Text | Mi Li's mother
The other day, I just wrote an article that "sold badly".
Today, there is another news: the midterm is approaching.
Even at this time, the spring flowers are blooming, and they can't stop worrying, especially the mothers of the sixth grade.
Because, at this time of the year, I have officially entered the junior high school volunteer to fill in the countdown.
Except for the group of babies who go straight to a good school, there are always a few who can get a definite result in advance, and most mothers are experiencing storms and all kinds of inner torments. Mi Li's mother has many friends around her, and she frankly admits that her child is more nervous about going to junior high school than when she was preparing for the college entrance examination......
Therefore, in the face of this sleet and hail, the midterm exam can only be counted as a drizzle.
Since the fifth grade, the rivers and lakes of the imperial capital have been surging. This year, the first wind to blow may be the rising sun. In the past, "you are strong, you are strong, Lao Tzu is in the rising sun", but now he has quietly become the king of volumes.
Several quiet primary school district unified examinations have made the top students secretly exposed.
My child's fifth-grade girlfriend in Chaoyang told me that someone had already received a call for the DZ exam at their school.
For a certain period of time, have you received the notice of the exam from these schools? Have you taken the exam? This is the code word that circulated among the mother of the fifth-grade Chaoyang Xueba and the mother of the king of the volume.
If the fifth grade doesn't have time, the "student who was caught" in the first semester of the sixth grade will also have the opportunity to be "pinched independently".
In Chaoyang, if you roll with your heart, the avenue has been paved.
Not only is DZ School acting fiercely, but even the traditional direct promotion school court*, Chen Jing*, and Ren* Dafu Chaoyang Branch, they also have their own "channels" for learning tyrants.
Another friend's house of Chaoyang's best friend just experienced a small promotion last year.
Originally, the son of a friend's family was in a small vegetable and went straight to junior high school in a dish, and when he was in the first draw, he was hit by a flatbread and became the only lucky guy in the whole grade who was shaken by the *.
Before the lottery, my friend's first choice was Chao*, and not long after, she received a phone call from the teacher of our school.
When she received the teacher's call, it was already evening, and after she stood in front of the window and confirmed with the teacher twice, her heart was like fireworks, and happiness was a little unreal.
In addition to congratulating her, the teacher also instructed her to keep a low profile, collect her luck, and try not to spread it in the parent group, after all, he was the only one who was shaken.
As for the son of his best friend, why is he so lucky?
It's also "coincidental".
Since the fourth grade, this lucky guy's grades have been stable in the top three of the grade, and he has never come down, and he has passed the FCE, and he rushed to the first place in the final exam of the fifth grade.
According to a friend's latest "gossip", last year, they were in a small restaurant, and another girl with the same "lucky" was divided into the sun, and she was also a member of the top three in the grade, and the final exam of the fifth grade ranked third in the grade.
The second in the grade, went to school in the United States.
With the top three of these three grades, they all have a good "home", and this luck has slowly taken on a specific "shape" in front of my eyes.
The baby's grades in grade 4~6 are stable in the top three of the grade, even if you don't do anything, people are not in the direct promotion area, when registering, if the first choice chooses a good middle school, the chance of being hit by the "god of luck" is also particularly large.
In other words, as long as the child is powerful enough and very individual enough, it is not impossible to lie flat and rise to the beginning of the year.
Of course, this iron law is not only in Chaoyang, but also in the whole of Beijing.
Since the sixth grade, Haidian's mother is either submitting resumes or on the way to submitting resumes.
Everyone has always been a general roll, starting in the sixth grade, entering the king fried roll.
I have a Haidian girlfriend, my daughter is in the sixth grade in Zhongguancun * Elementary School, her grades are in the top five in the class, FCE has passed, and the science and technology award has been won.
The only problem is that her best friend's daughter is a short board, and she has not been able to get enough bright results, so she actively adjusts her direction and focuses on science and technology.
After ZP's defeat, she resigned decisively at home and devoted herself to preparing for the junior high school exam.
My daughter's resume has been sorted out 800 times, checked and filled in the gaps, either in taking this exam to win awards, or in participating in that training to get certificates, and strive for all-round development of morality, intellect and physique, and resume to reach new heights.
