These ways of life, teachers and parents may not teach you, you can only rely on your own learning and comprehension. In today's society, if you want to be popular, you must understand these unspoken rules of society, even if you hate its hypocrisy.
1. Don't hate the hypocrisy of interpersonal relationships, if you hate it, you will lose;
2. Interpersonal relationship is a performance, the more people who can act, the better they will mix;
3. The leader tells you to buy cigarettes, and if you are serious, you will lose;
4. Don't educate other people's children, even if you are right, others are uncomfortable;
5. Don't easily show your hole cards and retain a little mystery;
6. In the workplace, sometimes you need to learn to play stupid, so as to avoid becoming a target;
7. Don't expect everyone to appreciate your kindness, some people will just take it for granted;
8. When getting along with others, learn to listen and don't always rush to express your opinions;
9. Don't judge others easily, because you don't know their stories;
10. In social situations, learn to praise others, but don't overdo it and appear hypocritical;
11. Sometimes, you need to learn to say "no", even if it offends you;
12. Don't expect others to fully understand you, because everyone has their own point of view;
13. When getting along with others, learn to be tolerant, and don't get angry because of a little thing;
14. In the workplace, learn to be grateful, don't always complain and demand;
15. Don't easily expose your negative emotions, learn to control and manage;
16. When getting along with others, learn to give, don't always ask and expect;
17. Sometimes, you need to learn to compromise because reality does not allow you to insist;
18. Don't expect others to do things your way, learn to accept and adapt;
19. In social situations, learn to control your drinking and don't let yourself lose your temper;
20. Don't easily believe in other people's promises, learn to look at actions;
21. When getting along with others, learn to respect and don't infringe on others' bottom lines;
22. Sometimes, you need to learn to let go, because some things can't be changed;
23. Don't expect others to appreciate your efforts, learn to be selfless;
24. In the workplace, learn to get along with people with different personalities, and don't only associate with people who are similar to yourself;
25. Don't get angry with others easily, learn to control your emotions;
26. When getting along with others, we must learn to be sincere, not hypocritical and pretentious;
27. Sometimes, you need to learn to say no, because not all requests are reasonable;
28. Don't expect others to fully support you, because everyone has their own position;
29. In social situations, learn to be polite, not rude and rude;
30. Don't give up your principles easily, learn to stick to them;
31. When getting along with others, learn to understand, and don't always cling to your own opinions;
32. Sometimes, you need to learn to take responsibility, because escaping will not solve the problem;
33. Don't expect others to help you all the time, learn to be independent;
34. In the workplace, learn to make progress and don't stay where you are;
35. Don't easily believe in other people's praise, learn to distinguish between truth and falsehood;
36. When getting along with others, learn to be tolerant, and don't turn your face because of a little thing;
37. Sometimes, you need to learn to wait because some things take time;
38. Don't expect others to do things exactly according to your ideas, learn to accept and respect;
39. In social situations, learn to protect yourself and don't trust others easily;
40. Don't easily expose your weaknesses and shortcomings, learn to hide and protect yourself.
This is society, a place full of complexities and challenges. In this big dye vat, we need to learn to protect ourselves and adapt to the environment while remaining sincere and kind. Are you ready to face this society, and how much have you learned?