In 2012, an extraordinary woman with a short stature resolutely chose to give birth and overcame many difficulties to challenge the limits of life!
One day in April 2012, a thrilling emergency rescue operation was being carried out in the delivery room of a large hospital in Jiangsu Province. Outside the operating room, medical experts from top hospitals are ready to respond to possible emergencies, and outside the operating room, a man is sweating in his palms with anxiety: Su Xiaolin's husband Yang Haijun is lying on the operating table.
This brave mother, named Su Xiaolin, is only 110 centimeters tall, which is only the height of a five-year-old child. However, her body structure is extremely unique, she is a rare "mirror person" - the position of the organs in her body is very different from that of ordinary people.
In the face of such a special body structure, a smooth delivery is undoubtedly a severe test of her life.
Su Xiaolin was born in an ordinary rural family in Qidong, Jiangsu Province, and her parents were hard-working and simple farmers. When she fell to the ground, the doctors present couldn't help but be shocked - Su Xiaolin's feet grew backwards, her spine was seriously distorted, and the position of all the organs in her body was very different from ordinary people, and she was finally diagnosed as a "mirror man".
The doctor immediately told Su Xiaolin's parents about this brutal truth, and they were told that the child might not live longer than 15 years. This news was like a bolt from the blue, making Su Xiaolin's parents feel that the world was spinning.
They had just become parents, and before they could enjoy the joy of becoming new fathers and mothers, they were crushed by this cruel reality.
At that time, medical technology could not completely cure Su Xiaolin's physical defects, so they had no choice but to take their daughter home and pray that God would bless her to spend these precious 15 years safely and healthily, and no longer suffer from illness.
As time passed, Su Xiaolin gradually grew up.
Due to congenital physical defects, Su Xiaolin's growth process was extremely difficult. At the age of two or three, she was confined to bed all day, and by the age of five or six, she needed tools to crawl with difficulty.
However, on that day, when Su Xiaolin was playing on the ground, she actually relied on her own strength to slowly stand up on the chair!
Since then, the chair has become Su Xiaolin's legs, and she can't do without its help whether she stands or walks.
Due to her special physical condition, her family's meticulous care for Su Xiaolin has gone beyond the ordinary. However, as time went on, she became shorter and shorter compared to her peers.
Whenever she saw other children running and playing to her heart's content, Su Xiaolin couldn't help but feel a deep sense of envy in her heart. Every time she wanted to try to fit in, the strange gazes cast by the people around her would make her truly feel the ruthlessness of this world for the first time.
As she entered the school years, Su's parents, worried about the bullying she might be subjected to at school and fearing that their daughter had only 15 years to live, declined her desire to go to school.
As a result, Su Xiaolin, who lost the opportunity to receive education, could only hold the "Xinhua Dictionary" alone, listen to the sound of the radio, and study alone and firmly. However, she was not discouraged by this, instead learning Mandarin by watching TV and helping her mother with household chores at home.
Seeing that Su Xiaolin is gradually growing into a girl, and the day of 15 years old is getting closer and closer, her parents are walking on thin ice every day, lest anything happen to their daughter. However, what is unexpected is that Su Xiaolin successfully crossed the threshold of 15 years old.
At this moment, it seems that the parents can finally let go of the hanging heart, and it seems that as long as they survive the age of 15, their daughter can be safe and secure.
I was born with a flaw, but I chose to face life bravely
For Su Xiaolin, congenital physical disability is undoubtedly the biggest challenge she has faced in her life. Doctors had asserted that she could not overcome the lifeline of 15 years old, however, she pushed her limits again and again and struggled to thrive.
Despite her unusually slow growth rate since childhood, Su Xiaolin gradually learned to stand and walk with her perseverance. Initially, she needed a chair to stand firmly, but over time she was able to perform these basic movements on her own.
Watching their daughter overcome difficulties step by step, the parents' hearts are both relieved and full of worry.
Unable to enroll in school, Su Xiaolin had to study at home. She held the "Xinhua Dictionary" in her hand, listened to the sound of the radio, and learned Chinese characters word by word, learning Mandarin. Although she was unable to receive a formal education like ordinary people, Su Xiaolin never gave up her determination to improve herself.
