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Text: Fireworks Swamp.
Edited by Fireworks Swamp.
Preface
At the beginning of October 2004, a woman named Wang Naven held her three-year-old immature son and bravely stood in the spotlight to hold a press conference that shook the society.
She firmly announced to the public that this little boy was not a childlike child of an ordinary family, but her flesh and blood with the famous singer Na Ying's boyfriend at the time, Gao Feng.
As soon as this remark came out, it was like thunder on the ground, and it quickly caused an uproar in public opinion.
About a week later, Na Ying herself underwent a caesarean section in the hospital and gave birth to a baby boy.
At this moment, the outside world is speculating about the intricate emotional entanglements between the three parties and the relationship between the two children, and the focus of attention - Gao Feng, as the biological father of the two children, chose to remain silent at the center of the whirlpool of public opinion, and did not publicly make any statement or response.
In such a delicate and stressful situation, Na Ying showed extraordinary courage and responsibility.
She resolutely stood up and expressed her willingness to do her best, including financial support and emotional investment, to face and accept this illegitimate child who suddenly appeared with her boyfriend Gao Feng.
This move undoubtedly put Wang Naven and Na Ying, two actresses, on the cusp of public opinion at the same time.
And what put them in such a situation is not a weak and incompetent person, on the contrary, he is a model of a hot-blooded and heroic tough guy in the eyes of many people, a former member of the Chinese football national team - former international Gao Feng.
Although at that time, the public was more accustomed to referring to him as a "football bad boy", this did not prevent him from holding a high position in the hearts of Beijing Guoan fans in the eighties and nineties.
Behind Gao Feng's brilliant football career, there are also some criticized personal problems.
In his recollections many years later, the first foreign head coach of Chinese football accurately outlined the other side of the peak in just two English words: "drinking and girls".
These two words are concise, but they hit the nail on the head.
Gao Feng is not only a master at the wine table, often famous for his mass, but also like a fish in water in the love field, uninhibited.
It was these two aspects of behavior that eventually led to a great reduction in his image in the public mind, and his former glory was gradually overshadowed.
[1] The emotional storm and rebirth of Na Ying and Gao Feng
At the Spring Festival Gala in 1998, Na Ying and Faye Wong sang "Meet in 1998" like a bright pearl, with a moving melody and the unique vocal charm of the two, engraved in the hearts of countless audiences, this song has not only become a classic, but also made 1998 a symbolic year.
At that time, Na Ying, with her unique voice, had already been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and her name occupied a prominent position in China's star-studded music scene.
While her career is soaring, Na Ying's love world is not satisfactory.
In 2000, just as Na Ying was immersed in a sweet relationship, her boyfriend Gao Feng was tired of his love life.
Perhaps it was his natural penchant for excitement and freshness, or perhaps he was attracted by the liveliness and brightness of a young woman at a certain moment, Gao Feng met Wang Naven in a bar in Shenyang, and easily won Wang Naven's heart with his handsome appearance and identity as a football player.
Soon after, Naven Wang found out that she was pregnant, and she was full of joy to tell Gao Feng the news, looking forward to them being able to welcome the arrival of this love crystallization together.
Gao Feng didn't look happy when he heard the news.
He remembered his girlfriend Na Ying who was far away in Beijing, and he was just having a fun time, but he didn't expect to cause such trouble.
When faced with the choice of Na Ying, the first sister in the music world, and Na Wen, the queen of the bar, Gao Feng chose Na Ying without hesitation.
He quickly changed his mobile phone number and fled Shenyang to return to Beijing, so that Wang Naven could no longer find him.
Although Wang Naven knew that she had lost completely in the gamble of love, she did not stop there and decided to make Gao Feng pay the price.
When he returned to the peak of Beijing and faced the arrogant Na Ying, the uneasiness in his heart gradually dissipated, and he naively thought that Na Ying would not notice his betrayal.
In this way, Na Ying spent a few years of seemingly sweet love with Gao Feng without knowing it.
Na Ying often appears on the sidelines of the football field at the peak, and she is like a little girl immersed in the sweetness of her first love under the lens of the media.
The truth will come out one day.
In 2014, Na Ying was also pregnant with Gao Feng's child.
As a high-profile star, the news of pregnancy naturally attracted widespread media attention.
Although Gao Feng was uneasy about this, Na Ying, who was very smug, did not notice anything abnormal, and immersed herself in the joy of becoming a mother, and looked forward to the arrival of a new life with anticipation every day.
When Na Ying was six months pregnant, Wang Naven came to the door with her child, and the news of accusing Gao Feng of abandoning their mother and son quickly detonated public opinion.
