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Submitted by: Ms. Yang
As the saying goes, "half a son-in-law", for me, this half really broke my heart. My family is such a precious daughter, I originally wanted to give her the best, but I didn't expect her to choose a son-in-law who made me so unconscious.
Although my family's conditions are not very rich, it is more than enough to buy a suite in a big city. After her daughter graduated, she stayed in this bustling city, but the man she chose was a phoenix man from a small county town. When he came to visit, I saw the gap between him and my family, but my daughter was like a demon and insisted on marrying him.
Both families are from other places, so it is natural to have a house when they get married. I thought about buying it together, but the father-in-law was stubborn and insisted on buying a small house with his own money. As a result, they bought a fifty-square-meter cottage, and only their son-in-law's was written in the name. My daughter is good and persuades me that the family doesn't have to worry about this. I looked at her innocent appearance, and I was really angry and distressed.
In order to take care of our daughter, our family moved from Northeast China to Shanghai. My son-in-law, although he can be a man, I have always been a little dissatisfied with his family. It wasn't until my daughter became pregnant and my mother-in-law offered to take care of her that my attitude towards her changed. She is diligent and capable, and keeps the house in good order.
But this small house is really a headache. After my mother came, the house was even more crowded. After my daughter was born, I wanted to take care of her, and there was no place to stand at home. The big city is fast-paced, and the daughter has to go to work after confinement, and the little granddaughter has no one to take care of. I wanted to take it back, but my mother insisted on taking the job, saying that she was idle when she retired.
What made me most angry was that they actually sealed up the balcony, made it into a cubicle, and bought bunk beds to live in. The daughter is still enjoying it, saying that this is temporary, and there will be a big house in the future. I really regret raising her so naïvely, I don't know how expensive the house prices are now.
The daughter spends a lot of money, and earning 30,000 or 40,000 yuan a month is not enough to spend. I feel sorry for her and will give her a monthly subsidy. But her mother was critical of her in every way, saying that she would not live. I wondered, my daughter lived like this before she got married, why did she have to wronged herself in another way when she got married?
This family, it's a real headache for me. But seeing that my daughter and son-in-law are living happily, I can only pray silently in my heart, hoping that they can have a better life in the future.
Submitted by: Ms. Yang
It is said that half of my son-in-law is half, but this half of my family really breaks my heart. My family has this baby daughter, I originally wanted her to live a carefree life, but I didn't expect her to choose a son-in-law who bothered me so much.
Although the conditions of my family are good, my son-in-law's family is relatively ordinary. When my daughter brought him home, I saw the gap between him and my family. But my daughter has a soft spot for him, and if we have to marry him, what can we do as parents?
Both families are from other places, so it is natural to have a home when they get married. I originally thought that the two families would pay for a bigger house together, but my son-in-law's family insisted on paying for it themselves, so I ended up buying a small one-bedroom apartment. What makes it even more difficult for me to accept is that only the name of my son-in-law is written in this house. But my daughter persuaded me that the family didn't have to worry about this, as long as the relationship was good.
In order to take care of our daughter, our family moved from our hometown to Shanghai. Although my son-in-law can be a man, I have always been a little dissatisfied with his family. It wasn't until my daughter became pregnant and my mother-in-law offered to take care of her that my attitude towards her changed. She is indeed a hard-working person and keeps the house in good order.
But this small house is really a headache. After my mother came, the house was even more crowded. After my daughter was born, I wanted to take care of her, but there was no place to stay at home. Life in a big city is fast-paced, and my daughter has to go to work after confinement, and there is no one to take care of my granddaughter. I originally wanted to take it back, but my mother insisted on taking the job, saying that she was retired and took her granddaughter with her.
What made me most angry was that they actually turned the balcony into a cubicle and bought bunk beds to live in. The daughter is still enjoying it, saying that it is only temporary, and there will be a better life in the future. I was really angry and distressed, thinking that she was too innocent and didn't know the cruelty of reality.
My daughter spends a lot of money, and the money she earns every month is not enough to spend. I feel sorry for her and will give her a monthly subsidy. But her mother was critical of her in every way, saying that she would not live. I wondered, my daughter lived like this before she got married, why did she have to wronged herself in another way when she got married?
This family really makes me love and hate it. But seeing that my daughter and son-in-law are still living happily, I can only pray silently in my heart, hoping that they can live a better life in the future.
Submitted by: Ms. Yang
When it comes to my son-in-law, I always feel that he is like a member of the family, but he is a little strange. My daughter has been the jewel of the family since she was a child, but when she chooses a man who is far from my family background, it is really hard to express the feeling in my heart.
The son-in-law comes from an ordinary small county town, which is very different from the life circle of our family. I remember the first time he stepped through my door, I felt an indescribable barrier. However, his daughter has a soft spot for him and insists on spending her life with him. As parents, although we were reluctant and worried, we finally chose to respect her choice.
For the sake of their children's marriage, the two families decided to jointly fund the purchase of a wedding house. However, the insistence of the son-in-law's family made us feel helpless. They insisted on paying for it themselves, and finally chose a small house with a small area. What is even more difficult for me to accept is that the property rights of this house belong to only my son-in-law. The daughter doesn't seem to care about this, she always prioritizes love and thinks that these material things are not important.
In order to take care of our daughter, our family moved from our hometown in Northeast China to the bustling city of Shanghai. In this strange city, I gradually discovered the differences in my son-in-law's family. They are thrifty and thrifty, which is very different from the way we live in our family. This difference is especially prominent when the daughter is pregnant.
