Regarding love, I have heard such words: "People's feelings depend on a heart, whether they can be connected by heart, by a love, whether they can go to the end, by the deep and shallow edge, and by the affection and affection." ”
Fate is very strange, maybe it will land on us one day, and when we want to fall in love, we can't meet the right person for a long time.
When people who love each other are together, they have thoughts and concerns, and when they fall in love with someone, it is normal to miss them.
When the love is strong, if you don't see each other for a day, you will feel sad and unhappy if you don't see it for a minute.
When you miss someone, you are afraid that the other party is just busy resting, and you are afraid of disturbing it, so you must know that when a man asks you "what are you doing", these 4 replies from a smart woman seem to have high emotional intelligence!
01
"Guess what?"
When a man asks a woman what she is doing, it is most likely that the man wants to chat with the woman and connect with the relationship.
"What are you doing?" is an awkward question, and many people don't really like to answer such boring questions.
But a woman with high emotional intelligence, the reason why many people like it is because she knows how to solve the siege from her own method when she is embarrassed, even if she doesn't want to answer, letting people guess is also a good way to resolve the embarrassment, and it can also bring a feeling that this woman is very mysterious to men.
02
"I'm thinking about you"
Such an answer will surprise the man, although it will make the man unprepared, but such an answer will have some touch in the man's heart.
No man will refuse a woman with a sweet mouth, especially the kind of woman who can make her soft heart as soon as she opens her mouth, and no man can resist it.
So when a man asks a woman what she is doing on WeChat, the woman casually replies "I'm thinking about you", which man would refuse a woman with a sweet mouth?
03
"I was wondering when you were looking for me, and then I got your message"
When a man asks you what you're doing, you can instantly make him think you're an interesting person with this humorous way of replying.
This kind of answer can also make the chat atmosphere between you more relaxed.
When a man receives a reply from you, he can't help but give you extra points, and your relationship will go further.
And such an answer can also reflect your high emotional intelligence, which can make the other party feel your enthusiasm and will be more willing to chat with you.
04
"Did you miss me?"
The man sends "What are you doing?", it is nothing more than wanting to chat with you, which is just a reason for chatting.
Seeing through it or not saying it, a woman can say it straightforwardly. It is better for a woman to tell him directly, "Do you miss me?", maybe the man will be scared by your direct at first, but he will care more and more about you when he gets used to it.
Women who are enthusiastic and active may be more popular, and women must know how to take the initiative to show their hearts, and men will be more concerned about you.
05
Emotional message
Mu Xin wrote in "Once Upon a Time": "In the past, the sun became slow, cars, horses, and mail were slow, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime. ”
In contemporary times, communication tools are developed, and communication between two people can be done at the touch of a finger. There are more and more opportunities to chat with each other, and the management of relationships becomes simpler.
A wise woman, when she speaks, always grasps the speed of emotional development.
Women with high emotional intelligence will know how to reply to men, to adjust each other's emotions, and to make life more interesting.
Learning to speak, learning to respond to men's messages, it is easier to make love burn hot.
A wise woman, by responding to a man's message, can step by step into the depths of his heart.
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