better.
Therefore, in daily life, parents should tell boys when they should study and when they can do other things to help them develop good study habits.
Method 2: Segmented learning, cross-learning
If the boy has 90 minutes to learn, parents can let them learn in several sections, such as 30 minutes at a time, and then take a break to learn again. This way the boy will not be too tired and will learn better.
Method 3: Review in a timely manner
What you have just learned, you will forget it quickly at first, but after a while, you will forget it more slowly. Therefore, parents should tell the boy to review in time. After school every day, you can review what you learned that day before doing your homework. Before going to bed at night, you can also think about what you have learned today.
Method 4: The study plan should be adapted to the actual situation of the boy
Every boy's situation is different, so the study plan should also be formulated according to their physique, interests, personality, etc. Parents should think holistically, and don't copy other people's plans.
Method 5: Adjust your study plan flexibly
After making a study plan, although you should try to follow the plan, you should also flexibly adjust it according to the actual situation. Parents can exchange learning experiences with boys, communicate learning methods with teachers, and revise plans in a timely manner. Important or difficult learning tasks can be done in the main study time, and less important can be done in the fragmentary time.
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