When I was a child, I was always praised by my family and teachers that I was a smart and well-behaved little girl. My family was not wealthy, but my parents always tried their best to provide me with the best education possible. I worked hard in school, not only did I excel in my grades, but I also participated in various extracurricular activities, and I was a student who was very popular with my teachers and classmates.
After graduating from college, I opted for a stable job that didn't pay well but was enough to make ends meet. In the years that followed, I put my heart and soul into my work, constantly trying to improve myself, hoping to achieve something one day. However, in the process, I was also spurned by those around me because I was a single woman, a so-called "leftover woman".
My family and relatives began to worry about me, fearing that I would not be able to marry in the future, and some people even suggested that I lower my requirements and just find a man. My friends also began to introduce me to blind dates, hoping that I would get rid of the title of "leftover girl" as soon as possible. But I rejected their kindness because I believed that marriage was not the only criterion of a woman's worth.
I firmly believe that everyone has their own lifestyle and values, and marriage is not for everyone, nor should it be the only measure of a woman's success. I enjoy the freedom and independence that comes with being single, I have my own career, hobbies, and circle of friends, and I don't feel like I'm missing anything.
Until one day, I met him. He was an excellent man, intelligent, humorous, gentle and considerate, and we were attracted to each other and fell in love very quickly. But even with him, I still stood by my principles, and I told him that I would not give up my lifestyle and pursuits because of marriage, and that I wanted us to be partners in each other's lives, not the whole of each other's lives.
He understood and accepted my choice, and we started a wonderful relationship. With him, I became stronger and more confident, and I began to dare to pursue my dreams and no longer be bound by the eyes of others. We have experienced the ups and downs of life together, facing the challenges and difficulties of life together, but we have always supported and encouraged each other.
Finally, one day, we decided to enter the palace of marriage. At that moment, I didn't feel any shame or uneasiness, because I knew that I had found the most important person in my life, and he cherished me just as much. Our marriage is not built to meet the expectations of society, but is based on sincere feelings and mutual respect.
On the day we got married, I felt a lot of happiness and fulfillment. I know that no matter what challenges and difficulties I will encounter in the future, I will have him by my side, and we will work together to create our own happy life. I also believe that one day, people will understand that marriage is not the only criterion of a woman's worth, and that everyone should be respected and cherished, no matter what lifestyle they choose.