I was born in 1970, 54 years old, retired for more than three years, with three pension increases, and I am very content.
After I retired, I chose to learn to write with a paid course and make my own account.
Have been doing it for more than three years, and are often asked by others, do you make money?
I would like to say that for paying for learning after retirement, it is a person's cognition.
Some people feel that they can write as they want;
There are also people who believe that the needs of readers are different depending on the times, and to learn from professional teachers is to keep up with the times.
Most of our students are young mothers who learn to write to improve themselves.
I learned to write in order to earn more than my retirement pension and realize my dreams when I was younger.
In the first year, I was often hit by my wife, saying that I was immersed in hard writing, and it was not as good as him to earn more by browsing the web.
The first time I saw that the income was three cents, I also took a screenshot of my friend and told her that when I could withdraw it, I would invite her to a big dinner.
It has been said that the slowest pace is not a step, but a wandering, and the fastest pace is far from a sprint, but perseverance.
Continuing to write, I found that I was less interested in the benefits and more concerned about what I felt inside.
I now see writing as the same as tai chi, I feel uncomfortable when I don't boxing every day, I don't write something every day, I feel like I've done something less.
Perhaps, this is the change that insisting on writing has brought to me: after retirement, learning to write and making an account, in addition to the benefits, I also gained the following.
1. Heal yourself in writing and enjoy your alone time more.
In Writing as Healing: Words to Rewrite Lives, Ellison Van Lun writes:
Most people don't really express themselves in their lives.
In the writing camp sharing, a senior sister said that she had healed herself through writing.
"Writing is the cheapest treatment in history," she said.
Heal with writing and warm each other. See heaven and earth, see all beings, see yourself.
In writing, we will eventually meet our true selves.
I have been writing for so long, and I have been happy when I was in the wind, and I was also disappointed when I was at a low point.
In the process of writing, what really brought me was not the gain, but the healing of my body and mind.
I once talked to my daughter that if I hadn't kept writing, I wouldn't be in the state of mind I am now.
People have a heart of comparison, but also have a heart of calculation, hiding well is called living clearly, hiding well is an abnormal mentality.
After retiring, the children of colleagues around him went to work one after another, got married, and had babies.
But my daughter is chasing her dreams all the way, and she has also had a period of confusion.
Will it be to support it with all her might, or to cut off the financial support that is given to her.
People always want to get what they don't have, and when they see their peers with babies, they are still a little lost in their hearts.
Through reading and writing, I can release my inner thoughts through short stories.
Slowly learn to see away, but also gradually understand the truth of life, and learn to enjoy alone time.
2. The mood is getting better and better, the mood is getting more and more stable, and you can learn to love yourself.
Writing, love is only the foundation, a good attitude is the key. Don't be discouraged by the lack of reading, and don't give up because of poor returns.
A friend once asked me, "Have you earned back your writing tuition over the years?"
People are not so interested in learning about it, but they are very interested in the fact that you make money, and they always want to know how much money you are making and whether it is worth it.
I told my friend that through the paid learning in the past few years, I have made an account, gained a lot of fans, and also had some benefits. But most importantly, writing has been a decisive change in my own growth.
When I first made an account, I would suffer from gains and losses, be emotionally affected by the daily income, and also affect my mood due to the amount of reading.
However, after three years of writing, I understand that the purpose of learning to make an account is not only to make money, but also to sort out myself and enrich my retirement life.
Recording your life on the Internet, expressing your feelings, and learning to write various articles from teachers is a kind of learning attitude, so that you can have things you like to do after retirement.
I have figured it out, and I have seen it through, I will no longer be disturbed by the income and the amount of reading, I write my heart by hand, no longer pursue the quantity and profit, but "look at the mood".
This is also a sentence I learned after watching "Hot and Hot", people always have to win once in life, decide whether they want to or not depending on their mood, and learn how to truly love themselves.
Last month, my daughter came home from out of town and told us very good news and witnessed a leap in her growth.
I praised my daughter for being my role model, but she said I was her role model.
She said that other parents only ask their children to fly, but I try to fly on my own, so as to motivate my daughter to work hard to live herself.
3. Improve cognition, learn to give correctly, and find the fun of the rest of your life.
Kazuo Inamori said: "One thing, if you persist in doing it for three days, it is a whim, if you persist for three months, it is just on the field, and if you persist for three years, then it can be regarded as a career." ”
I saw that some netizens said that their health was damaged because of writing, not only their eyes couldn't stand it, but they also had serious cervical spondylosis, so they had to give up this hobby.
In my opinion, it is a rare thing for us retirees, especially women who retire at the age of 50, to be able to have a hobby of their own, and it is a pity to give up easily.
Do everything in moderation, don't think of writing as a burden, or as a task, it's a workload. Stipulate what time you have to wake up every day, how many articles you have to write, and how many pages you have to read.
I think that in the process of writing and making an account after retirement, you should look more at your mood, have the idea of "winning once", write casually, and do these things as you like.
If you monetize your writing as making money, you often lose more than you gain, and your retirement life is hijacked by writing, which is more than worth the loss.
If you don't want to write, you can leave the computer, go out to see nature, and exercise with the army; if you want to write, turn on the computer, record your current life, improve your cognition, and learn how to give correctly.
So that on the long road to the rest of your life, you can find your true joy.
Author: Huagui Zen Heart
Follow my words and go into your heart. You have a story, I have tea, and we can talk about the rest of our lives together.
The pictures in the article come from the Internet.
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