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I, Chen Xiaoming, am 27 years old this year, and as a company employee, I have been in love with my girlfriend Lin Fang for three years. As time passed, our relationship grew deeper and deeper, and we even began to prepare for marriage. However, just as we were happily planning for the future, Mother Lin's words were poured on our heads like cold water.
"You two are young, how can you spend all your money on buying a big house?" Lin's mother's tone revealed dissatisfaction and worry, "In the future, if you have a child and all kinds of expenses, will you have enough money?" ”
In the face of Lin's mother's doubts, I tried to be patient and explained: "Mama Lin, we understand your worries, but marriage is an important moment in our lives, and we want to prepare a stable home for ourselves." We will plan our expenses wisely to ensure that your future life is worry-free. ”
However, Mother Lin didn't seem to accept my explanation, she still insisted on her thoughts, and finally left with a displeased face. After returning home, I confided my dissatisfaction to Lin Fang: "Why does your mother distrust us so much? ”
Lin Fang held my hand and tried to calm my emotions: "Don't be angry, my mother's temper is like this." She actually cares about our future, but in a way that's a little hard to accept. I'll communicate with her well and make her understand our thoughts. ”
Although Lin Fang's words relieved me a little, the doubts in my heart did not completely dissipate. A few days later, Lin Fang suddenly proposed to reconsider the plan to buy a big house, which surprised me.
"My mother is also reasonable, the child's expenses in the future will definitely be a lot. There was a hint of hesitation in Lin Fang's tone, "Why don't we buy a smaller house?"
As I listened to her, the anger in my heart gradually rose: "Why have you started to listen to your mother? Haven't we already discussed it? Our financial strength can afford a big house!"
Lin Fang was taken aback by my tone, and she whispered, "I don't know what's wrong, maybe it's affected by my mother's words." Sorry to make you angry. ”
Looking at Lin Fang's self-blame, I had mixed feelings in my heart. I know she didn't mean to doubt our financial strength, but was just swayed by her family's words. However, this vacillation has deeply disturbed me. We are already adults about to enter marriage, so why should we be swayed by other people's ideas?
I took a deep breath and tried to calm my emotions: "Lin Fang, I hope you can trust our judgment more. We are the ones who know ourselves best, and we are financially strong enough to support a happy family. Don't let other people's words influence our decisions. ”
Lin Fang nodded silently after hearing this, a hint of firmness flashed in his eyes: "You're right, I should believe in our own." We work together for our future. ”
After this dispute, we were even more convinced of each other. Soon after, we started to prepare for the wedding, and we successfully selected a house and took out the loan procedures. Although there are still twists and turns in the process, we have overcome them one by one and walked towards a happy future hand in hand.
Looking back on this experience, I know that marriage was not all smooth sailing. However, as long as we trust and support each other, we can get through every difficult time together. There is still a long way to go, and I believe that we will go further and more steadily together.