Wang Naven thought that Gao Feng would admit the facts, but she never expected Gao Feng to deny that the child was his.
In anger, Wang Naven decided to solve the problem through legal means and took Gao Feng to court.
Gao Feng assured Na Ying that the child was not his, and offered to do a paternity test, Na Ying chose to believe him based on her trust in Gao Feng, and claimed that if the child was really Gao Feng's, she was willing to take the corresponding responsibility.
The results of the paternity test came out, ruthlessly revealing the truth, and the child is indeed Gao Feng's biological flesh and blood.
Na Ying's world collapsed in an instant, and her heart was like a knife.
Gao Feng's mother offered to raise the child, and in order to protect Na Ying, who was emotionally volatile during pregnancy, her family and friends avoided exposing her to TV and mobile phones to avoid further harm.
But some things can't be covered up after all, when Na Ying saw Wang Naven with a child, and touched her bulging abdomen, she deeply felt the pain brought by love.
People in the whirlpool of love often can't predict how much they will be changed, and Na Ying is no exception.
In the face of Gao Feng's betrayal, she struggled deeply with whether to break up.
On the one hand, she can't let go of her relationship with Gao Feng for many years, and expects him to change her past mistakes, and on the other hand, she feels extremely disgusted by Gao Feng's cheating behavior.
This tangled relationship lasted until the fourth month after Na Ying gave birth to her son, and in the end, she made a decision to let go of this relationship that had already been riddled with holes.
She decided to raise the child alone because she firmly believed in her ability to take care of him.
Na Ying was extraordinarily calm and open-minded when talking about this relationship, she said that she did not blame Gao Feng, and believed that the relationship itself was a personal choice, and everyone had to take responsibility for their choices.
Although they used to love each other, the outcome of love no longer matters, because she understands that no matter how hard she tries to wash it, the stains in that relationship will eventually leave indelible traces in her heart.
[2] From the descendants of the nobles of the Qing Dynasty to the queen of the music scene
Among the many surnames in China, the surname "that" is very rare, and in the star-studded entertainment industry, there are only a handful of celebrities with this surname.
This seemingly ordinary surname actually has a close historical connection with the Yehenara clan, the royal family of the Qing Dynasty in the mainland.
Tracing back to history, the original Han nationality did not contain the surname "that", which was actually changed by the Manchu Yehenala clan in the late Qing Dynasty in order to adapt to social changes.
One of the most representative historical figures is the Empress Dowager Cixi, the de facto ruler of the late Qing Dynasty, whose full name, Yehnara Cixi, makes people associate that surname with the imperial family.
It is rumored that Na Ying may be Cixi's great-granddaughter, but the actual situation is that the family with the surname to which Na Ying belongs does not directly come from Cixi's direct bloodline.
Na Ying's father, Na Hongsheng, was a well-known doctor from the Manchu family, and the family had been a court physician for generations, so it was inferred that Na Ying could not be Cixi's great-granddaughter.
Na Ying was born in Liaoning Province and has the pure blood of the Yehnara family.
Although her father originally envisioned that Na Ying should continue the family's medical tradition and become a doctor, she was open-minded and did not have much enthusiasm for academic research.
So, in line with her own interests, her father sent her to the Liaoning Radio Choir and began to explore her artistic career.
Four years later, Na Ying joined the Shenyang Song and Dance Troupe and gradually embarked on the road of singing.
In the process, she rose to prominence in a series of singing competitions, and was fortunate to be favored and guided by the famous musician Gu Jianfen, which made her singing skills improve by leaps and bounds.
In 1988, the young Na Ying stood out in the "Sunshine Cup" Young Singer Competition, which gave her more opportunities to show her talents, and successfully entered the "Top Ten Golden Songs of the Year in Hong Kong, China" with the song "Northwest Wind".
In the next few years, Na Ying's performance in the music field became more and more dazzling, and she won many awards and honors.
In 1995, she appeared on the stage of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala with Xie Xiaodong, Cai Guoqing and others, and became a well-known female singer overnight.
At the same time as her career development, Na Ying's love life also had an important turning point.
At a social event, she got to know the peak of her youth and making a name for herself in football.
Although Na Ying didn't know anything about football, the identity of the fellow Shenyang villagers and the unique charm of Gao Feng made them quickly get acquainted with each other, and then established a deep emotional bond.
In order to better integrate into Gao Feng's life, Na Ying even deliberately learned football knowledge, and often accompanied Gao Feng in and out of bars, and the relationship between the two gradually warmed up, and finally established a romantic relationship.
Under the influence and support of Gao Feng, Na Ying's music career continues to climb to new heights.
