A woman's life.
It's like the seasons change.
Each stage has its own unique charm and brilliance.
When the wheels of time pass the threshold of 40 years old, many women begin to face various tests of their emotional lives.
At this time, learning to let go of some unnecessary emotional entanglements is essential for personal growth and happiness. Here, we especially remind women who have passed the age of 40 not to covet the following three feelings.
Letting go is a kind of wisdom and blessing.
Old romances
The old love affair is like a yellowed photo.
Although it carries good memories, it is in the past after all.
Time flies, and personnel are no longer available.
The past feelings have long become irreparable regrets.
As Shakespeare said:
"The past is gone, and smart people don't bother with things that can't be changed. ”
Therefore, women who have passed the age of 40 should learn to let go of their past relationships, cherish the happiness in front of them, and bravely meet the challenges of the future. In this way, it is a wise choice.
When Ms. Li was forty years old, she met her former lover, Mr. Zhang, by chance.
The two recalled the bits and pieces of the past, as if they were back to that youthful time.
However, the reality has long been different.
Ms. Li's husband and children all need her love and companionship, and Mr. Zhang has his own family.
The two know very well that the old love can only become a good memory, but not a real happiness. So, they chose to let go of the entanglements of the past and return to their own life tracks.
Fantasy love
Ms. Wang, has always been looking forward to love.
She dreams of meeting a gentle, considerate man with whom she can spend the rest of her life.
However, in reality.
The men she met were either incompatible or had failed in their careers.
Ms. Wang gradually realized that her love fantasies were too unrealistic. As a result, she began to adjust her mindset and no longer pursue the perfect partner, but instead focus on communication and understanding with the other person.
Eventually, she found a partner with whom she supported each other and grew together.
Some women.
Even after the age of 40, I still have beautiful fantasies about love.
They long, to meet the perfect partner, to spend the rest of their lives with.
Pursuing idealized love too much will only make you go further and further on the road of emotion. Therefore, women who have passed the age of 40 should learn to face reality and look at love rationally.
Feelings of dependence
The woman is over 40 years old.
People often have their own families and careers.
However, some women are overly dependent on their husbands or children and lose their independence.
This feeling of over-dependence.
Not only will it deprive women of opportunities for self-growth, but it may also have a negative impact on family relationships.
Therefore, women who have passed the age of 40 should learn to remain independent and autonomous, and have their own lives and hobbies.
For example, Ms. Zhao has always regarded her husband and children as the whole of her life.
For this reason, she almost gave up her career and hobbies.
As time went on, she felt that her life had become monotonous and her relationship with her husband and children had become increasingly strained.
Ms. Zhao realized that she needed to find herself.
So, she began to replan her life and regain her career and hobbies. Gradually, her life became more colorful and her relationship with her family became more harmonious.
After the age of 40.
A wise woman will let go of unnecessary emotional entanglements and cherish the happiness in front of her.
If you want to live happily.
Then everyone, don't be greedy for inappropriate feelings. Letting go of old romances, unrealistic fantasies, and excessive dependence, women can calmly face the challenges of life and meet the beautiful future.
And such a woman can keep the blessings of the rest of her life.