She was also able to help her mother with household chores to the best of her ability and acquired the basic life skills needed to survive.
Time flies, day after day, and Su Xiaolin gradually learns how to adapt to this new environment. When she first got involved in the world, every time she stepped out of the house, she would be met with strange stares and whispers from passers-by.
Experiencing this kind of society's narrow perception of unique individuals and invisible discrimination for the first time, Su Xiaolin deeply realized that she needed to be strong and brave to face and accept the challenges given by the world.
Therefore, she forced herself to gradually step out of the alley, bravely face the eyes of others, and force herself to adapt to the world.
Su Xiaolin strengthened her belief in creating life with her own hands. She began to travel around looking for job opportunities, but was repeatedly frustrated. Whether it is a tactful refusal or a direct malicious attack, Su Xiaolin has deeply experienced the indifference and discrimination of this society.
This caused her to fall into a low mood for a while, and even began to wonder if she could really find a suitable job.
However, Su Xiaolin did not give up easily. She insisted on going out every day to look for work, until one day, she finally got a positive reply from a company. However, when she honestly told the other party that she was disabled, she was still refused.
Su Xiaolin, who was hit again, once felt that she might never be able to find a job that suited her.
After a fierce inner struggle, Su Xiaolin decided to pick herself up again. She straightened her back and resolutely went to Nantong to seek new opportunities. During the day, she is constantly looking for work, and at night, she can only spend the night in the bridge cave or in front of the store.
After a lot of hard work, she finally found a job in a factory. This job has given Su Xiaolin great encouragement, and she firmly believes that as long as she puts in enough effort, she will be able to create her own life with her own hands.
In this way, Su Xiaolin stepped into success step by step and realized her entrepreneurial dream. Despite her special physical condition, with her courage and determination, she finally overcame many difficulties and made her life shine more brightly.
Meet another person with a disability and pursue happiness together
In Su Xiaolin's entrepreneurial journey, she unexpectedly met another person who had a similar experience to herself - Yang Haijun from Hebei.
Su Xiaolin unexpectedly met Yang Haijun, who also suffered from unfortunate polio, in the vastness of the Internet. During the exchange between the two, they were pleasantly surprised to find that Yang Haijun was also inconvenient to walk on his legs and feet because of this disease since he was a child.
The two people with similar experiences instantly established a deep spiritual resonance and deeply appreciated each other's character.
Yang Haijun was deeply attracted by Su Xiaolin's positive and optimistic attitude, and also praised her perseverance. And Su Xiaolin was moved by Yang Haijun's sincere emotions and outstanding talent.
The relationship between the two gradually warmed up, but they never confessed directly.
After a period of in-depth contact, Yang Haijun felt that he could no longer leave this strong and brave girl. So, he mustered up the courage to confess his inner feelings to Su Xiaolin.
Since then, the two have officially entered the journey of love.
In order to get closer to Su Xiaolin, Yang Haijun decisively gave up the job opportunity in his hometown and chose to come to Qidong, Jiangsu, where Su Xiaolin is located. Su Xiaolin was deeply moved by this move, and the relationship between the two was further sublimated.
In 2011, Su Xiaolin and Yang Haijun entered the palace of marriage hand in hand and built a warm little family together. Although both suffer from different degrees of disability, they support each other and work together to create a happy family.
If Su Xiaolin's life has always been full of hardships and challenges, then meeting Yang Haijun has undoubtedly become another important turning point in her life. Ignoring the prejudice and discrimination of the outside world, they came together with their own courage and determination to start a happy life of their own.
Despite all the physical defects and inconveniences, Su Xiaolin and Yang Haijun still firmly love each other and support each other. With their actions, they have proved to the world that even if they are disabled, they can still have a happy and fulfilling life.
This touching story has undoubtedly injected endless courage and strength into all people with disabilities, making them believe that if they keep their faith, any dream can come true.
When she became pregnant and gave birth to a child, her mother and husband objected, but she insisted firmly
In 2011, after Su Xiaolin and Yang Haijun tied the knot, the two lived a happy life. However, only a few months later, Su Xiaolin unexpectedly became pregnant with a child! This is really unbelievable for a woman with such a special physical condition.
