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Preface
Gold Medal Glory and Shame?
Is the life of this legendary coach brilliant or shameless?
His smiles and shouts have led countless athletes to the top, but his married life has been criticized and questioned.
Let's trace the eventful years of this man and appreciate the vicissitudes of his life.
Sports star Jin Wei is such a thought-provoking counterexample.
Abandoned seeds
Back in the 80s of the 20th century, an ordinary and poor working family ushered in the birth of Jin Wei.
From the very beginning, this mischievous little guy showed an extraordinarily active factor.
He was always tossing around the house, throwing things everywhere in the house.
Sometimes he accidentally fell while climbing a tree, and his face was full of tears, and sometimes he would sneak into a puddle on the side of the street to splash water and come back wet.
In the face of this "seed of trouble", parents can be said to be powerless.
At that time, parents generally believed that strict discipline was the only way to temper their children.
But no matter how they reprimanded and punished him, Jin Wei still couldn't live his life step by step.
Eventually, the family decided to give up altogether.
"Anyway, this kind of unproductive child is hopeless after all! It is better to put hope in his brother. "
Just when everyone was about to despair of Jin Wei, a noble man stood up and changed the child's fate.
Discerning
The primary school where Jin Wei attended had a senior physical education teacher who had been teaching for decades and had a unique eye for discovering and cultivating sports seedlings.
Unfortunately, this teacher has been snubbed by the "mainstream" in the school for a long time and has been widely recognized.
But in this marginalized corner, the teacher discovered Jin Wei's unique talents.
Other children always can't sit still in class, but Jin Wei always seems to have endless energy, not only can run without panting, but also can climb as agile as an ape.
The teacher has no eyes, and over time he sees the potential of this "jade".
He took the initiative to contact Jin Wei's parents and said sincerely: "Your child is a treasure, but he is in a cage and has no way to show his skills.
If you send him to a sports school, he will definitely shine!"
The teacher's persuasion finally touched the family.
Despite all the uncertainty, the family made a major decision to change Jin Wei's fate.
Twists and turns
When Jin Wei first entered the sports school, he was still a "troublesome seed".
This child, who has been accustomed to indulgence since childhood, is always unscrupulous in front of the teacher and does not know how to check his behavior.
However, the coaches of the sports school did not severely punish him, but patiently guided him and guided him step by step.
Gradually, Jin Wei subtly understood the importance of self-discipline.
In the scorching summer, Jin Wei was asked to run a few laps more as punishment when other students were sweating on the playground, and in the harsh winter, when others were already wearing thick down jackets, he was arranged to wear light clothes to exercise his willpower.
In this way, the painful "special training" again and again made this teenager, who was once considered "hopeless", finally begin to be tamed by the power of self-restraint.
Under the guidance of the coaches and his own tireless efforts, Jin Wei gradually got on the right track and gradually matured his sports skills.
A few years have passed in the blink of an eye, and this abandoned "seed of trouble" has become an excellent athlete, and even represented the country in competitions to promote the motherland overseas.
Climb to the top
After his career was successful, Jin Wei turned to coaching and opened his ideal path.
Only this time, he was not the one who was taught, but took on the responsibility of teaching others.
Jin Wei took his own experience as a reference, and sent batch after batch of apprentices to the podium with his hard work and high professional ethics.
Under his words and deeds, many apprentices have inspired their hearts to be extremely tenacious.
"Until the last moment, I will never say die!" Jin Wei's motto has given countless athletes great encouragement.
Once in a national competition, one of Jin Wei's apprentices was suddenly injured in the final.
No one had expected her to stop.
However, under Jin Wei's enthusiastic encouragement, the apprentice finally gritted his teeth and persevered, and tried his best to win the championship.
In this way, Jin Wei has become more and more a legend in the sports world.
Even outside the arena, his majestic and focused expression became the biggest motivation for the apprentices.
Notoriety
But the gods of fate often like to play tricks on people.
Just when Jin Wei's reputation was spreading far and wide, and his coaching career was reaching its peak, a hard blow smashed down.
In the 2021 National Games, Jin Wei's apprentice Chen Xinyi was expected to hit the gold medal.
Who knew that the game went wrong, Chen Xinyi only won the bronze medal, and unfortunately stopped.
This result undoubtedly made Chen Xinyi fall into deep self-blame, and made her mentor Jin Wei feel extremely helpless and guilty.
Since then, Jin Wei, who has had several brilliant coaching careers, began to retreat step by step under the siege of stormy public opinion and doubts.
"Is this the real level of that 'gold medal coach'?"
"Jin Wei has brought the apprentices to a bottleneck, it's time to be squeezed out of the ranks of coaches!"
The overwhelming criticism made Jin Wei make an eye-popping decision in all kinds of helplessness and self-blame - to completely stay away from the sports world, immigrate to Australia with his family, and start a new life.
Pedophilia is crazy
In 2016, Jin Wei, who had just arrived in Australia, made a decision that caused an uproar in the world: he married a young apprentice who was 23 years younger than him!
As soon as this incident came out, it immediately aroused strong concern and criticism from the society.
After all, Jin Wei was 56 years old at the time, how could he find a woman so much younger than himself? Isn't this a naked act of "pedophilia"?
The outside world has questioned whether Jin Wei abused the youth of the young female apprentice by taking advantage of the coach's authority and status.
The storm of public opinion came suddenly, and Jin Wei once again became the laughing stock and focus of people.
But what is surprising is that in the face of such a surging wave of criticism, Jin Wei doesn't care at all.
He turned a blind eye to the prying eyes of the outside world, went his own way, and still persevered to live his own personality.
Some say he's chasing a long-suppressed ego, others say he's regaining life in an alternative way.
But whatever the real reason, Jin Wei's move is destined to leave a unique mark in people's memories.
In the doubts and criticisms of others, Jin Wei swallowed the bitter fruit of this "pedophile scandal", packed his bags, took his newly married little wife and the whole family, and embarked on a difficult journey to the Australian outback.
The fog is heavy
Today, Jin Wei's family has already taken root in the New World of Australia.
Few people from the outside world have mentioned or criticized this "legendary coach" who has led countless athletes to glory.
The turmoil of the year seems to have gradually dissipated with the passage of time.
But where will this man's future lead? Will his next life be thorny or bright?
Looking back on the past, Jin Wei's life was full of ups and downs, which is really legendary.
From being abandoned by his family as "hopeless" as a "seed of trouble", to marrying a young apprentice as a wife and being spurned by people in his old age, his ups and downs are all incredible.
But his perseverance and courage also made future generations awe-inspired.
Whether it was the child who was beaten and gave up, or the "pedophile coach" who was questioned and abused later, Jin Wei always used his own way to make the most unique and loudest cry for life.
epilogue
Life is a self-pursuit.
Everyone must explore the direction of life from the fog of chaos and with inner pursuit and courage.
Some people will lose themselves due to twists and turns, and some people will become more and more frustrated in the whirlpool of fate.
And Jin Wei is the representative of the latter.
From being judged "hopeless" to the glory of finally finishing on the podium, to being questioned and scolded and leaving the country, this man has written a legendary chapter in his life with his unique personality and attitude.