In 1998, she and Faye Wong teamed up on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, and the singing "Meet 1998" instantly swept the country and was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
In the same year, Na Ying's new album "Conquest" was not only popular in China, but also successfully shortlisted for the Taiwan Golden Melody Awards, establishing her pivotal position in the music industry.
In 2004, Na Ying's life ushered in an important moment again, this year she not only won the Golden Melody Award for Best Female Singer, but also gave birth to a son at the peak, when she was 37 years old, which can be regarded as an advanced maternal age.
Although Na Ying and Gao Feng did not go through the marriage formalities, Na Ying was willing to take such a risk, which shows her deep love for Gao Feng.
To sum up, with her tenacious character and outstanding talent, Na Ying has made brilliant achievements in the field of music, and at the same time, she has also experienced twists and turns and perseverance on the road of personal feelings, fully demonstrating her rich and diverse life as a powerful singer and an ordinary woman.
[3] The illegitimate child turmoil caused the love to be broken, and Meng Tong accompanied him to heal the pain
Na Ying and Gao Feng have experienced a long period of sweet love, and the outside world once thought that they were about to enter the palace of marriage and tie the knot.
Just when Na Ying was looking forward to the approaching wedding date, Gao Feng begged Na Ying to give him some more time on the grounds of career development, promising to hold a grand wedding for her when her career was successful.
Faced with Gao Feng's request, Na Ying naively accepted this unreasonable delay out of trust in her lover and her vision for the future.
In 2004, despite the opposition of her family, Na Ying insisted on giving birth to a lovely boy for Gao Feng, named "Happy", implying their joy of new life and beautiful expectations for the future.
The birth of the child made Na Ying more determined to spend her life with Gao Feng, she was immersed in the happiness of being a new mother, and she was full of expectations for the future.
When the child was only four months old, a thunderbolt of news on a sunny day was like a slap in the face, completely breaking Naying's peaceful life.
Gao Feng was sued by a woman named Wang Nawen, accusing him of abandoning his wife and children, and demanding that he take on his responsibilities as a father.
And this so-called "son" is Gao Feng's illegitimate son.
It turned out that Gao Feng and Wang Naven had known each other as early as 2000.
At that time, Na Ying was performing in other places, and Gao Feng and Wang Naven fell in love at first sight, and the two quickly fell in love.
Gao Feng started a secret love affair with Wang Naven behind Na Ying's back, and later chose to betray.
In 2001, Gao Feng ruthlessly broke up with Wang Naven, but what he didn't expect was that Wang Naven was already pregnant with his flesh and blood at this time.
Out of respect for life and consideration for the child's future, Wang Naven decided to give birth to this child.
When applying for a household registration for her child, she encountered difficulties and had to find a peak solution.
When Na Ying learned all this, it was like five thunderbolts, she couldn't accept that the man she loved was such an unbearable "scumbag", after seeing the true face of Gao Feng, Na Ying, who was like ashes, finally left this man who broke her heart with her young son.
The emotional blow made it difficult for Na Ying to cheer up for a long time after the breakup, and she often used alcohol to kill her sorrows, trying to use alcohol to numb the pain in her heart.
After work every day, Na Ying would come to the bar where she and Gao Feng often went in love, which was Meng Tong's bar.
As a bar owner, Meng Tong and Na Ying have known each other for a long time, and the relationship between the two is very close, and it can even be described as a girlfriend relationship of "above friends, less than lovers".
Meng Tong knew Na Ying's inner pain at the moment, so he naturally wouldn't sit idly by.
Whenever Na Ying appeared in the bar, he would always step forward as soon as possible, patiently enlighten and comfort.
Meng Tong understands that it is very dangerous for people to choose to close themselves off when they are depressed.
Therefore, if Na Ying does not come as promised one day, he will take the initiative to call to inquire about the situation, or simply drive directly to Na Ying's house downstairs to pick her up to the bar, chat with her, and help her relieve her inner depression.
Under Meng Tong's meticulous care and companionship, Na Ying gradually came out of the shadow of broken love, but deep scars had been left in the depths of her soul.
After experiencing such violent emotional twists and turns, Na Ying no longer has any expectations for love, she is afraid of being hurt again and does not dare to open her heart easily.
If there is any man who is likely to touch her heart again, it is Meng Tong.
On his son's happy birthday, Meng Tong plucked up the courage to confess to Na Ying, and he affectionately promised to spend his life taking care of their mother and son and giving them the most solid support.
Na Ying, who has always been nervous, was also a little stunned when she heard Meng Tong's confession, but when she recalled Meng Tong's meticulous care and companionship during this time, the ice in her heart seemed to begin to melt quietly.
