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This is my wedding day with my husband Wang Ming. As a newcomer, I am looking forward to this momentous moment with a sense of anticipation and happiness. The preparations for the wedding were hectic and challenging, but with the help of her husband and mother-in-law, everything was in order.
Today is an important gathering day for the big family, and my mother-in-law, Xing, has invited a few old friends to bless us. I've prepared some home-cooked dishes for this gathering, and I hope you all have a great time. As soon as the mother-in-law entered the door, she exclaimed: "Wow, Lu'er, you are so beautiful today, this skirt is very flattering to you." I hurriedly replied: "Mother-in-law, you are too polite, you are also dressed gorgeously today, and you are very generous." "I am sincerely grateful to my mother-in-law for her kindness and tolerance, she always gives me a sense of security and warmth.
In the kitchen, we were busy with the final preparations and chatting a few words of homely things from time to time. My mother-in-law asked me with concern, "Baby, are you okay during your pregnancy, is there anything uncomfortable?" I hurriedly smiled and said, "Mother-in-law, don't worry, my baby and I are healthy, and you are our best 'nutritionist'." The mother-in-law nodded with satisfaction, with a kind look. I sincerely hope that I can become a virtuous and considerate mother-in-law like Xing's mother in the future.
Just as we were getting together, my husband Wang Ming suddenly asked me, "Honey, why are you kneeling on the ground? Everyone is looking at you." I was taken aback and hurriedly replied: "This is a part of our preparation in advance, let me swear to be a good daughter-in-law in the presence of everyone." I knelt on the cold marble floor, my face flushed and tears glistening in the corners of my eyes. I was really puzzled why my mother-in-law asked me to do this at the wedding. I felt ashamed and aggrieved in my heart, was this really the wedding I had been waiting for?
At this time, the husband said righteously: "Mom, I think this is very inappropriate, can you please respect our wedding?" But the mother-in-law said angrily: "What do you know, this is our traditional wedding custom, and it cannot be changed." You should thank me for organizing such a grand wedding for you!" After saying that, he left the scene with a huff. My husband and I looked at each other in disbelief. I felt that my married life was not as good as I imagined, and I couldn't help but burst into tears.
Seeing that I was heartbroken, my husband Wang Ming hurriedly stepped forward to help me up and looked at me with concern: "Baby, I'm really sorry, I didn't expect my mother-in-law to do this." But I'll be on your side, and I'll never let this happen again. "He comforted me gently.
When I heard my husband's words, I looked at him gratefully and knew in my heart that it was not his fault. I wiped away my tears and said, "I know you must be embarrassed too, we should have a good conversation." "
My husband hugged me tightly and kissed me gently to wipe the tears from my face. I snuggled into his warm embrace and felt his support and understanding. We looked at each other and smiled, encouraging each other to get out of this difficult situation.
At this time, the husband said seriously, "Mom, we need to have a good talk with you." The purpose of our marriage is to form a happy family, not to show off family status and traditional ideas. "
But the mother-in-law said angrily: "You young people are just ignorant, this is a tradition left by our ancestors, and you dare to oppose it!"
I have mixed feelings in my heart, and I know that this is a traditional custom that my mother-in-law is proud of. But as newcomers, how we feel is also important. I said sincerely, "Mom, you're right, this is indeed a tradition left by our ancestors. But times are changing, and we should be more considerate of the feelings of the newcomers. We should approach new things with tolerance and understanding, rather than sticking to old things. "
The mother-in-law was silent for a moment, and her face gradually calmed down. I believe that as long as we communicate with our hearts, we will be able to resolve this conflict. As an elder, she should give us more understanding and support, instead of blindly forcing us to follow tradition.
At the same time, I am grateful to my husband for his continued support and maintenance. He not only cherishes me, but is also willing to stand up for me and defend my interests. As husband and wife, we need to trust each other and work together to create a harmonious and happy family.
In the long married life, it is inevitable to encounter some twists and turns and challenges. But as long as we resolve the conflict with love and understanding, I believe that we will be able to find a solution that satisfies both parties. My husband and I walked out of the wedding holding hands with happy smiles on our faces. We will work together to continue on a new path and pave a path of peace and happiness for our little family.
After leaving the wedding scene, my husband Wang Ming and I returned to our new home. At this time, my heart was still a little turbulent, but with the care and comfort of my husband, I gradually calmed down.
"My dear, I'm so sorry today to have you so wronged at your wedding. I will definitely communicate with my mother well, and this kind of thing will never happen again in the future. Wang Ming took my hand and said sincerely.
"It's okay, Ming, I know it's not your fault. The purpose of our marriage is to form a happy family, and I believe that as long as we understand each other, everything will be fine. I said softly.
At this time, Wang Ming hugged me tightly and remained silent for a long time. I could feel the guilt and distress in his heart, and he was always thinking about me all the time. I gently hugged back, feeling safe and warm in his arms like never before.
Just as we were hugging each other, the doorbell rang. We glanced at each other, and we both knew in our hearts that this must be Mother Xing's coming. Wang Ming took a deep breath, walked to the door and opened it.
