The experience of the doctoral teacher not only caused her physical and mental suffering and blows, but also followed the gut and hurt her, that is, her mother and father.
If there is such a big change in their children, how can parents be indifferent?
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Two days ago, a fellow villager said in the comment area: "My hometown is less than ten kilometers away from Xiangyi's hometown, and her parents are both croppers. ”
This fellow also told me: "My child also studies for a doctorate, and he is a doctor in the United States. I am a close fellow countryman of Xiangyi Zhang Ting, and it is very sad to see her experience. ”
The nostalgia is still like this, how can the husband and mother even feel embarrassed.
We can think of the feeling of happiness, pride and pride when the appropriate mother and father, this responsible farmer couple, watching their smart daughter, who has excellent grades all the way in elementary school, middle school, and university, and has been admitted to the doctorate, and has become a university teacher after graduation.
When some people describe this happy mood, they say that they can laugh out loud in their sleep.
However, when their daughter was forced to resign due to cyberbullying due to careless remarks, and flew home like an injured bird, their happiness suddenly dropped to the freezing point.
As a farmer, he may not have much culture, let alone make a big sense. They were afraid that their daughter would be sad, so they didn't dare to ask, they didn't dare to ask, and they were afraid of touching their daughter's scars. The only thing they can do is to force a smiling face and accompany their daughter to heal.
(Mom and Dad cleaned up a studio for her at night, and Dad bought a badminton racket to play with her.) ）
The mother secretly cried and said: "Mom knows you best, you love to teach the most, and you love to stand on the podium and give lectures to students in the sunshine, and the baby has to come back."
If you don't suffer a big grievance, how can you resign, you feel uncomfortable, you can't say it, who can you say about those grievances. ”
Dad said to himself: "When you come back, I haven't slept for three days and three nights, and I feel very uncomfortable." You've been studying for so many years, and you've finally become a teacher. ......”
"It is the habit of the two of Shaanxi to use us, please don't embarrass her, just like the Northeast people are used to saying us, and we often say our father and mother in the spoken language. A netizen said.
At that time, in the live broadcast room, in order to increase the atmosphere, facing the audience (of course, foreign audiences such as Japan are not excluded), Xiang Yi naturally used "we".
What kind of person is their daughter, they know best in their hearts that she is by no means a "Japanese element" or a "Japanese spy", and she will never believe it if she is killed.
But at this point, there is no way back to the way it used to be.
Suitable encounters can be experienced by those who have become parents, and this ruthless blow will be the pain of Mom and Dad for the rest of their lives.
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