Recently, it is very popular to say that when I was young, I looked at the mountains as mountains, and the water was water, and later I found that the mountains were not mountains, and the water was not water. This sentence fully illustrates the psychological changes in our growth process.
After the age of fifty, we all fade away from our youth, and maturity gives us more charm. After the age of fifty, women who still remain young and look better and better have four golden qualities, look at how many you have. Everyone's tasting.
First, perseverance and endurance.
After the age of fifty, it is not IQ but endurance that widens the distance between people.
Before I retired, I had a colleague who took a leave of absence from work in '92 to create a dream. From a small restaurant to a coal mine owner, she experienced 15 years, but she listened to her friends' advice and invested all her income. Later, there was no return.
When people thought she had no power to turn over, she sold her villa and set up a printing house. Starting her business from scratch, she became a well-known entrepreneur ten years later.
She is like an unbeatable Xiaoqiang, with tenacious vitality and indomitable endurance, which has brought her to the pinnacle of life.
Persistence in life is wealth, as long as the direction is right, endurance is capital. So a woman with a good fortune has stamina.
Second, the mentality of embracing all things.
There is an old saying that people should see three times, see heaven and earth, see all beings, and see themselves. As long as you have seen these three things, your life will not be bad.
When you see heaven and earth, you will find that the power of people is limited, so you will be in awe. When you see sentient beings, you will find that there are thousands of people and thousands of faces, and you will give birth to a tolerant heart.
After the age of 50, most of our lives, we realize that tolerance brings us good luck. Let the days go by more smoothly.
If the family is tolerant and does not talk about right or wrong, then the family will be quiet and peaceful, the family style will be good, and the life will be smooth.
If you are tolerant at work, you will bring your own wealth, and your career will be successful, and your income will naturally not be low.
In the Book of Changes, it is said that the sky is dry and the earth is kun, men are dry, women are kun, and kun is inclusive of all things, so women with strong hearts are tolerant, and they don't care about everything, and their fate will not be bad. Good luck keeps coming.
Three, not ostentatious character.
All disasters start from showing off, so if women don't show off, there will be fewer disasters, detours will not appear, there will be less suffering in this life, fate will be smoother and smoother, and people will naturally be young.
I know a beautiful woman who is the top seller in our company and has a high commission. About two million a year. Every year when she came home, she would show off to her sisters, and every sister would be jealous of her.
The year before last, her hometown was demolished, and her parents gave half of each of their two children, but without her, she reasoned with her parents, and her parents said that she had a high income, so she would not go home in a fit of anger.
At the beginning of this year, her father was hospitalized for cancer, and her sisters didn't pay for it, but her parents still asked her for money, but she didn't give it, and her parents sued the court. Therefore, she suffered a lot of anger, and there was no benefit at all.
Therefore, women should keep their mouths shut and show off less, so that their fate will be smooth.
Fourth, the background color of kindness will never change.
People live in the world, they can not believe in ghosts and gods, but they must believe in cause and effect. Kindness is the cause, and happiness is the effect. So if you keep a good woman, your fate will not be bad.
I know a beautiful woman, very nice person, the neighbor is an old man, her children are in the UK, she is responsible for taking care of the old couple after she retires, and she does not need a salary.
The old man was very moved, the old man passed away at the beginning of this year, she helped the old man's children sell the house, and the old man's children were very grateful. Last month, her son went abroad to study, and happened to go to the United Kingdom, and the old man's children are also helping the children without pay. Reassure her. This is the good cause and the good effect.
After the age of fifty, we can see the essence of things, and each of us middle-aged people, after experiencing suffering, still maintains the essence of goodness. Life is not bad. We encourage each other. Let's look better and richer for the rest of our lives.
I am Sister Mi Li, a post-70s generation who loves to share, I like to share, remember to like and support to show encouragement. Thank you!