On April 16, a gruesome video of a wife pouring boiling water on her husband's head went viral, showing a man suffering huge burns. It's really unexpected that something like this happens between husband and wife. In today's society, marital conflict has become a great social problem, what is the reason why a wife is so cruel to her husband?
Husband and wife turn against each other, and their grievances are difficult to reconcile
Judging from the inside story exposed by the man's friend, the contradictions between the couple have accumulated little by little. According to relatives and friends, the wife is a "Voldemort" who often reaches out to her husband to ask for a large amount of money in order to help her younger brother, and the husband is extremely dissatisfied with this. The husband thinks that it is his hard-earned money, why should he help the brother-in-law who does not learn and has no skills. Usually the husband and wife often quarrel because of this brother-in-law, so this time the two have a big fight, is it because the wife wants to help the younger brother again?
Suspicions and grievances have been accumulated for a long time, and trivial things eventually become the root cause of trouble
Before the water splashing incident, the wife wanted to ask her husband for 1 million yuan, the reason was to fund her younger brother to buy a house, which completely broke out the conflict between the husband and wife. Judging from the video, the two were just arguing ordinarily at that time, the husband was lazily sitting on the sofa drinking, and the wife was cleaning up the house on the side, not knowing who the two people were who began to provoke conflicts, and a fierce quarrel broke out directly. Until the wife was so angry that she couldn't think, she actually picked up the kettle next to her and splashed it at her husband without hesitation. In the video, after the husband was splashed, a puff of white smoke rose directly from his body, and his hands and feet fluttered indiscriminately, while his wife watched coldly. It's been a few days since the video was released, but what is the current situation of the couple?
The splashing of water was life-threatening, and the husband was seriously injured and hospitalized
The boiling water of more than 100 degrees goes directly down the head, which is enough to seriously burn people. In the video, we can clearly see that the man was in great pain after being doused, covering his hands helplessly, and letting out a terrible scream. After the incident, the man was rushed to the hospital for treatment, and his injuries were quite serious and required skin grafting surgery. Such life-threatening violence has gone completely beyond the ordinary scope of family conflicts. Many netizens commented that the husband should sue his wife for intentional injury, and the husband should pour it back with boiling water, but after all, we are not the parties, what will the husband do?
The wife is reluctant to divorce and has impure motives
Despite the fact that the wife had done such an unforgivable thing, she refused her husband's request for divorce. Judging from the revelations of many relatives and friends, the husband has decided to divorce his wife, but he will not call the police, because the two still have children, and the husband does not want his children to be affected by his biological mother, and he is not willing to delay the future of the children in vain because of the entanglement between adults. On the other hand, the reason why she is reluctant to divorce is because she is unwilling to give up her property and wants to help her younger brother again. I really want to ask my wife, didn't she think about anything when she poured her husband's boiling water?
Maintaining a marriage is difficult and requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife
In fact, many marriages encounter difficulties, and both parties are at fault first. There is no doubt that husbands and wives should be considerate and respectful of each other, and the slightest deviation will lead to irreparable grievances. It is not easy to maintain a marriage, and it requires both parties to work together with their hearts. Every family will encounter some thorny problems, and the key is for both husband and wife to solve them with a peaceful and rational mind, rather than hurting each other out of control. It's normal to have disagreements, and it's important to learn to communicate and tolerate each other.
Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read
From the man's point of view, his inner anger and dissatisfaction are understandable. How can you be asked by your wife again and again to buy a house for your younger brother! As a man, of course, such things are not allowed to happen one after another. But no one would have thought that a wife would do such a crazy thing, pouring boiling water on her husband's head, which is simply destroying her own marriage with her own hands! Even if there are contradictions and disputes between husband and wife, they must not go mad and do such a life-threatening thing.
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