In this era of information explosion, the news of an 86-year-old uncle in Yiyang, Hunan Province marrying his first love is like a bombshell, causing an uproar on the Internet.
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The uncle's wedding was not only pompous, but also extremely high-profile, as if to announce his love legend to the world. However, when the insiders revealed the truth behind it, female netizens said "break the defense", what kind of story is hidden behind this wedding?
Here's the thing
First, let's take a look back at the grand occasion of this wedding. Uncle Zhang, a talented son of Peking University, the former principal, used a lively wedding comparable to that of a young man to marry his first love, Ms. Cao, who was in his heart. Dragon and lion dances, fireworks and firecrackers, this pomp and circumstance, this style, it makes people wonder if they are making movies.
And the red banner hanging on both sides of the four-story building is even more laughable and ironic - "A hundred years of sincerity are looking forward to it, and the red candle in the cave room finally inscribes the love of first love." Sixty years of Lao Yan flew separately, and it is always difficult to write lovesick love songs in the brocade book on the clouds. ”
Some netizens were particularly angry when they read this couplet: Have you been thinking about it for a lifetime? Is the person who has accompanied you through life a joke?
However, I have to say that a reader is a reader, and the couplet is really good!
Insiders broke the news
However, the insider's revelations greatly reduced the romance of this wedding.
It turned out that Uncle Zhang's first love was the daughter of a professor at Peking University, and because of Uncle Zhang's poverty, she was strongly opposed by the woman's parents. As a result, Uncle Zhang turned around and married someone else, returned to his hometown, and founded a private school.
All this seems to say: love is just a transaction.
Now, as soon as the original partner left, Uncle Zhang couldn't wait to marry his first love.
This makes people want to ask: Was the life of the original partner written off like this?
Isn't her dedication and her companionship worthy of a trace of respect and memory?
Uncle Zhang's high-profile wedding, is it a little too selfish?
Female netizens collectively broke the defense?
In the comment area, the reaction of female netizens was particularly intense. They all said that such behavior was unacceptable. The silent dedication of the original partner was exchanged for such an ending, which is not only disrespectful to the original partner, but also irresponsible to the marriage.
Some netizens bluntly said: "Maybe I never loved you, but there was no better choice at that time!"
Some netizens sighed: "I feel cold for my deceased mother, so I married my first love home when I died, cooked for her and went to the park, obeyed her words, my mother has never had it in her life, and others may not want it!"
gave birth to children for him, and never warmed his heart all his life
The original partner has no credit and hard work, and he shouldn't be humiliated like this!
We cannot deny that everyone has the right to pursue happiness, regardless of age. But that doesn't mean that we can trample on the efforts and sacrifices of others at will. The story of Uncle Zhang and Ms. Cao may be a beautiful legend in their own eyes. But in the eyes of outsiders, this wedding is more like a moral test.
What we cannot ignore is that marriage is not just a matter of two people, it is about family and responsibility. Uncle Zhang's original partner may not have received the respect and gratitude he deserved when he was alive, and her departure should not be an excuse for Uncle Zhang to pursue his first love. Such behavior is undoubtedly a secondary injury to the original partner.
At last
Let's go back to this wedding. Uncle Zhang and Ms. Cao, we have no right to deny their happiness. But at the same time, we should also remember that behind every happiness, there are unknown sacrifices and sacrifices. While pursuing personal happiness, we should learn to be grateful and cherish.
Therefore, for this uproarious wedding, we can only say: love, not a show. It requires not pomp, but sincerity and respect. May everyone find their own happiness on the road of love, instead of an empty joy. At the same time, I also hope that all marriages can be based on mutual respect and loyalty, rather than high-profile performances.
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