When this shocking news spread among the family, it immediately detonated the great anxiety of the whole family. As a mother, Su Xiaolin's mother knows that for an ordinary woman, pregnancy and childbirth are already a daunting challenge.
Not to mention that for a person with a special physique like Su Xiaolin, pregnancy is tantamount to a life-and-death adventure.
Therefore, Su Xiaolin's mother firmly opposed her conceiving this child. She was deeply afraid that if Su Xiaolin lost her life because of her child, she would not be able to bear this heavy blow. Similarly, Su Xiaolin's husband Yang Haijun, after careful consideration, also agreed that the child should not be born.
After all, this is undoubtedly a huge crisis for Su Xiaolin's health.
However, in the face of the repeated advice of her mother and husband, Su Xiaolin firmly stated that she wanted to bring this child into this world. Her desire to leave a family bond for her husband has become the strongest desire in her heart.
Despite repeated dissuasion from her mother and husband, Su Xiaolin remained unwavering. She made it clear that she would give birth to this child no matter what. Seeing Su Xiaolin's firm determination, Yang Haijun couldn't bear to continue to stop it, so he had to accompany his wife to the hospital for a more detailed examination.
After reviewing the X-rays, the doctor told Su Xiaolin with a solemn face: "Do you know your own health status? Please go to Shanghai to terminate your pregnancy as soon as possible! You must not keep this child!" As a doctor, his primary concern is the safety of pregnant women.
However, for Su Xiaolin, she would rather sacrifice her life in exchange for her child's chance of survival.
No matter how the doctor admonished her, Su Xiaolin always stuck to her beliefs and decided to give birth to the fetus in her womb. The doctor had no choice but to conduct a comprehensive physical examination for her.
However, what is surprising is that the child's indicators are completely normal! Upon hearing the good news, the husband and wife could not help but burst into tears.
Due to Su Xiaolin's unique physiological structure, the position of fetal growth in her womb is extremely rare. The baby's feet were on the right side of her stomach and her head was on the left side of her chest.
Su Xiaolin's abdomen was compressed by external forces to the width of only two fingers! In order to allow her unborn child to get enough nutrients, this strong mother forced herself to consume a large amount of food every day, but because of severe pregnancy reactions, these foods are often difficult to digest and absorb.
Seeing this scene, Yang Haijun, who had always been by his wife's side, was full of sadness. However, Su Xiaolin didn't care about this, she knew that all the pain she had experienced was for the healthy growth of her children, as long as she thought of this, she felt that all her efforts were extremely valuable.
With the passage of time, as the pregnancy continued to advance, Su Xiaolin's physical condition became worse and worse. When she entered the seventh month of pregnancy, she could no longer bear the pain and resolutely decided to go to the hospital for a caesarean section.
However, it is frustrating that no hospital dares to take on such a special surgical task.
Just when the family was in a state of extreme anxiety, they learned that an experienced director Zhang had successfully performed a similar operation. This undoubtedly brought a ray of life to Su Xiaolin and Yang Haijun.
They immediately launched an operation, looking for Director Zhang's whereabouts, and after some twists and turns, they finally found the hospital where Director Zhang was.
"Dear Director Zhang, please lend a hand, now only you can save my child!" Su Xiaolin pleaded in a earnest tone. Facing such a thin but determined figure, Director Zhang's heart was full of shock.
After an in-depth understanding of the condition, Director Zhang decided to work with a top medical team to perform the operation for Su Xiaolin.
Although supported by the most professional medical team, there are still great risks associated with this surgery. After all, Su Xiaolin's situation is too rare, and the outside world is generally pessimistic about the results of the operation.
It is even possible that Su Xiaolin and the child will be in danger of their lives.
Under tremendous pressure, Director Zhang and the medical team began to prepare for the operation. At this moment, Su Xiaolin has already begun to make plans for her posthumous affairs.
She approached Director Zhang and said that if she was unfortunate enough to encounter an accident, she hoped to donate her corneas to help those who were in urgent need of light.
Hearing these touching words, Director Zhang was deeply moved, and he made up his mind to do his best to protect the lives of Su Xiaolin and the child.