How can you tell if a woman is happy or not?
The saying "the face is born from the heart" is not bad at all.
I have a female neighbor who is 40 years old this year, and when I saw her during the Spring Festival, I almost couldn't recognize her.
In my impression, she is delicate, fair-skinned, and her figure is very outstanding, I used to be very jealous of her, and I also lamented the injustice of God, why am I also a woman, I look so ordinary, and he and she look so good?
But now, she's completely different.
Her face was sallow, her face was haggard, the bags under her eyes drooped, her cheekbones were getting higher and higher, and the blue tendons on her neck were particularly noticeable.
If I didn't know her real age, I would have mistakenly thought she was 50 years old.
She got married, married several times, and gave birth to 6 or 7 children, but after a divorce, she left the house, asking for money but no money, and no children.
According to her mother, she now has 2 children with her current husband.
I greeted her, and she politely responded.
Although she looked smiling, I always felt that her smile was reluctant, and the smile was far-fetched and a little ugly.
As a former sister, I can't help but want to care about her married life now.
I asked her, "Lan, your husband is very good to you, right?"
She smiled and replied, "Well, he's very nice to me, and I'll spend all the money he earns!
I said, "That's good! It's not going to hit you or anything, is it?"
I guess she didn't expect me to ask so directly, a little embarrassed, I guess I guessed that I might also understand something, her mother is a big mouth, a little something, can't hide words, likes to talk everywhere.
She hesitated for a moment, but still confessed to me: "I used to fight twice, both of which were drunk and confused, but now I have changed and stopped fighting." ”
I nodded, didn't ask any more questions, and after a few more pleasantries, we went back to our respective homes.
Actually, I usually pay attention to her circle of friends, and she usually posts some photos with her husband and children, and every time she is a careful P picture, she looks happy and sweet.
But I knew very well in my heart that these were all pretended to be shown to others.
Whether a woman is happy or not can be seen by looking at her smile.
Some people laugh without scruples, their facial features are exaggerated and distorted, but they are very real, this kind of smile comes from the heart, this is a happy smile.
Some people laugh and don't smile, it's obvious that they are forced to laugh, and if you look closely, there is bitterness hidden in the folds of the flesh, and the happiness on the surface is hypocritical, a performance, and a disguise.
So, I don't like to watch the circle of friends more and more now, some people say that they are recording life, but in fact, they are setting up people, always trying to show how nourishing they are, how happy and beautiful their lives are, showing off their wealth, showing affection, showing children, and getting to the bottom of it, just to gain the recognition of others in these hypocritical performances.
People who are truly wealthy will not flaunt their wealth;
Really happy people don't go to show;
In fact, whether a person is happy or not, others will not empathize, only oneself can experience it personally.
This happiness is just like a person drinking water, knowing its own warmth and coldness.