Even, I spent 1,000 oceans to sort out and beautify my resume.
But this resume, which is about to blind my eyes, has been sinking into the sea so far, and I have not received any notice from the six Xiaoqiang.
The shortcomings of the Olympiad, until today, have always been like the high-hanging Dharma sword, and the girlfriend has aged 10 years overnight.
Compared with Haidian's girlfriends and Xicheng's girlfriends, there is some luck online. Her daughter's primary school is good, but the corresponding junior high school is too dish, and the four King Kongs have been cast all over again, and no response has been heard, so she took the baby to decisively move to another new school.
Although the new school is weaker than the four King Kongs, its strength is also good, and with the blessing of sports, Xicheng girlfriends avoided the four "single-plank bridges" that were crowded with people and decided to find another way.
After her daughter won a basic award in Olympiad, passed a PET, and won the first prize of Jinpeng Science and Technology City, she began to hit the skiing project with all her might.
spent a huge amount of money in Switzerland for half a month of closed training, won the first place in Beijing, and under the recommendation of the coach, he directly sent his resume to the school. The operation is as fierce as a tiger, and her best friend's daughter has received the admission notice from the school, and the dust of Xiaoshengchu has landed.
Recently, I've been surrounded by all kinds of stories about Xiao Shengchu.
In order to alleviate her anxiety, I poached all the friends around me who went ashore and successfully landed in the sixth Xiaoqiang, and showed her resume.
The other day, I made an appointment with 1*1 and 10* ashore mothers.
The two friends were not ambiguous, and pointed out the shortcomings of Haidian girlfriends' Olympiad mathematics, and sincerely relieved her that her baby still has the strength to rush.
Judging from the past, her baby should have received the exam notice, even if there is no school, there should be branch schools, such as ten * Jin Yuan, ten * Longyue and so on.
But I haven't received anything so far, it may be that the school is still being screened, and her friends recommended that she can look at the branch school again in a targeted manner and submit more resumes.
What is not optimistic is that there are more people in this session, and one session is stronger than the other, at present, everything can only be handed over to time and luck.
Every time I participate in this kind of informal dinner of the "six strong" mothers and the "six strong" mothers-to-be, in addition to eating and drinking, it is all knowledge.
It was the words of the ten* mother who went ashore that made me pause, and I saw that the brows of Haidian girlfriends were also stretched.
The son of this ten* ashore mom, DZ entered the North Campus, which is a boarding school, in the suburbs.
However, my son wanted to go home and practice the piano for one hour every day, so after my mother applied to the school for a day study, the family moved to the foot of the mountain, next door to the school.
Every day at around 9 o'clock after the evening self-study, my son must practice the piano for 1 hour after washing, for no other reason, because he wants to play the piano in the future to earn money.
That's right, my son's target university is the Central Academy of Fine Arts' cultural relics restoration-related majors.
If you want to do this job in the future, he likes it, and after he is employed, the salary may not be high.
Therefore, in order to better support himself, he has dreams and bread, and he wants to supplement part of his income by playing the piano.
It's too 6.
We are thinking about the beginning of the small promotion, people think about employment and the future, and his plan for the future is so clear that it makes me ashamed.
For a moment, I was emotional.
Life is really a marathon, in addition to the junior high school, there are also high school entrance examinations, college entrance examinations, driven by dreams to learn, the end point is independent life, poetry and distance, but also firewood, rice, oil and salt.
How did a child with a dream in his left hand and employment in his right hand come to be? Compared with the six little strong, the child's sobriety in the world makes me envious, jealous and hateful. When I go home, I want to roll a roll of rice grains and how to make dreams come true.
If people don't want to fall into a trap, they want to climb high and look far, and the small promotion is just a stage, just work hard.
After going through this stage, a better footnote is: how to help children find a sustainable, self-driven, and directional force point and goal.
Because of this goal, they can stand taller and see the future clearly.
In the evening, after chatting with Haidian girlfriends, her state began to slowly return.
Yes, we just have to work hard, and the rest is taught by Providence. PS: People come first, and it's not impossible for my family to be a team doctor. (Other people's children compete to be the first, and my rice wants to be the team doctor.)
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