In the end, Na Ying accepted Meng Tong's feelings, and the two came together hand in hand and opened a new chapter of life together.
[4] The tortuous life path of the prodigal son
Gao Feng, a topical former sports star, showed his so-called happy married life in a high-profile manner after marrying a sports school classmate, announcing his satisfaction and happiness to the outside world through a series of Weibo dynamics.
Gao Feng's life is not peaceful, and he has been exposed to a series of scandals, which makes people question his attitude towards life.
It is precisely in this context that Gao Feng shows a little-known side of his humanity.
In August 2012, when Gao Feng was running in Beijing and Sichuan to prepare for the charity competition, he learned that his friend and famous CCTV sports commentator Tao Wei had unfortunately passed away, leaving behind a son who was only 5 months old.
Gao Feng was deeply touched, not only couldn't help crying, but also expressed his willingness to raise and nurture the child together to Tao Wei's wife at the first time.
He mentioned that Tao Wei especially hoped that his son could embark on the road of football before his death, but due to disagreements within the family, it could not be realized, and Gao Feng thought that the current situation might make Tao Wei's family change their minds.
He promised to provide human support, and plans to raise funds by organizing competitions to ensure that children receive a good education and development, so as to fulfill Tao Wei's unfulfilled wish.
"We will definitely do our best to fulfill the mission that Tao Wei left us, and I hope he can see all this in heaven.
Gao Feng said firmly and sadly.
Time flies, when we enter 2020, the post-00s generation is about to rise, and as the peak of the post-70s, it always seems to be on the cusp of public opinion.
In 2015 and 2019, Gao Feng was arrested twice on suspicion of drug abuse and drug trafficking, which undoubtedly added a heavy haze to his life.
After getting out of prison, Gao Feng, who is close to 50 years old, has not stayed away from the public eye, he frequently appears in major variety shows, using his bumpy experience as a warning material, persuading people, especially young people, not to go astray, to cherish life, and to be a law-abiding citizen.
[5] The son is happy for the spiritual salvation after the secret of his life is revealed
When Na Ying told about the experience of marrying Meng Tong, she used "married Meng Tong in a daze" to describe it, like a joke that decided a lifelong event, which also just confirms that emotions in real life are often like this, when the feelings are in place, marriage becomes a natural thing, and flows smoothly into the river of life like flowing water.
After marriage, Na Ying felt real happiness, and Meng Tong took good care of Na Ying in her life.
Soon after marriage, Na Ying gave birth to a daughter, named Apple, in order to take care of the family, she took a break from the music industry for a while, until her daughter was 3 years old before making a comeback.
Meng Tong is broad-minded, and he treats the son brought by Naying as his own child, and Happy has always thought that Meng Tong is his biological father.
In order to avoid disturbing Na Ying's peaceful life, Gao Feng rarely went to visit his son Xingxing.
Na Ying once agreed with Gao Feng not to reveal the identity of his biological father to him for the time being before he was happy.
The family of four lives a harmonious and happy life, and Na Ying almost forgot the pain that Gao Feng once brought her.
As Happy gradually grows up, his life experience is difficult to hide after all.
When 12-year-old Gao Xing was asked why his name did not match his parents, he began to look up on the Internet and found out that he was Na Ying's unmarried child, and his sister Apple was Meng Tong's biological daughter.
This discovery dealt a heavy blow to the young mind of Happy Young, and he began to become reticent and depressed.
Once at the dinner table, Na Ying noticed the strangeness of happiness, and he reluctantly ate half a steamed bun and went back to the room.
Na Ying mistakenly thought that her son was unwell and hurriedly cared for him, but found that Happy was closed and unwilling to communicate with her.
Na Ying discussed with Meng Tong that it might be that Xing Xing had entered adolescence and needed to find an appropriate time to have an in-depth conversation with him.
Happy but continued to avoid communicating with others during this period, which made Na Ying very confused.
Until one time, when Na Ying was packing Xingxing's schoolbag, she accidentally found that he repeatedly wrote on scratch paper: "Why did I grow up in such a family?" This sentence is like a key, revealing the source of happiness in his heart.
Na Ying felt deeply remorseful, recalling the name Gao Feng, although more than ten years have passed, it is still a thorn in her heart, and now even her son has been hurt because of it.
Ten minutes later, Na Ying choked up and apologized to his son, telling him that he didn't have to feel inferior, and that he received no less love in the family than any of his classmates.
Since then, the teachers of Na Ying and Meng Tong United School have guided and enlightened Xing Xing from multiple levels, helping him understand and accept his origins.
After a period of joint efforts, I was finally relieved, no longer entangled in my life experience, and began to face life positively.
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