It's all true. You love the sea, and I loved you.
Recently, Ji Lingchen talked emotionally about his ex-girlfriend Kan Qingzi when he participated in the show "Infinite Transcendence Class Season 2", and cried lonely: I regret it, I'm sorry for her. She gave her the best four years of her life, but I ended up failing her.
Looking back on the relationship between the two: In November 2015, the two participated in the show together, Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen made their relationship public, and on July 31, 2018, Kan Qingzi announced that he broke up with Ji Lingchen. The two have been dating for a total of 4 years, and Kan Qingzi gave the best four years of his life to this big boy.
Many people remember that Kan Qingzi's passionate love back then was undisguised, and her eyes were shining.
In this relationship, Kan Qingzi has always been leading the direction of the relationship between the two, love, you have to say it out loud, if you don't love, you will say it out loud, in this relationship with Ji Lingchen, Kan Qingzi took the initiative, warmly, loved him wholeheartedly, and then gave without reservation, all the time, it was this thin girl who carried everything on her shoulders.
In 2018, she turned 30 years old, and she wanted a home. She waited for her boyfriend Ji Lingchen, who had been in love for 4 years, to speak, and publicly shouted several times on the show: As long as you propose, I will marry.
Ji Lingchen was 26 years old at the time, and he was 4 years younger than his girlfriend, and he retreated, and finally the two regretted breaking up.
Kan Qingzi moved forward, fought for his career, and fell in love. In May 2023, Kan Qingzi was revealed to go home with her boyfriend for dinner with her family, and on May 30, Kan Qingzi accepted her boyfriend's marriage proposal, and the next step is the wedding date. I have to say that happiness will come eventually, albeit a little late.
Some injuries are destined to be unforgivable, but even so, we still have the right to love and be loved.
And 26-year-old Ji Lingchen has been at an impasse in his career since he left Kan Qingzi, and he has been tepid. Because he didn't have a diamond in the first place, all his self-confidence just came from a woman's love.
What's even worse is that since Ji Lingchen broke up, his career has stagnated, as long as he does something, someone will mention his relationship with Kan Qingzi back then. Basically, this man's career is locked, if there are no particularly good opportunities in the future, and then he can work hard to hone his acting skills and seize every opportunity to turn over, otherwise his career has reached its peak now.
Of course, in the future, he will be mentioned a few times because of Kan Qingzi, or because of the news of Kan Qingzi's marriage and Kan Qingzi.
That's it, Kan Qingzi has since become a woman that Ji Lingchen can't get, a red rose in his life, and a white moonlight that he can't get out of his heart.
26-year-old Ji Lingchen never imagined that Kan Qingzi would have such a profound impact on his life after that, and 31-year-old Ji Lingchen understood.
I wouldn't have been able to come to this show without her.
This should be something that 26-year-old Ji Lingchen doesn't want to admit, right? But 31-year-old Ji Lingchen has no choice but to see this fact. In the face of severe life, the so-called men's self-esteem is the flower in the moon mirror in the water.
A girlfriend who loves herself to the bones, a girl who dares to love and hate independently, all her requirements for you are not to have a house and a car, but just to accompany you, but you are hypocritical: I have to have a house and a car to marry you.
You said you weren't looking for a cigarette or something.
Therefore, the moment Ji Lingchen cried in the show, he should have seen his heart clearly. It's just that after 5 years of earthly smoke, they can't go back.
Writing this, I suddenly remembered that Shijun and Man Zhen met again after 14 years of separation in Zhang Ailing's "Half Life", the two held hands and looked at each other with tears in their eyes, for a long time, Man Zhen said with tears in his eyes: Shijun, we can't go back.
Standing at 30, 31-year-old Ji Lingchen should have the idea of starting a family now.
There is a vast sea of people, and where should he find the girl who is wholeheartedly good to him, and his reputation is low.
Judging from his face, Ji Lingchen's work has not been smooth in the past few years, and at the age of 31 this year, he has wind and frost on his face, and he has also experienced vicissitudes, and he no longer has the suave and handsome sense of youth of the year.
Kan Qingzi, who is 4 years older than him, seems to be rejuvenated, Kan Qingzi, who is 35 years old this year, still has a face of collagen, maybe it is a good mentality, maybe it is love to raise people, in short, after the two broke up, one took the sunny road and the other took the single-plank bridge.
Now there's a difference.
Physiognomy doesn't lie, everything about the New Year is hidden in the folds of your face.
From Ji Lingchen's fat figure and greasy middle-aged uncle's temperament, in the past 5 years, because he lost his empathetic girlfriend, he could only force himself to grow up and bear all the burdens of life, and then he became what he is now.
From the two tears he shed, the audience can better see the true face of this man: because he is not having a good time now, he will remember the past.
And he, when he was young, he was afraid that others would say that he was a little milk dog who relied on his girlfriend to eat soft rice, but now he doesn't care, and now that he has broken up with his ex-girlfriend, he is also willing to rub the heat.
Faced with the beating of life, Ji Lingchen gave in.
What do you think?