"Mom, you're here. We're trying to talk to you. Wang Ming said in a calm tone.
"If you have anything to say, just say it. Xing's mother said a little stiffly.
I walked up to Wang Ming, looked at Xing's mother deeply, and said sincerely: "Mom, I know that today's incident makes you feel unhappy and makes me and Ming very embarrassed. But as newcomers, how we feel is also important. The purpose of our marriage is to form a happy family, not to show off family status and traditional ideas. "
Xing's mother was silent for a long time, her brows furrowed. I could feel her inner struggle, after all, the tradition meant so much to her. Still, I decided to continue: "Mom, you're right, this is indeed a tradition left by our ancestors. However, times are changing, and we should be more considerate of the feelings of the newcomers. We should approach new things with tolerance and understanding, rather than sticking to old things. "
After listening to my words, Xing's mother's expression softened. She sighed and said, "I understand your thoughts, and I know that my approach may be too tough. As an elder, I should give more understanding and support, instead of blindly forcing you. Maybe I should also learn to accept new things and keep up with the times. "
Wang Ming and I glanced at each other and felt that the boulder in our hearts had finally landed. We believe that as long as we communicate with our hearts, everything will be fine.
"Well, I'll try to understand your thoughts. I also hope to be a better mother-in-law and grandmother. Xing's mother nodded, with an apologetic look on her face.
Looking at this scene in front of me, I felt extremely relieved in my heart. The repair of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law requires careful communication and mutual understanding on both sides. I believe that as long as we tolerate and respect each other, we will be able to create a more harmonious and happy family.
Although we have experienced some ups and downs today, we have finally come together. Wang Ming and I walked out of the wedding scene hand in hand, with happy smiles on our faces. We believe that as long as we trust each other, we will be able to continue on a new path and pave a peaceful and happy path for our small family.
After reconciling with my mother-in-law, my husband Wang Ming and I finally ushered in the sweet time of married life. Together, we discussed how to decorate our new home, and discussed the name and growth plan of our future baby. On this day of love and anticipation, we are all full of excitement and joy.
One day, Wang Ming and I went to the hospital for a prenatal checkup. The doctor told me that everything was going well and that the baby's development was very good. Hearing the news, Wang Ming and I looked at each other and smiled, and hugged each other excitedly. I sincerely said to Wang Ming: "My dear, I am very grateful for your company and support, and I believe that under your care, my baby and I will be safe and healthy." Wang Ming kissed my forehead lightly and said gently: "You are the person I cherish the most, I will definitely take good care of you." "
In the days that followed, Wang Ming would care about my physical condition every day when he came back from work, and patiently gave me a massage to relax. Sometimes they will cook me some nutritious meals to make me eat healthier. I sincerely thank him for his thoughtfulness and love for this man deeply. Together, we are looking forward to the arrival of our baby, busy preparing all kinds of necessities for him, and we are looking forward to the new stage.
When I was almost 7 months pregnant, Xing's mother offered to help take care of me and the baby. Wang Ming and I are very relieved to know that with such a caring backing as my mother-in-law, our small family will be happy.
As a result, Xing's mother often came to our house to help with cooking, cleaning, and chatting with me. Our relationship has also become more and more harmonious, and she has changed from a serious mother-in-law to a kind and considerate elder. Sometimes, the three of us would drink tea and chat together in the living room, and the scene of the joy made me feel very warm.
One day, I was chatting with Xing's mother in the living room, and she suddenly said, "Lu'er, when the baby is born in the future, you must take good care of him." As a mother-in-law, I will also do my best to support and help you. I looked at her with emotion and said, "Mom, I'll take good care of the baby." I also wish I could be a kind and considerate mother like you. "
Mother Xing smiled and nodded, her eyes shining with love. I am sincerely grateful to this understanding mother-in-law, who gave me a warm home. With her help, Wang Ming and I will be able to successfully get through the run-in period of new parents and create a growth environment full of love and security for our baby.
Finally, one day at the 39th week of my pregnancy, I gave birth to a healthy boy as scheduled. Looking at the sleeping baby in swaddling clothes, Wang Ming and I cried with joy. The arrival of this little life has added endless joy and happiness to our family.
During the postpartum recovery period, Xing's mother took care of me and the baby meticulously. She would cook some tonifying soup regularly and patiently taught me how to take care of the baby. With her meticulous care, my body and mind have been well recuperated.
One day, when I was basking in the sun in the living room with my baby in my arms, Xing's mother came over and looked at us gently: "Lu'er, you look more energetic." It's so gratifying that the baby is so healthy. I looked at her gratefully and said, "Yes, Mom, thanks to your good care." I really appreciate you so much. "
Xing's mother smiled and nodded, reaching out and gently playing with the baby's little hand. "You are the backbone of this family, and I just want to do my part," she said. In the future, I will also learn more to be a qualified grandmother. "
When I heard this, my eyes instantly moistened. Xing's mother's words were sincere and warm, which made me feel her wisdom and mind as an elder. I took her hand and said solemnly, "Mom, you are our best grandmother." I believe that with your company, we will be able to become a happy family. "