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Husbands and wives need to be considerate of each other.
A dating expert pointed out that everyone is a unique individual, and everyone has different personalities, habits and values. Even couples who get along day and night will have different personalities, habits and values between them, so it is inevitable that there will be various frictions and disagreements in the process of getting along with each other. In principle, husbands and wives must learn to appreciate each other's strengths, tolerate each other's shortcomings, and respect each other's uniqueness.
The marriage expert went on to point out that in everyday life, some couples tend to ignore each other's emotional needs, which can lead to dissatisfaction with each other. In fact, this kind of dissatisfaction should not arise, after all, people will have different ideas, and in the case of differences, how can they criticize each other according to their own ideas?
The marriage expert went on to point out that husbands and wives need to share responsibilities and obligations. One spouse must not put all the responsibilities and obligations he needs to bear on the other party, otherwise, it will be unfair. In the case of unfairness, it will lead to the displeasure of the other party, and once the other party's displeasure prevails, the conflict between the husband and wife will explode in an instant!
The marriage expert finally pointed out that in short, husband and wife must learn to be tolerant and forgiving. In the process of being together for a long time, it is inevitable that one spouse will make mistakes or do things that displease the other party. But the other party must learn to be tolerant, learn to appreciate each other's differences, care about each other's feelings, share responsibilities and obligations, and tolerate and forgive each other's mistakes.
However, in real life, there will always be some couples who are self-centered everywhere and criticize each other all the time!
No, on April 13, a netizen Zheng in Qinghai uploaded such a video on an online platform-------
Video
The video uploaded by Zheng on the online platform shows that a woman is lying on the bed and humming, while the woman's husband is around the woman, handing the woman towels and hot water to the woman, running before and after, and is very busy.
The video uploaded by Zheng on the online platform also shows: Although the woman's husband was sweating profusely, the woman kept scolding her husband for "useless" and "marrying you to live a crime", and when the woman's reprimands were too loud, she finally angered her husband, only to hear her husband scold: "Your aunt has a stomachache when she comes, should I blame me? Did I make your stomach hurt? I serve you carefully, you are still not satisfied, have you considered my feelings? I think: You deserve to die!"
The video uploaded by Zheng on the online platform continues to show: When the woman saw that her husband dared to scold herself like this, she immediately turned on the mode of replying to her husband, only to hear the woman reply: "You dare to scold me for deserving to die? I think you will die immediately, and you will not survive until dawn!"
Anyway, the woman replied to her husband in tongue. Since the dialect is difficult to understand and describe, it has to be ignored.
Netizen Zheng said that the uploaded video is a surveillance video, the woman in the video is called Li, the man in the video is called Chen, and the two are husband and wife. Because Li came to the eldest aunt, her stomach hurt a little, so she sprinkled her resentment on her husband Chen, although Chen was carefully serving her, but she was not satisfied, so she reprimanded her husband Chen. But what she didn't expect was that her husband Chen actually fought back against her!
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voices
Netizen gentleman loves money: her husband ran before and after serving Li, but Li not only didn't know how to be grateful, but reprimanded her husband Chen. I think: Li deserves to be scolded!
Netizen Qin Huaihe: I don't know if Li is still reasonable? Is it still wrong for her husband to serve her? Why should she reprimand her husband?
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
Lao Hu's point of view
Gratitude is a healthy mindset.
A sociologist pointed out that when you have received help from others, you must repay and thank others with a sincere heart, otherwise, you will be a person who does not know how to be grateful.
Lao Hu thinks: husband and wife should also know how to be grateful, because knowing how to be grateful can make the relationship between husband and wife more harmonious, so husband and wife need to know how to be grateful!