My mother-in-law offered to take care of our daughter, and her arrival really relieved us of a lot of burden. She is hardworking and capable, and keeps the house in good order. However, the space in the small house is limited, and the arrival of the mother-in-law makes the home even more crowded. After my daughter gave birth, I wanted to take care of her myself, but I found that there was not even a place to stay at home.
What makes me even more distressed is that in order to save space, my daughter and son-in-law actually converted the balcony into a cubicle and bought bunk beds to live in. Every time I see them crammed into that small space, I feel extremely sad. However, her daughter didn't seem to care about this, she always smiled and said that this was their little world, full of warmth and happiness.
The daughter has always lived a lavish life, spending almost every month on shopping and entertainment. In order for her to be able to live a better life, I give her some subsidies every month. However, her mother-in-law was quite dissatisfied with this, and she thought that her daughter should learn to be frugal and run the house. Every time I hear her complain, I feel very helpless. After all, this is our daughter's own way of life, so how can we interfere too much?
Today, I can only silently pray that my daughter and son-in-law will be able to live a happy life. Although their lifestyles are completely different from ours, as long as we respect and understand each other, we will be able to overcome all difficulties and create a better future together.
Submitted by: Ms. Yang
When it comes to my son-in-law, I always have mixed feelings in my heart. This half of the son in my family is very different from mine, which makes me often feel the arrangement of fate. My daughter has been pampered since she was a child, and I never imagined that she would choose such a man who was very different from what I expected.
The son-in-law was born in a small county, and his family background is far from ours. When I first saw him, I could feel that he had a very different aura from me. However, his daughter has a soft spot for him and insists on marrying him. As parents, although we were worried, we finally chose to bless and let go.
For the sake of their children's marriage, the two families decided to jointly fund the purchase of a house. However, the insistence of the son-in-law's family made us feel helpless, and they chose to buy a small apartment at their own expense. What surprised me even more was that the ownership of this house belonged to only my son-in-law. The daughter doesn't mind this, and she firmly believes that the power of love can transcend all material constraints.
In order to take care of our daughter, our family moved from Northeast China to the bustling city of Shanghai. In this strange city, I gradually discovered the huge difference between my son-in-law's family and us. They focus on frugality and are out of step with our family's way of life. This difference is even more pronounced especially after the daughter is pregnant.
My mother-in-law offered to take care of our daughter, and her arrival really relieved us of a lot of burden. She is hardworking and capable, and keeps the house in good order. However, the space in the small house was limited, and the arrival of the mother-in-law made the home crowded. After my daughter gave birth, I wanted to take care of her myself, but I found that there was not even a place to rest at home.
What makes me even more distressed is that in order to save space, my daughter and son-in-law actually converted the balcony into a cubicle and lived in bunk beds. Every time I see them living in that small space, I feel extremely sad. However, her daughter does not care about this, and she always faces life's challenges with an optimistic attitude.
The daughter has always lived a carefree life, spending almost all of her monthly income on shopping and entertainment. In order for her to be able to live a better life, I give her some subsidies every month. However, her mother-in-law complained about this, and she thought that her daughter should learn to be diligent and thrifty. Every time I hear her complain, I feel very helpless. After all, this is our daughter's own way of life, and how can we interfere with it?
Today, I can only silently pray that my daughter and son-in-law will be able to live a happy life. Although their lifestyles are very different from ours, as long as we respect and understand each other, we can create a better future together. After all, happiness is not measured in terms of materiality, but is perceived in terms of the fit of the heart.
Submitted by: Ms. Yang
When I talk about my son-in-law at home, I am always full of emotion. He came from a very different background in our family, but my daughter had a soft spot for him, which was both comforting and worrying for me as a mother.
The son-in-law comes from an ordinary small county town, which is not far from our big city family. When we first met, I could feel his simplicity and restraint, which was incompatible with the relaxed atmosphere of my home. However, his daughter fell in love with him at first sight and firmly chose to spend her life with him. As a mother, although I am reluctant, I also respect my daughter's choice.
For the sake of their children's marriage, the two families discussed jointly financing the purchase of a house. But the son-in-law's family insisted on taking it by themselves, and finally chose a small house with a small area. What surprised me even more was that the property rights of this house were only registered in the name of my son-in-law. The daughter doesn't mind this, she always laughs and says that love is not measured by the house.
In order to take care of our daughter, our family moved from the northeast to the bustling city of Shanghai. In this strange city, I gradually discovered that the living habits of my son-in-law's family were very different from ours. They are more practical and frugal, which is in stark contrast to the relaxed comfort of our home. This difference is even more pronounced especially after the daughter is pregnant.
The mother-in-law is a hardworking person and offers to take care of her daughter. Her arrival did ease us a lot of burden, but the limited space in the small house also made us feel a little cramped. Whenever I see my daughter and son-in-law busy in that small space, I feel a little distressed. But my daughter is always optimistic that there is a big warmth in a small space.
My daughter's personality has always been more open-minded and she doesn't care too much about material things. She spends almost every month on the things she loves. As a mother, I naturally want her to have a better life, so I give her some allowance every month. But the mother-in-law has some opinions on this, she thinks that her daughter should know how to run the house better. Every time I hear this, I feel a little helpless, after all, every family has its own way of life, and we should respect each other's choices.
Now, I only hope that my daughter and son-in-law can support each other and create a happy future for them. Although their way of life is different from ours, as long as we have love in our hearts, we can overcome all difficulties and move towards a better tomorrow.
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