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"Wife Culture": Is it Social Progress or Regression?

author:Bai Xiaole

"Wife literature" is popular in North America, and some women give up their jobs to become housewives and promote this lifestyle, which has sparked heated discussions among netizens.

The glamorous life of the "wife": Housewives such as Esther and Hanna show their lives beautifully, attracting other women to follow suit.

"The boss's wife lying on the sofa" is popular: women wear exquisite dresses and lie on the sofa to take pictures, which is accused of objectifying women and triggering discussions about women's independence.

"Wife Culture": Is it Social Progress or Regression?

Questioning "Wife Literature": Netizens believe that "Wife Literature" is a satire and discrimination against women, emphasizing that women should be independent and autonomous.

The correction of extreme feminism, the future society is that if you want to be an independent woman, you will go to the workplace to work hard, and if you want to be a wife, you will return to the family. Everything is free to choose.

The law in the United States is that if either spouse does not work and takes care of the family, he or she can take half of the income from the other's work. It's the same with the man's return to the family.

This was the case in the fifties and sixties in the United States, where stay-at-home housewives wore the same retro clothes as they do now. At that time, the welfare was good, and an average American worker could support a large family with a month's income.

"Wife Culture": Is it Social Progress or Regression?

As long as you are comfortable, there is no need to take your career so seriously, and there is no need to make women's rights so strong. If a man has enough money to support his family, and a woman likes a family, what's not to do.

Those who say that the money is not enough, there are also some who seek their own guilt in order to satisfy their vanity.

A group of people who are not qualified to have a "wife" are commenting on the wife culture.

In my opinion, ordinary migrant workers do not deserve a "spoiled wife". There is no other reason, the wallet is not bulging.

"Wife Culture": Is it Social Progress or Regression?

I imagine that the person who can have a "wife" must have at least one million a year, and it must be a stable million (no need to worry about being fired). Teacher Luo said that if you are fostered, don't talk about an independent personality, it's really good to scold people accurately.

It is a bit strange to find that independent women are conducive to social development, and I dare not agree that if independent women do not get married and do not have children, how can society develop? Too independent may be the other extreme.

I'm not an independent woman, but I'm not a wife, I'm just a mother who doesn't go to work and take care of her children at home, and I'm busy shopping for daily necessities when my children go to school.

"Wife Culture": Is it Social Progress or Regression?

Maintaining beauty every day in front of the camera, cooking food, doing housework clean and organized, and taking care of children is high-intensity work in itself. It's work.

It's impossible to have a super strong body with great energy, or without the help of a team shooting, ordinary housewives are tortured by their children's housework every day to the point that they don't have the strength to move superfluously, let alone this level of exquisiteness.

Americans do not understand the true meaning of "wife" literature in the Chinese context. Either give up the future, the husband and the children, or the wife. The wife of the Bay Area must vigorously show how her husband earns millions a year and how he earns himself for nothing, both are indispensable!

"Wife Culture": Is it Social Progress or Regression?

Ancient Chinese culture shows that the division of labor in traditional Chinese culture is different, and women can make human beings reproduce more at home and are more suitable for human development.

The culture of the wife should be the original model of civilized society, the roles of men and women are different, each has its own specialty, it should be according to their respective role ability, modern words called professional, so that work and life can be orderly.

If the social system does not protect women's rights and interests, then returning to the family is self-defeating.

Women are needed to build a sound security system. It's foolish to expect a bunch of men to put themselves in the shoes of women to improve maternity leave, benefits, and divorce rights. Women must have a voice in all walks of life at all times.

"Wife Culture": Is it Social Progress or Regression?

The truth is that competence perception is not related to gender. What is relevant is the support and encouragement of girls in family education.

The culture of the wife is a regression in society.

Speaking of which, you have to have money! If you don't have money, can your wife take care of the children at home? If you have money, it's casual. For North America, children under the age of 12 must be cared for, and complaints will be filed if no one takes care of them.

Losing the right to take care of the child, the cost of hiring someone is not as good as watching the child yourself, the popular wife culture is also normal, there are more women over forty years old in the workplace, in contrast, the workplace rate of Chinese women is higher, and there are elderly people in China who have assumed the obligation to support the third generation.

"Wife Culture": Is it Social Progress or Regression?

China is a low-income country, and for the vast majority of people, one person cannot support a family by working, and the country hopes that both men and women will participate in the work, create social wealth, and jointly support their families.

This is the true meaning of Chinese-style equality between men and women, that is, everyone is required to work, so don't say that men's social responsibility is to support their families, which is not designed that way at the national level.

And the American wife is a housekeeper with a baby, how did it become outsourced when she arrived in China, and she is no different from the mistress of the third child, and she is called a wife?

"Wife Culture": Is it Social Progress or Regression?

If a woman teaches her husband and children at home, and a man earns money in society to support his family, I mean, if this society will still be so rolly, will men still be so rolled?

Capital promotes women's rights and amplifies women's rights, in addition to increasing consumption power, it also increases the working population, and if post-00 girls return to the family, it will be capital that will shed tears.

Wife. First of all, it's delicate, if you don't have the qualifications to be delicate, it's better to work honestly to earn money. There are some things that have nothing to do with lazy women, ugly women.

"Wife Culture": Is it Social Progress or Regression?

You say husbands and children, they say independent women, you say independent women, they are already husbands and children, Westerners are not as transparent as China's history.

In the end, it is just a return to the old way, but we ourselves are led astray, thinking that their ignorance that has not been tested by history is advanced, and that westernization must be a slap in the face of Westernizers, and that's it.

I really think these things are boring, the circles are different, the education is different, the three views are different, the personalities are different, and the choices made are also different.

Filming a joke has led to a large number of people, so they all follow suit, and the lives of ordinary people also think that I want to be like this, a joke is a joke, or return to reality and live in your own world!

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