Recently, the topics of "ADHD boy bullying classmates, 46 parents petitioning to let him transfer to another school" and "children who bullied classmates and were persuaded to quit have taken online classes at home" have frequently appeared on the hot search list.
On April 12, the reporter came to the school involved, and the relevant person in charge of the campus said that the parents of the two sides had reached a settlement on April 1, and the student had been taken home by the parents on the same day for temporary online classes. "The head teacher will pay attention to his learning every day and will return to school after the May Day holiday. ”
The main entrance of the school involved
"He transferred on February 26 of this semester, and it has only been more than a month. The relevant person in charge of the campus told reporters that this boy is not very naughty, and he can't talk about "bullying" at all, but he is a little disobedient. "For example, when the class leader pulls him into the classroom, he may push others or kick them with his feet. When he didn't listen to the lecture in class, his classmates reminded him that he might not listen. ”
The relevant staff of the campus said that they had received complaints from parents before, and the school also communicated with the boys and parents involved in a timely manner. "As a school, we should be responsible for every child, supervise more, and guide children more positively. ”
Previously reported
The boy bullied his classmates many times
Forty-six parents collectively petitioned for their transfer
On March 29, parent Wu (pseudonym) said in a group of parents of a first-grade class of a primary school in Wuhan that his child was kicked in the private parts by Xiao Ming (pseudonym), a new transfer student, at school that day, "kicked three times, and the child was in great pain." Soon, some parents replied that their children had also been beaten by Xiao Ming.
"My child was pushed a few times by him (Xiao Ming) at the stairs, but fortunately there was no accident. A parent told reporters that after Wu's words were sent out in the group, he asked his child, and only then did he learn that Xiao Ming had bullied other classmates many times since he was transferred to the class.
Xiao Ming's parents were called in the first few beatings, and at that time, he and his parents had a better apology attitude and wrote a letter of guarantee. The parent told reporters that at that time, other parents were also willing to forgive Xiao Ming and give him a chance to make amends. But what we didn't expect was that Xiao Ming not only did not change, but beat other classmates several times for no reason, and even threatened his classmates not to tell their parents. ”
Parents of boys:
I went to the hospital for a check-up and showed ADHD
On April 1, the parents of the other 46 students in the class jointly submitted a "petition" to the school, asking Xiao Ming to transfer to another school, otherwise they would not dare to let their children continue to go to school.
A joint "petition" from parents. (According to the interviewee)
On April 2, under the coordination of the police, Xiao Ming's mother signed a safety guarantee letter to the parents of a student who had been beaten before, promising to take the initiative to let Xiao Ming transfer to another school if there were any more beatings, verbal abuse, intimidation and other behaviors that hurt the whole class.
Regarding the parents' "petition", Xiao Ming's mother, Ms. Wang, told reporters that she had been kicked out of the parent group and did not know the follow-up. "The child has already been brought home and is not in school," Ms. Wang said, "and the school asked me to take it back and go back to school when it is corrected." ”
Ms. Wang said that she had taken Xiao Ming to the hospital for a check-up, "showing ADHD, but the doctor said that 80% of the children had it, and he did not give a diagnosis certificate or prescribed medicine." Therefore, Ms. Wang believes that Xiao Ming's various performances are only because he wants to play with his classmates, but he can't communicate normally, "and then he clapps or hits (classmates) with his hands."
Special Education Specialists:
Transferring schools does not resolve the issue, and professional treatment should be actively sought
Cai Xiaoli, deputy director of the Special Education Resource Center of Wuhou District, Chengdu, also told reporters that for children with ADHD or mania, they are far from meeting the standards for going to special education schools, but in ordinary schools, they are prone to some out-of-character behaviors, which need to be solved according to specific situations.
Cai Xiaoli said that such children generally have emotional and behavioral problems, and often because a certain environment or event cannot meet their needs, they will cause their own emotional changes or excessive behavior, and even hurt and attack others. But not all accompanying students are effective, like the cases we have come into contact with, after children with ADHD are asked to accompany their parents, their emotions worsen.
For children with ADHD who are asked to transfer schools, Cai Xiaoli said that such children actually have slower neurological development and poor self-control, and because they don't pay attention to it, they think that transferring to another school can solve it, "but even in the new environment, they will continue to hit people, and the vicious circle of this will make the child think that he is not accepted by society, which will lead to more serious antisocial psychology." ”
Cai Xiaoli suggested that parents of children with ADHD should pay attention to their children's psychological problems and actively seek professional psychological institutions for treatment, "Be sure to follow the doctor's instructions to take medicine, because the medicine has a calming effect on the child's neurodevelopment and can help the child relieve his excessive emotions and behavior." ”
Source: Comprehensive CCTV Network, Red Star News